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RE: Something I've never understood about financial Dom... - 1/14/2012 10:58:41 AM   
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I know a friend going through this the irony all he wants is an apology from her granted he wants her on her knees when she does it (not gonna lie she really is getting her dues on this one I kept warning her not to bite the hand that fed her but once again her arrogance got the best of her) he also wants her to start using the word please(I nearly died laughing when she told me that). Anyway after learning of her plight I started doing some research on financial domination and discovered a few Pro's not just her seem to like having subs pay for their bills, rent, grocies you name it.

That being said I think it will be good for her to go through this she never apolgizes even when she needs to. That's how she's always been always blaming everybody but herself.


According to the above statement, your friend is a guy.

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Me having a moment of rage would be something to see being as I've never been that way in my entire life lol but if someone one day replaced my brain and I had one, I'd apologize but then again if I had someone else's brain, maybe I wouldn't...I dunno.

As for your "domme", she doesn't sound like a domme but a spoiled child and/or someone who needs some serious therapy and you probably do too for staying with her.




She's pretty much just spoiled. As for why I stay with her it's not that I don't realize she's a brat(mind you she does have her nice moments) it's just that you learn to put up with it after sharing a bedroom with her for some 18 years(and prior to that a womb) and learn to deny any relation to her. But ultimately my reasons for sticking with her are summed up in five words 'You can't choose your family.'

Holy crap I must sound like a dick talking about her like that. I would rather us stay on topic rather than discuss my personal life.


I am confused. According to your profile, you are a dom looking for subs and maybe a "queen" to rule beside you? But from reading the posts on here, I get the feeling either your friend is not happy with his dom and you are asking on his behalf (see post 16) or you are a sub and not happy with your current fin domme. And now this one that makes me think she is not only your dom but your sister? Maybe if you just stick to one story per thread.


Oh no the friend is my sister she pissed off her client and is in deep now and when I said the only reason I stay with her I meant the only reason I don't just drop her like a bad habbit.


And now it's your sister.

sorry, but you are not making a whole lot of sense here. Maybe you should go get your story straight and then come back and ask questions.


And not only that, but if he's shared a bedroom with her for 18 years and, before that, a womb, is she his twin sister and now they're, er, incestuous or something? Eeewww I can see sharing an apartment with a sibling, but a bedroom with an opposite-sex sibling for 18 years???? Eeeeewwwww again!

This guy really does make NO sense. Maybe this is all another attempt to bitch about finDommes and he was just trying to make it sound all innocent and non-confrontational at first, but now it's all blowing up in his face.....

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RE: Something I've never understood about financial Dom... - 1/14/2012 12:19:55 PM   
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And not only that, but if he's shared a bedroom with her for 18 years and, before that, a womb, is she his twin sister and now they're, er, incestuous or something? Eeewww I can see sharing an apartment with a sibling, but a bedroom with an opposite-sex sibling for 18 years???? Eeeeewwwww again!

This guy really does make NO sense. Maybe this is all another attempt to bitch about finDommes and he was just trying to make it sound all innocent and non-confrontational at first, but now it's all blowing up in his face.....

NBMG

Actually I can't keep this up anymore I was embarassed to admit I got the idea for this thread from looking at porn so I made up the lie about knowing somebody then one lie led to another lie and then that poster misread my posts and now I'm in this huge freaken mess. Then you came jumping to conclusions it's actually normal for siblings to share a room especially if they are twins and live in a small cramped house. There I said it I told the truth GLORY HALLELUAH!!! Side note even though I lied what kind of people just immediately jump to the most sickening conclusions I mean really what the hell is wrong with you two? *hyperventalates and passes out*

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RE: Something I've never understood about financial Dom... - 1/14/2012 1:06:16 PM   
NiceButMeanGirl


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Actually I can't keep this up anymore I was embarassed to admit I got the idea for this thread from looking at porn so I made up the lie about knowing somebody then one lie led to another lie and then that poster misread my posts and now I'm in this huge freaken mess. Then you came jumping to conclusions it's actually normal for siblings to share a room especially if they are twins and live in a small cramped house.

I came to conclusions? Let's take that statement and revisit the source. See the part I bolded in your quote below? See how that could lead one to the conclusion that you were siblings and that, now, you've shared a bedroom for 18 years since then? I didn't pull that idea out of thin air you know.

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it's just that you learn to put up with it after sharing a bedroom with her for some 18 years(and prior to that a womb) and learn to deny any relation to her. But ultimately my reasons for sticking with her are summed up in five words 'You can't choose your family.'

Also, as far as your lying at first, it became very apparent as soon as your different statements didn't jive. See we're a pretty observant bunch here on the message boards and several of us called you on your not making any sense and contradicting yourself.

