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DarkSteven -> RE: the new submissive/slave (1/13/2012 5:20:39 AM)

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ORIGINAL: anynameshoulddo

Since most male subs are weak,gay,sissies and any other name you can think of to devalue a sub.Its even worse when that same blind sided mentality comes from those who are suppose to "understand".I use to think people in this lifestyle were more open minded and accepting of other peoples lifestyle choice because of the nature of our interests.Not even close.


You jerk, where do you get off saying that gay is a pejorative term?  While you are claiming discrimination from the community, you are insulting members of the community itself.

Not to mention, the male subs I happen to know are not weak nor are they sissies outside of sissification sessions.

NOBODY likes whiners and bigots.  It's not just the lifestyle folks.  Grow up.





Hillwilliam -> RE: the new submissive/slave (1/13/2012 5:23:05 AM)


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ORIGINAL: anynameshoulddo

The point is that very few of you so called "doms" out there hardly deserve that kind of respect.I highly doubt in any other area of life,most of you would hardly be worthy enough to be called a dom/master/mistress whatever.

Then, you'd be wrong.

I own my own business and was selected to serve on the board of directors of 2 nonprofits.

Someone respects Me.


Maybe you should look inward for the problem instead of whining.



anynameshoulddo -> RE: the new submissive/slave (1/13/2012 5:24:33 AM)

I was just saying the lovely names I've been called.I have plenty of gay friends,so don't go there.As far as real biggots go,theres plenty of them right here in this so called lifestyle.



searching4mysir -> RE: the new submissive/slave (1/13/2012 5:25:03 AM)


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ORIGINAL: anynameshoulddo

It shouldn't be too much a surprise though really.After all,what else can a person expect from a lifestyle like this?its a life where the domme/master/mistress is treated like "devine intervention" while the slave/subs of this lifestyle are suppose to be treated like an animal.Can't really expect too much else from a community that thinks like that.



I am FAR from treated like an animal. I'm treated like a valued part of our relationship.

You see, between my Dom and I, we have this thing called "consent". It is a two-way relationship...I do things to satisfy him and he does things to satisfy me (though it might not be what I want at the moment, his choices are always satisfying).

What you seem to want is a one-way situation where you get to call the shots (I want to lick your pussy and I want to lick it now...here's my ass, rape it with a strap on). Here's a hint cupcake...if you are calling the shots then you aren't a submissive.



Hillwilliam -> RE: the new submissive/slave (1/13/2012 5:29:22 AM)


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ORIGINAL: anynameshoulddo

I was just saying the lovely names I've been called.I have plenty of gay friends,so don't go there.As far as real biggots go,theres plenty of them right here in this so called lifestyle.

The only name I saw you called was "jerk". Personally, I feel it was deserved. Do you really think that's worse than you would hear from the mouth of a Domme who is training you as you 'commanded' her to do?

Methinks he doth whine too much"



xxblushesxx -> RE: the new submissive/slave (1/13/2012 5:32:33 AM)

*lol* have you noticed that you all are talking to the "new guy" as if he were the OP?
It's almost like...they're the same person, or something weird like that.
*ponders this mystery*



searching4mysir -> RE: the new submissive/slave (1/13/2012 5:34:41 AM)

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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

*lol* have you noticed that you all are talking to the "new guy" as if he were the OP?
It's almost like...they're the same person, or something weird like that.
*ponders this mystery*



Well, yeah [8|], cuz they are!!!! LOL



lizi -> RE: the new submissive/slave (1/13/2012 5:36:08 AM)

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ORIGINAL: yourplaytoy2use

Truth is the world is changing, so many Mistresses, dommes, they are not fullfilling the rule. Take us subs and slaves into your homes, how else will we be trained. Train us even if we are not yours forever, if not we will find the wrong way or not at all. So many of us are left out and about not learning not enduring. You mark my words what is plentyful now will one day not be so. Keep making us pay to find our way and youll regret it later. Many of us are just starting to experience what you want us to, and you put all these dumb restrictions. We want to serve it is just you dont want to train us. Get yourselves stable and take us in so we can grow to give what you all need. I may be just a bit wrong but for as long as i have been looking i should be owned by now. Take out your strapons and open your closets, we need you.
sub/slave


Why does someone's sexual orientation require them to perform a public service? If Dommes are 'supposed' to do this hogwash as an expected part of their station, then I imagine the small population of them will suddenly dwindle to none. I wouldn't sign up for that crap. Call yourself a Domme and then have hordes of whining imbeciles at your door with some crazy entitlement theory that they can now demand your time? Fuck that.

Also, what you're asking here is for the Domme to serve, last time I checked the Domme was in charge.
Fail, major fail. I can't even describe the amount of fail - it is epic.





Hillwilliam -> RE: the new submissive/slave (1/13/2012 5:37:06 AM)


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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

*lol* have you noticed that you all are talking to the "new guy" as if he were the OP?
It's almost like...they're the same person, or something weird like that.
*ponders this mystery*

I think it's a pretty valid assumption that not only are they the same person but they're both socks of some whiner that got his ass handed to him in another thread.

When male subs figure out that a Domme wants a MAN to submit to her and not some simpering little whiner, a lot of people are going to have some great relationships.
Face it, if you're an expert animal trainer which of the following gives more satisfaction?

A pomeranian that does your bidding?


Or a Tiger?



searching4mysir -> RE: the new submissive/slave (1/13/2012 5:37:41 AM)


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ORIGINAL: anynameshoulddo

I was just saying the lovely names I've been called.I have plenty of gay friends,so don't go there.As far as real biggots go,theres plenty of them right here in this so called lifestyle.



