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RE: Why Financial Domination Bothers Me... - 1/22/2012 7:35:46 AM

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I see. (still doesn't)

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RE: Why Financial Domination Bothers Me... - 1/22/2012 7:38:19 AM

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She was saying she wasn't drunk enough or delirious through sleep deprivation to give me a freebie. Shhhh just between me & you she can't afford me.

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RE: Why Financial Domination Bothers Me... - 1/22/2012 7:41:31 AM

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Oh.
Well. Did you want to do her anyhow?

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RE: Why Financial Domination Bothers Me... - 1/22/2012 7:47:58 AM

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Naaaah not really. Now you on the other hand...

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RE: Why Financial Domination Bothers Me... - 1/22/2012 7:51:10 AM

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Me? I don't wanna do her!

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RE: Why Financial Domination Bothers Me... - 1/22/2012 7:52:52 AM

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Duh!

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RE: Why Financial Domination Bothers Me... - 1/22/2012 8:32:42 AM

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Stop troubling yourselves about everyone else and what they are doing. Why all the scrutiny, ridicule and rejection of this matter? If everybody stopped concerning themselves with others on how they live their life or how they are, maybe the world will be a much better place. Frankly, we should focus on ourselves and not others and no one should really care what everyone really does. We are all unique individuals.

No troubling nor ridicule from me, however in reading comments that are contrary, i seek greater awareness. If one expresses opinion that intrigues i desire to know if it is just bias personal opinion, simple conjecture or is it something more substantive such as actual real-life experience. For me the scrutiny comes from curiosity and to substantiate. If one puts forth a hard-set uncompromising opinion, i certainly feel entitled to seek further or to express my own opinion in possible enlightenment.

Also i disagree with your comment we should focus only on ourselves in regards to a public board. The purpose of which to me is to share and gain awareness, perspective, contrary opinion and knowledge. If one does not desire such... then they should refrain from venturing upon such path!

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RE: Why Financial Domination Bothers Me... - 1/22/2012 8:37:48 AM

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I have had much wine and no sleep but not that much or that little.

*snort* Niney I love you, but that was funny!

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RE: Why Financial Domination Bothers Me... - 1/22/2012 8:38:20 AM

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To Me these arguments are always so entertaining. a Women that enjoys taking a mans money is always called a prostitute. I do not take offense after all My Mother was a wealthy mans mistress in the worst of ways. it drives My hunger to use men this way. only one man ever have I consensually had sex with it was for free. I do not need more money for Me it is that it gives me a thrill to take it from them better than sex. I do it because I can because men will give because men beg to give. what I do with it is between Me and My accountant and lawyer. money is power and I love power

I like Your forthright perspective. You speak logic and with common sense to me.

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RE: Why Financial Domination Bothers Me... - 1/22/2012 8:39:04 AM

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I completely agree Chrissie, it was a damn good put down. I like her even more now. But not as much as you.

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RE: Why Financial Domination Bothers Me... - 1/22/2012 8:39:20 AM

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*Hugs to NJ*

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RE: Why Financial Domination Bothers Me... - 1/22/2012 8:43:23 AM

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Thanks..... now i'm blushing... that does not happen often :-)

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RE: Why Financial Domination Bothers Me... - 1/22/2012 8:45:48 AM

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**YaYs** to both Niney and NJ!!

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RE: Why Financial Domination Bothers Me... - 1/22/2012 9:10:26 AM

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CHrissy..

I am in awe of you.

(I am also in awe of some of the opposite-minded folks for completely different, and not complimentary, reasons).

*love and hugs*

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RE: Why Financial Domination Bothers Me... - 1/22/2012 9:12:15 AM

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CHrissy..

I am in awe of you.

(I am also in awe of some of the opposite-minded folks for completely different, and not complimentary, reasons).

*love and hugs*

Squishyhugs to you!!

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RE: Why Financial Domination Bothers Me... - 1/22/2012 9:14:05 AM

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*swoooon* YAY!! I got Chrissy hugs!!!

eta: FOR FREE!! *grins, ducks and runs*

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RE: Why Financial Domination Bothers Me... - 1/22/2012 3:42:03 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: NibbyJibby

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Stop troubling yourselves about everyone else and what they are doing. Why all the scrutiny, ridicule and rejection of this matter? If everybody stopped concerning themselves with others on how they live their life or how they are, maybe the world will be a much better place. Frankly, we should focus on ourselves and not others and no one should really care what everyone really does. We are all unique individuals.