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RE: Something I've never understood about financial Dom... - 1/14/2012 1:15:31 PM   
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ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl

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ORIGINAL: TheKingofHell
Actually I can't keep this up anymore I was embarassed to admit I got the idea for this thread from looking at porn so I made up the lie about knowing somebody then one lie led to another lie and then that poster misread my posts and now I'm in this huge freaken mess. Then you came jumping to conclusions it's actually normal for siblings to share a room especially if they are twins and live in a small cramped house.

I came to conclusions? Let's take that statement and revisit the source. See the part I bolded in your quote below? See how that could lead one to the conclusion that you were siblings and that, now, you've shared a bedroom for 18 years since then? I didn't pull that idea out of thin air you know.

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ORIGINAL: TheKingofHell
it's just that you learn to put up with it after sharing a bedroom with her for some 18 years(and prior to that a womb) and learn to deny any relation to her. But ultimately my reasons for sticking with her are summed up in five words 'You can't choose your family.'

Also, as far as your lying at first, it became very apparent as soon as your different statements didn't jive. See we're a pretty observant bunch here on the message boards and several of us called you on your not making any sense and contradicting yourself.

NBMG

Alright let's just agree that this was all a big stupid mistake on my part no hard feelings okay?

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RE: Something I've never understood about financial Dom... - 1/14/2012 1:17:06 PM   
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Alright let's just agree that this was all a big stupid mistake on my part no hard feelings okay?

That's cool by me.

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RE: Something I've never understood about financial Dom... - 1/14/2012 2:11:07 PM   
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In my opinion, a successful financial domme has to be smart - there are countless profiles and videos of women asking for your money, all over the net, and I'd imagine the majority of them get very little for their efforts.

The smart ones know how to get men to pay up, and once they do, I'd also assume that they are smart enough to realise that it is a finite and unstable income - and subsequently put a good amount of it away for a rainy day.


The smart ones almost always all do realise it is finite, so that is why they are always taking apps for new money pigs.
As far as most smart ones saving? I haven't seen that to be the case; at least not until they've learned the hard way.
They are girls, and they like to shop...

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RE: Something I've never understood about financial Dom... - 1/14/2012 5:19:55 PM   
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RE: Something I've never understood about financial Dom... - 1/14/2012 6:33:17 PM   
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In my opinion, a successful financial domme has to be smart - there are countless profiles and videos of women asking for your money, all over the net, and I'd imagine the majority of them get very little for their efforts.

The smart ones know how to get men to pay up, and once they do, I'd also assume that they are smart enough to realise that it is a finite and unstable income - and subsequently put a good amount of it away for a rainy day.


The smart ones almost always all do realise it is finite, so that is why they are always taking apps for new money pigs.
As far as most smart ones saving? I haven't seen that to be the case; at least not until they've learned the hard way.
They are girls, and they like to shop...
Well I'm only surmising, but yes perhaps you're right. And the other thing is that it isn't always cash that's given is it? Often it's an online wishlist that the 'piggy' can select from - which is of course a form of shopping, as you say.

Saying that though, I would be surprised if there were that many that actually relied on income from financial domination. And when I say that, I don't just mean living off it, but paying their mortgage from it or what have you. Basically, being completely ****ed if it all goes wrong

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RE: Something I've never understood about financial Dom... - 1/14/2012 6:41:35 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MSubEdinburgh29


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ORIGINAL: MSubEdinburgh29

In my opinion, a successful financial domme has to be smart - there are countless profiles and videos of women asking for your money, all over the net, and I'd imagine the majority of them get very little for their efforts.

The smart ones know how to get men to pay up, and once they do, I'd also assume that they are smart enough to realise that it is a finite and unstable income - and subsequently put a good amount of it away for a rainy day.


The smart ones almost always all do realise it is finite, so that is why they are always taking apps for new money pigs.
As far as most smart ones saving? I haven't seen that to be the case; at least not until they've learned the hard way.
They are girls, and they like to shop...
Well I'm only surmising, but yes perhaps you're right. And the other thing is that it isn't always cash that's given is it? Often it's an online wishlist that the 'piggy' can select from - which is of course a form of shopping, as you say.

Saying that though, I would be surprised if there were that many that actually relied on income from financial domination. And when I say that, I don't just mean living off it, but paying their mortgage from it or what have you. Basically, being completely ****ed if it all goes wrong



Yes, you're right.
Most I know not only rely on their piggies, but they also do (non-naked) cam, phone, and sell videos as well. No one should rely on just one source of income at this time.

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RE: Something I've never understood about financial Dom... - 1/15/2012 5:18:29 AM   
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I have a million times more respect for Crissy, who is honest and does her job with integrity, than the "I don't hafta work, so there" types.
And the whole sibling thing, I'm just confused as hell.


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RE: Something I've never understood about financial Dom... - 1/15/2012 5:23:07 AM   
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Fin dom pro dom is service provision, why hate either? people don't hate the Gas attendant or the till girl at wall mart so what's the difference?