LOL



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lizi -> RE: the new submissive/slave (1/13/2012 5:44:17 AM)

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ORIGINAL: anynameshoulddo

I was just saying the lovely names I've been called.I have plenty of gay friends,so don't go there.As far as real biggots go,theres plenty of them right here in this so called lifestyle.


Aw, poor schnookie. Been called names....breaks my heart.
I have some idea of why you've been called names OP. Could have something to do with that wacky entitlement thing you've got going on.





anynameshoulddo -> RE: the new submissive/slave (1/13/2012 5:52:31 AM)

Actually,I don't know who the OP is.You can think whatever you want though.Just keep thinking that there is no way other people might agree with some of what the OP is saying.I think this OP is the same guy who has been going into these message groups saying the same thing.Thats it,its the same crazy person whos been saying the same things for years now.

I don't agree with everything the OP said.Clearly,no I don't expect anyone to just let anyone move in their house.No,I don't expect someone to "train" me,so I can go over to someones elses house and play with them.Even though the OP may have said some unrealistic things,he still makes some good points.



searching4mysir -> RE: the new submissive/slave (1/13/2012 5:56:10 AM)


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ORIGINAL: anynameshoulddo

Even though the OP may have said some unrealistic things,he still makes some good points.



Oh really? What pray tell are those "good points"? Because I've yet to see them. Maybe I'm stupid and need you to point them out.



Fornica -> RE: the new submissive/slave (1/13/2012 6:01:55 AM)

I love that this thread is both bitching about how terrible Doms are and whining that he can't get one, all at the same time.
Run along now.
Go on.



kalikshama -> RE: the new submissive/slave (1/13/2012 6:23:41 AM)

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The point is that very few of you so called "doms" out there hardly deserve that kind of respect.I highly doubt in any other area of life,most of you would hardly be worthy enough to be called a dom/master/mistress whatever.


And where are you meeting these "so called dom?" If you are foolish enough to think hot young chicks posing with their middle fingers upraised are lifestyle dommes, you get what you deserve.

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anynameshoulddo -> RE: the new submissive/slave (1/13/2012 6:26:16 AM)

This community is just a reflection of the great society.Perhaps I have nothing against this lifestyle.Being a submissive most of my life,its probaly just time I move.I've actually met some great people.Girls have wanted to session with me because I actually do have respect.I've been collared too.Theres always going to be postives and negatives to anything in life.Weigh the pro with the con.I've had some great times in this lifestyle but others that weren't so great.Short of actually having a lifetime relationship with the right lady,I have done everything I can do with this lifestyle.

I need to just to move on with my life.Sadly being "submissive" in the real world just dosen't get far.I get I will probaly always be sexually attracted to D/S in some ways.I realize I can't just "ignore" my submissive feelings altogether.However,if I can minimize it enough to where I can otherwise live a rather happy,normal vanilla life,then I will be content with that.



tazzygirl -> RE: the new submissive/slave (1/13/2012 7:00:47 AM)

Lil heavy on the coffee this morning? Or maybe I just need more. [8D]



Hillwilliam -> RE: the new submissive/slave (1/13/2012 7:08:13 AM)


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ORIGINAL: anynameshoulddo

This community is just a reflection of the great society.



THIS makes more sense than anything you've typed here. In fact, I'll say it is probably in the top 5% of all that has ever been typed on these forums.

The great society has several kinds of people.

Doers. They aren't held back by small things. They forge thru and getitthefuckdone.
Sometimes, they accomplish great things and sometimes they go broke but they dont 'settle'.

Followers. They wander along behind the Doers and snap up the crumbs. If 'their' Doer flames out, they find another one.
These people rarely starve but they never really accomplish much either.

Whiners. These people don't even bother to get off the couch and be a follower. 'It isnt worth the struggle because the deck is stacked anyway.'

These people never have anything worthwhile past a meager existence.


Which will you be?
The decision is yours.



Clickofheels -> RE: the new submissive/slave (1/13/2012 7:20:34 AM)

This thread reminds me of the myriad of messages I've gotten in the couple of months I've visited this site from submissives wanting instant gratification!

"Hi! I'm ____. How can I serve you today?" or "Hi! I'm____. Train me."

"I'm going to be in your area tomorrow. I can meet you at 2 o'clock before my business meeting starts. Reply to this message ASAP." (one of my favorites! LMAO!)

"Call me at this number. I'm at work, but I get off on being teased and trying to control myself. We don't have cubicles here so people can see me."

"Do you have a cam? You can watch me _____"

First of all, I do not claim to be a ProDomme, a finDomme, a Masochist, nor someone looking for a live-in submissive. I have my own mind, a value system, a sense of class, and refuse to treat someone as a clod of dirt. I don't wish to be placed on a pedestal, bowed to, nor smothered by those into female superiority.

As for training, why would I wish to take the time to train someone whom I would never ask to be Mine? It's one thing to introduce a newbie to manners and terms used in BDSM as a Mentor, but all Dommes are not the same in their needs, desires, and preferences.
I find that many submissives believe that having Domme, Lady, or Mistress in a name means we are all cookie-cutter versions of the same thing. And we are not!

As submissives, you must weed out the impossibilities, just as Dominants must wade through the submissives to find just the "right one" for themselves.
And if ANY of us think we can just snap our fingers and the right one will instantly appear? Then I have a great island off the coast of Neverland for sale. (smiles)

Respectfully,
Ms Click






OsideGirl -> RE: the new submissive/slave (1/13/2012 7:22:21 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Fornica

I love that this thread is both bitching about how terrible Doms are and whining that he can't get one, all at the same time.
Yeah, that had me stumped too.

Sidetrack: Wow! great picture Forni!



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