No troubling nor ridicule from me, however in reading comments that are contrary, i seek greater awareness. If one expresses opinion that intrigues i desire to know if it is just bias personal opinion, simple conjecture or is it something more substantive such as actual real-life experience. For me the scrutiny comes from curiosity and to substantiate. If one puts forth a hard-set uncompromising opinion, i certainly feel entitled to seek further or to express my own opinion in possible enlightenment.

Also i disagree with your comment we should focus only on ourselves in regards to a public board. The purpose of which to me is to share and gain awareness, perspective, contrary opinion and knowledge. If one does not desire such... then they should refrain from venturing upon such path!

Hi NJ (Smiles)

I interpreted dreamy's post from a different angle... although really, he would be the only one to say who read it the way he intended.

I felt he was (perhaps) saying that in reading the posts he notices there are many people making issues with things that are so unimportant...(which made ME think of things like the way someone writes their profile, or how they first introduce themselves, or the way they word a question.) People should be more critical of the way they live their own lives than the way some stranger lives theirs.

Uniqueness and individuality should be welcomed, not chastised. Let people be who they are and not try to cram them into a mold we think they should fit.

As for you NJ, of course you have a right to be curious about what other people say and to state your opinion!
However, there seems to be a mindset around here as to how that SHOULD and/or SHOULD NOT be done. If you do it the "right way," that's fine. But if not, than you automatically become fodder for insults and rudeness.
And standing up for oneself is grounds for being run off, entirely. (And I am NOT looking for a fight over this!!)

I hope you'll continue to post, to learn, and to find enjoyment here! (Smiles)

Most pleasantly,
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RE: Why Financial Domination Bothers Me... - 1/22/2012 5:43:16 PM

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NJ is quite intelligent (to an extreme) and very well spoken. We've been communicating for a time, and he never ceases to surprise me with his insight and humour. We all find posts that we read in our own way.

I suspect that if NJ decides to keep posting here, (and of course, not just about the subject at hand) he will find a very warm reception. He is a caring, humorous, intelligent gentleman.

Collarchat is like any society. Certain approaches are approved of and even commended, others condemned. It is up to the individual posting to figure out if they are within acceptable standards and whether or not they even care that they are or are not, and proceed accordingly.

I took from Dreamy's post that we shouldn't judge others' fetishes or lifestyles (even if financial domination is involved)

I do agree that it would be a better world if we were as critical of ourselves as we are of others.

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RE: Why Financial Domination Bothers Me... - 1/22/2012 6:35:28 PM

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Stop troubling yourselves about everyone else and what they are doing. Why all the scrutiny, ridicule and rejection of this matter? If everybody stopped concerning themselves with others on how they live their life or how they are, maybe the world will be a much better place. Frankly, we should focus on ourselves and not others and no one should really care what everyone really does. We are all unique individuals.

I can buy into Your premise Ms. Click, although I viewed his comment as responding to my post and directed at me as i was questioning of another poster. His comments absolute do not align with my thoughts, beliefs, nor my intentions. In light of such i feel my response was absolute respectful, to the point and allowed so i could respond with clarification. Perhaps another suggestion You could put forward is that people be more clear and articulate in their posts.

Thank You Ms. Click for acknowledging my right to remain curious about what others convey and privilege to offer my opinion. If some consider my character traits and writing style to be wrong headed or rude, then i am willing to bear the consequences of such. I do so because i know my character, my integrity, my respect of self and for others. I am absolute happy and confident with such, also with confidence others view as me as respectful, although i am not politically correct, nor to be easily acceptive of political correctness.

Although accepting of Your premise, i remain not to see it as You do. If i come across as rude or disrespectful i do apologize as such is not my intent, nor do i wish to stir the pot, nor create mountains out of mole hills, however if i believe something strongly, then i stand firmly. I read my previous comment and do not feel anything is out of context or to be chastised for. I do appreciate Your giving guidance and suggestion as to things should be done and how one should conform. However i have too long been a free spirit and explorer... conformation is not for me, i shall remain to put faith in my values and myself and be as i am. It has served me well for a number of decades, i trust my respect and integrity will shine through regardless of conformity. Indeed perhaps i can educate and create awareness at same time i am learning and furthering my awareness.

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RE: Why Financial Domination Bothers Me... - 1/22/2012 6:49:07 PM

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Wow, thank You for such compliments and such kind words. That is twice in one day You make me blush :-)

In hindsight wish i would have seen Your post before i posted my response, because to read Your words, i can say nothing so perfect. There is nothing i can add to what you say and only hope my response does not take anything away or add fuel to a fire. Perhaps more prudent i read and take time to contemplate, but alas my habit is to respond immediately.

Again thank You for such high praise. Not sure i am so deserving of such accolade, but absolute i am very much appreciative and humbled.

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