Epytropos
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ORIGINAL: littlewonder
eerr...sorry but your new girlfriend should have been the one in jail and she REALLY...I can't stress this enough...she should REALLLY not be a pro-domme and what's going to happen when she gets upset with you for something?
I'd be running, not walking away from this situation. She sounds dangerous as shit.
Like I said in your other post about her...good luck with that. I don't see this as lasting at all.
Your girlfriend needs some serious therapy and I would suggest you seek one too if you're choosing her as your girlfriend and/or Mistress.
Pretty much this. If you let a client get that out of hand in the first place, you are shit at your job. Further, the only way the scenario outlined makes sense is if she was weaker but had significant martial arts training or the protection of almighty God. We're talking about a situation in which one person is strong enough to throw another up against a wall, but still gets knocked out cold by the same person without having any chance to fight back? Not impossible, but highly unlikely. Further, if she did knock him out and then break his hand, intentionally, maliciously, and with no regard to safety, she should be in jail. Not just out of the business (though definitely that; absolutely 100% gone from any BDSM play with anyone under any circumstances), in prison until such time as she is deemed fit to reenter society.
You describe her as being enraged, pissed off, etc. There's a more precise word for that: We call it out of fucking control. Do you know who is not, under any circumstances whatsoever, allowed to be out of control? People who claim to be dominants. We are responsible for the safety of human beings, often in situations where they are abjectly helpless. If you can't control your anger, you shouldn't put yourself in that situation. If you can imagine any circumstance in a BDSM setting where you would lose control of yourself and act violently and irrationally, you should not be a dominant. Period. Even if we assume her actions were acceptable in a vanilla setting (which they weren't by any stretch of the imagination) she is still not fit to hold a whip.
I'm not one prone to statements of abject certainty, preferring to let people go their own way, but there are certain absolutes which should be obvious to all rational people. I'm also not one to cry assault with mutual combat, but even excepting the implications as regards to BDSM if you have someone unconscious and you're taking active steps to do permanent damage to them, you deserve to be in jail. That's not honorable combat, that's childish violence. The fact that she is only being sued is a testament to how fucked up our legal system is.
If you really want to be involved with that sort of person, that's your call; I support people's right to make terrible decisions as we all do, but if I see you back here in a month crying over your missing fingers, you had it coming.
Also, while we're on the subject, the phrase "pretty much" is never, ever appended to the beginning of things that happened. It's appended to the beginning of things which people want to pretend happened to justify their crazy time. I have no idea why you would make a post that involved her repeatedly beating someone, then described her attack on his unconscious form in rather descriptive terms, and then act as if you've proven your point irrevocably. I have to wonder if you get off on the idea, in which case you really, really have it coming.
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