Oh & I know a few Pro Ladies & they are bloody good fun to hang out with!

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RE: Something I've never understood about financial Dom... - 1/15/2012 5:24:42 AM   
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Speak for yourself, mine is my nemesis. <shakes fist at the heavens>

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people don't hate the Gas attendant



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RE: Something I've never understood about financial Dom... - 1/15/2012 6:00:50 AM   
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ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl
And not only that, but if he's shared a bedroom with her for 18 years and, before that, a womb, is she his twin sister and now they're, er, incestuous or something? Eeewww I can see sharing an apartment with a sibling, but a bedroom with an opposite-sex sibling for 18 years???? Eeeeewwwww again!

This guy really does make NO sense. Maybe this is all another attempt to bitch about finDommes and he was just trying to make it sound all innocent and non-confrontational at first, but now it's all blowing up in his face.....

NBMG

Actually I can't keep this up anymore I was embarassed to admit I got the idea for this thread from looking at porn so I made up the lie about knowing somebody then one lie led to another lie and then that poster misread my posts and now I'm in this huge freaken mess. Then you came jumping to conclusions it's actually normal for siblings to share a room especially if they are twins and live in a small cramped house. There I said it I told the truth GLORY HALLELUAH!!! Side note even though I lied what kind of people just immediately jump to the most sickening conclusions I mean really what the hell is wrong with you two? *hyperventalates and passes out*


If you think spotting inconsistencies in a op means something is wrong with me, then I guess I will just have to live with that. Maybe next time you should just stick with the truth from the start.


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RE: Something I've never understood about financial Dom... - 1/15/2012 6:04:29 AM   
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Well pull your own damned gas then woman!!!

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Speak for yourself, mine is my nemesis. <shakes fist at the heavens>

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people don't hate the Gas attendant





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RE: Something I've never understood about financial Dom... - 1/15/2012 6:07:28 AM   
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But..it's cold outside.

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RE: Something I've never understood about financial Dom... - 1/15/2012 6:58:07 AM   
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ORIGINAL: thishereboi

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ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl
And not only that, but if he's shared a bedroom with her for 18 years and, before that, a womb, is she his twin sister and now they're, er, incestuous or something? Eeewww I can see sharing an apartment with a sibling, but a bedroom with an opposite-sex sibling for 18 years???? Eeeeewwwww again!

This guy really does make NO sense. Maybe this is all another attempt to bitch about finDommes and he was just trying to make it sound all innocent and non-confrontational at first, but now it's all blowing up in his face.....

NBMG

Actually I can't keep this up anymore I was embarassed to admit I got the idea for this thread from looking at porn so I made up the lie about knowing somebody then one lie led to another lie and then that poster misread my posts and now I'm in this huge freaken mess. Then you came jumping to conclusions it's actually normal for siblings to share a room especially if they are twins and live in a small cramped house. There I said it I told the truth GLORY HALLELUAH!!! Side note even though I lied what kind of people just immediately jump to the most sickening conclusions I mean really what the hell is wrong with you two? *hyperventalates and passes out*


If you think spotting inconsistencies in a op means something is wrong with me, then I guess I will just have to live with that. Maybe next time you should just stick with the truth from the start.


Believe me I wont be telling any more lies.

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RE: Something I've never understood about financial Dom... - 1/15/2012 7:12:28 AM   
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Wow... that makes two of us.

Does yours have a moustache?

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RE: Something I've never understood about financial Dom... - 1/15/2012 7:25:31 AM   
Fornica


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omg yes.
Is he after us? You're going to make me pack my bags at midnight and join you in Mexico again, aren't you?

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RE: Something I've never understood about financial Dom... - 1/15/2012 7:51:20 AM   
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The smart ones know how to get men to pay up, and once they do, I'd also assume that they are smart enough to realise that it is a finite and unstable income - and subsequently put a good amount of it away for a rainy day.


About the same attitude towards money as is required for porn modelling, I suppose. Suddenly, there's a bit too much flab, one more set of wrinkles under your eyes . . . and pop go the requests from the photographers for your services.

It's no doubt mainly a fantasy that a pro-Domme is ever really dominating her pay-subs. But, then, it's probably largely a fantasy on the part of the subs that they're being dominated by her, as well. Still, fantasies move a lot of money, as Hollywood has always known.

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RE: Something I've never understood about financial Dom... - 1/15/2012 12:15:53 PM   
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Being a Dominant/Master Of Our Poly House, We wish that Our slaves have an outside job for medical insurance,and a nest age for that specific question of monetary issues. My primary slave handles the day to day bills,but I still oversee this. Now the flip side to this is those who are looking for sugar Daddy's/Mommy's where their every need/whim is taken care of.

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