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ORIGINAL: NibbyJibby

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Stop troubling yourselves about everyone else and what they are doing. Why all the scrutiny, ridicule and rejection of this matter? If everybody stopped concerning themselves with others on how they live their life or how they are, maybe the world will be a much better place. Frankly, we should focus on ourselves and not others and no one should really care what everyone really does. We are all unique individuals.

I can buy into Your premise Ms. Click, although I viewed his comment as responding to my post and directed at me as i was questioning of another poster. His comments absolute do not align with my thoughts, beliefs, nor my intentions. In light of such i feel my response was absolute respectful, to the point and allowed so i could respond with clarification. Perhaps another suggestion You could put forward is that people be more clear and articulate in their posts.

Thank You Ms. Click for acknowledging my right to remain curious about what others convey and privilege to offer my opinion. If some consider my character traits and writing style to be wrong headed or rude, then i am willing to bear the consequences of such. I do so because i know my character, my integrity, my respect of self and for others. I am absolute happy and confident with such, also with confidence others view as me as respectful, although i am not politically correct, nor to be easily acceptive of political correctness.

Although accepting of Your premise, i remain not to see it as You do. If i come across as rude or disrespectful i do apologize as such is not my intent, nor do i wish to stir the pot, nor create mountains out of mole hills, however if i believe something strongly, then i stand firmly. I read my previous comment and do not feel anything is out of context or to be chastised for. I do appreciate Your giving guidance and suggestion as to things should be done and how one should conform. However i have too long been a free spirit and explorer... conformation is not for me, i shall remain to put faith in my values and myself and be as i am. It has served me well for a number of decades, i trust my respect and integrity will shine through regardless of conformity. Indeed perhaps i can educate and create awareness at same time i am learning and furthering my awareness.

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ORIGINAL: mummyman321

And what I have just read is.....you do not like this.....you do not like that.....blah blah blah.....

Sorry....the BDSM community encompasses a lot of people. Some people like being Fin Dommes, some like eating shit, some like being pisses on, some like serving, some like dressing up in women's clothes, some like to beat the hell out of thier sub.....and the list goes on.
I would focus on what it is you are seeking and quit worrying about what others do. Your kink is not my kink. This is a free site and all people of all types are welcome here.

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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

Collarchat is like any society. Certain approaches are approved of and even commended, others condemned. It is up to the individual posting to figure out if they are within acceptable standards and whether or not they even care that they are or are not, and proceed accordingly.

I do agree that it would be a better world if we were as critical of ourselves as we are of others.

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As I said, it is up to the individual posting to decide whether they care how their words are perceived or not. Please feel free to continue in the manner you have chosen, and allow others to decide how to take those words.

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I don't "decide" how to perceive the words of any individual. There are times people I have great respect for say something I consider quite ill-considered. And even though I like and respect that person, I still can't "decide" to perceive the words in any way other than which they were conveyed.
And if you are insinuating that I have twisted your words, don't insinuate it. State it and show it. I don't like playing word games or mind games (unless it's for fun)

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NJ, we're all just people, exchanging thoughts and ideas. Yours are just as valid as anyone else's.

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With all respect to your views and opinions Msblushes, you and I see Collarchat/Collarme.com as different entities.
I see it as I found it, listed under BDSM websites on Google.com., whereas you approach it as a society.

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I'm certainly not here to play games and most definitely not to argue. I don't care to discuss it further

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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

Coming from a poster who's majority of posts are critisizing how other posters post (yeah, say that three times fast) I have to wonder if you read the entire thread. (smiles)

Because I calmly and rationally answered all questions except for one, and that one is frankly not something I'm sharing with all and sundry.

Would you continue to post (nicely) and freely in a thread where you were called prostitute, lazy, whore, etc.? If people want answers, they should be respectful, as I have been to them. I do understand that everyone has their own opinion, and this is a very polarizing topic, but that really doesn't make it ok, in my eyes, nor does it give me incentive to continue.

I did ask the OP several pages back to be specific on what she wants to know (besides the exception I have made) and I would do my best to go over it again. Many people claim that she is not getting answers, but no one is specific with their insinuations/complaints.

Have a pleasant morning.
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Please excuse me if I don't agree with your opening statement, blushes! (smiles) What an interesting question though..."Would you continue to post nicely in a thread where you were called names?" But I digress...

I also noted your "I have to wonder" comment's inference. But I must be careful that I say nothing more about it in case it is misconstrued as "being critical of how other's post!" (Another smile)

Yes! I have indeed read the thread. I also entered my post long before it had been discussed as far as it has.
And I agree that you have been extremely diplomatic and calm in explaining the Lifestyle you choose. I never said, insinuated, nor singled you out that you haven't spoken that way.

I hope you enjoy your weekend!
Ms Click

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#1. In the several months that I've been on CM, during which I've regularly perved profiles, I've never once seen a male sub proclaim that he actually wants to buy a chick lots and lots of stuff. I've seen male subs proclaim that they will pay tribute if necessary, but I've never seen it listed as a kink.

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#1. In the several months that I've been on CM, during which I've regularly perved profiles, I've never once seen a male sub proclaim that he actually wants to buy a chick lots and lots of stuff. I've seen male subs proclaim that they will pay tribute if necessary,

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ORIGINAL: NibbyJibby

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#1. In the several months that I've been on CM, during which I've regularly perved profiles, I've never once seen a male sub proclaim that he actually wants to buy a chick lots and lots of stuff. I've seen male subs proclaim that they will pay tribute if necessary,

Kindly allow me to humbly be the first submissive/slave to convey to you YES i actually desired and did purchase Goddess and previous Mistress' of past, gifts. Yes i desired to purchase items and primarily via their amazon site or Northbound Leather amongst other sites.

Unrelated but when sessioning in person it is my habit to research interests of Mistress and to purchase a gift. When all else fails then red wine, Godiva Chocolates or barbed wire long stemmed leather rose. Why? Because i enjoy to do so and gives a feeling of submission, pride in pleasing another and of power exchange. It just feels good and i long ago determined if i am generous and giving of myself, typically i receive generosity in return. A slave does not get second opportunity to make a good first impression!

In event You do not take my word for it, then perchance look at various financial Domme sites, read their words and view the photos of gifts from slaves. Have enclosed a photo of one of my many trips to US post office. The packages are all gifts from slaves to Goddess. Confess none of the packages here are mine. In that some US companies do not ship overseas my purpose in this instance was to repackage and send via airmail to Goddess and to pay the expense of such.