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But I am NOT shallow.

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Yuppers, I’m gonna’ be in tall cotton when I hit the club wearing my jammies & jeans and getting’ head from a chubby subby… livin’ the BDSM dream I am, making friends and influencing people!

I gotta ask.. and Im prolly gonna get kicked for this...

Does your cock truly care who is down there sucking away when you close your eyes and grip her hair? (provided said hair isnt greasy and snarled?)

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Shocking! The people who agree with you are gutless bastards. I am soooo surprised.

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What purpose does a peacock serve apart from being a brightly coloured noisy fucker?

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What purpose does a peacock serve apart from being a brightly coloured noisy fucker?

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What is the percentage of people (on this site in particular) are into bdsm out of necessity?

What I mean by that, is I wonder how many people on here have discovered that the ONLY way to be with someone is through d/s?

I have many things to say about your post, but others have already said it more eloquently than I ever could have.

But I do want to focus for one moment on your two statements quoted above. There is a very insidious implication to these statements. At some deep subconscious level, you actually feel that BDSM proclivities are "wrong" or "bad". Your statements above can only be interpreted as accurate if you assume that BDSM is somehow an undesirable state of being to begin with. Because implied in your statements is the implication that an attractive person does NOT need to be part of the BDSM world to be able to have relationships (which then begs the question of why you are even here). You need to look into yourself for what brought you to this world and why you want to continue it it, because obviously at a deep-rooted level you are conflicted about what the BDSM world represents to you. At some level you are still struggling with the notion that BDSM seems abnormal to you. This is something you will have to work through. You should be clear in your own mind on what it is that brought you to BDSM and why you find it compelling. And that has to do with your inner workings, not anything to do with how you look.

I am not going to engage in a debate of whether you are attractive, whether I am attractive, or whether other posters on this thread are attractive because I really could f***ing care less. I am here because I enjoy BDSM. I make friends with a wide range of people in the BDSM world. I play with those who I personally find attractive, and with those who personally find me attractive (define attractive however you want because beauty is in the eye of the beholder). Beyond that, I don't see what the point is of discussing this.

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Dear fat ass quivery legs,
I'm so fat, I can't see who's sucking my cock down there anyway.  At them wild BDSM sex parties, I just hope its a girl bobbing on my apple 'cause I'm homophobic.  There was that one time at band camp, I caught a glimpse of a girl picking torn musty old pajamas out her teeth.

Personally, I don't like dating people unless they smell like a dirty laundry hamper and have that look of desperation in their eyes.  Do you have that look?  If so, we could make a beautiful pair and you can come cook, wash my clothes (mostly torn jeans & jammies), keep the double wide clean and I'll let you blow me now and then.  It would be a pefuckt BDSM type relationship. 

Yours in leather lifestyle,
Master Lord Kalon Eric

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What purpose does a peacock serve apart from being a brightly coloured noisy fucker?

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I'm not going to quote it all but #202 is a very good post!

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I just cant get into self-centered men who are only into this for the photo look.

You don't like the S&M (stand & model) crowd? 

I prefer a man who gets his kicks out of me.. not his own picture.

Did you say you wanted a man to kick you?   Lemme get off my old, unkempt, sloppy fat ass and find my glasses, brb. 

Oh you sexy, fat, lazy, unkept, huge hunk of a man, you do know how to turn a fat, old, cross eyed, sloppy and illiterate slut on!



My thighs are all a quiver.. and not just because I stopped moving and they decided to keep going on their own, either.

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Hmmm, it was bitatrouble if that helps?

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We have started to reach out into our local community here, and even communities that are a drive for us to get to. And we are shocked at what we are finding. Most women we have come across look the same. Nearly ALL of them are moderately to severely overweight, and honestly have looked like they have stopped caring. Hair that isn't styled or attempted to be styled....no makeup....and just looked like they rolled out of bed.

The men are no better, believe me. I've never seen so many men who don't take care of themselves, and don't do ANYTHING to make themselves presentable. Yet, they call themselves doms.

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I don't know where you're looking but it's the wrong place, the BDSM scene that I'm used to is disproportionality young and hot.

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So, yes, I do apologize for the mean spirited tone of my op. But....I will stand by the fact that more people should give a damn about the way they look and present. We all aren't thin, and we all aren't perfect. But that doesn't mean we should all just give up. And it damn sure doesn't mean that we need to make excuses for everyone, when just a TINY bit of effort would go a LONG way. If that upsets anyone, then I am truly sorry.

Take care and God bless.

Derek

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Yo Derek, I look lived in cos I am, I don't care cos I'm not some metrosexual tosser. But I'll lay fucking odds that were we both to hit a nightclub (bearing in mind also that I'm older than you) I'd pull faster & higher up the league than you old son. Because I might be a bit ugly on the outside & I reckon I am, but I'm fucking gorgeous on the inside. I like women I don't sit in judgement cos she's had a couple of kids, those battle scars, those extra pounds are earnt the hard way. Some of us work long hours & don't have time for health clubs & spa's & facials & shit & some realise that this search for eternal youth & beauty is just to keep the unemployable in fucking clover.

Your premise is insulting & patronising simultaneously, well done. Your true colours are now firmly nailed to a mast for all to see.