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slaverachel2Him -> RE: the new submissive/slave (1/13/2012 11:28:57 PM)
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hmmm anynameshoulddo no longer has a profile and it appears all the posts are here?
@ OP- There are several good answers here already. But i can't resist to add some. If you want a REAL Mistress/Domme, then you have to be a REAL slave. This does not mean somebody's rube, doormat or victim. This means you get to know the Mistress, communicate until you BOTH know you are a good pair THEN perhaps consider a D/s or M/s. There are both male and female posers in every aspect of all orientations, vanilla, Masters, Mistresses, slaves and subs. i know more than one Dom/me or Master ripped of by a slave and vice versa. You learn to SUBMIT, OBEY. That IS a major part of the training. When She tells you to kneel and wash the floor you do it until SHE says you are done. If she puts on a chastity device you hate- that is a part of your training and obeying is a part of that.
You can't come on a site and say anything like "i will worship you and then you'll punish me by making me pleasure you, then i'll be humiliated by being made to orgasm in front of you." i am not saying YOU said that, but i have seen that quite a bit and the slave is trying to direct the Mistress or Master before they even meet! No real Master/Mistress is going to fall for that for a second.
You can be a discerning slave and take the time to be sure you have a bonafide Mistress or Master that is worthy of their claim to title and not a poser and YOU are worthy to be their slave AS a slave for a lifetime, but there is no way ANY Master or Mistress is going to be chastised by a slave and feel like they owe you anything. This is about POWER EXCHANGE. It is NOT fair. That is WHY you have to be careful and take your time. You don't run things.
Being a slave means you give up your rights to your Master/Mistress. You don't tell them they aren't "doing their job" Their job is whatever they want it to be, whatever they say it is and if you don't like it, don't hook up with them, keep looking. You are a human being. The Masters/Mistresses are human beings. You become their PROPERTY and learn to NEVER say "no" to them (part of the training) so you better be sure they know WTF they are doing. YOU on the other hand, need to, if you want to be a slave, learn to submit and obey, quit trying to direct. Choose well. Then shut up and do what you're told.
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