RE: BDSM out of necessity?

Collarspace Discussion Forums

Home Login Search

RE: BDSM out of necessity?

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> RE: BDSM out of necessity?

Page: << < prev 12 13 [14] 15 16 next > >>

Login

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

RE: BDSM out of necessity? - 1/15/2012 5:28:16 PM

tazzygirl

Posts: 37833
Joined: 10/12/2007
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

Don't you girls start talking about cheap mascara tear streaked cheeks, blurry bloodshot raccoon eyes looking up, pleading for mercy as black stained teardrops tremble and shake on the precipice of your sore abused and bruised quivering lips before falling to splash on your heaving breasts...

Dang, you took my class! How to type slut 303!

Im so impressed!

_____________________________

Telling me to take Midol wont help your butthurt.
RIP, my demon-child 5-16-11
Duchess of Dissent 1
Dont judge me because I sin differently than you.
If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

(in reply to ResidentSadist)

Post #: 261

RE: BDSM out of necessity? - 1/15/2012 5:37:36 PM

lthrpup

Posts: 125
Joined: 4/28/2004
Status: offline

When I watch movies from the 1950s (North by Northwest, for example) I marvel at the street scenes in NY where it is as clean as Tokyo is today, where the men wore hats, the ladies gloves. Contrast that with the "seen at Walmart" website. I don't like it when friends email condescending pix of the Walmart denizens, but I can't help lament the society that high fructose corn syrup has wrought. Derek raised a legitimate question indelicately (not that he wouldn't have set off a mine no matter how he put it). Everyone has dignity, but some amount of judgment is not inappropriate for people who show up at a social function appearing the same as they would dropping a deuce at 2am in privacy of their own home. What amazes me about this (and many other topics) are those who sanctimoniously pounce on those who make a judgment as if it were never OK to do so.

(in reply to xxblushesxx)

Post #: 262

RE: BDSM out of necessity? - 1/15/2012 5:38:19 PM

ResidentSadist

Posts: 12580
Joined: 2/11/2007
From: a mean old Daddy, but I like you - Joni Mitchell
Status: offline

The thought of you in a classroom warms my sadistic little heart. To think of you as school teacher in uniform with tear stains running down your cheeks from mascara, your little ripped panties, torn stockings, a fat puffy lip and one of your saddle shoes laying off to the side where it fell during the rape. And on top of your saddle shoe lay a few drops of blood...

Poor little tart, used and abused like that. Just makes me go all soft and warm inside.

_____________________________

-=BDSM Book List=- Reading is Fundamental !!!
I give good thread.

(in reply to tazzygirl)

Post #: 263

RE: BDSM out of necessity? - 1/15/2012 5:42:11 PM

GotSteel

Posts: 5871
Joined: 2/19/2008
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Dscouple7383
And that's what gets people all upset. Believe it or not, I wasn't trying to be vicious. The simple fact of the matter, is that a LOT of the people in the scene are obese. In fact, the MAJORITY.

Seriously, where are you from because your observations don't remotely resemble my own......ahh Central Florida, check.

Well it doesn't matter how accurate or ridiculous your personal observations might be, you've spoken critically about obese people, people with poor personal hygiene and the BDSM community. Being critical of any one of these groups will cause members of said group to lash out at you. The attacks from people in any one of these groups would be enough to make having an actual conversation in this thread impossible but you haven't just gotten one group to freak out you've managed the trifecta.

Enjoy your lynch mob and don't bother trying to point out some nuances where you're being misrepresented here or there, they don't care.

(in reply to Dscouple7383)

Post #: 264

RE: BDSM out of necessity? - 1/15/2012 5:47:41 PM

xxblushesxx

Posts: 9318
Joined: 11/3/2005
From: Kentucky
Status: offline

Excuse me, but we were talking about sex here.
Nasty, dirty, raunchy, fuck like monkeys, only dirtier and nastier, sex.
(just sayin'...)

_____________________________

~Christina

A nice girl with a disturbing hobby

My femdom findom blog: http://www.MistressAvarice.com

(in reply to GotSteel)

Post #: 265

RE: BDSM out of necessity? - 1/15/2012 5:53:55 PM

Firebirdseeking

Posts: 477
Joined: 9/3/2006
Status: offline

The thing is this, Dscouple: You are how old? have you been to a vanilla bar lately? Ill bet you see all sorts of people doing all sorts of reprehensible things to get attention.

And for that matter, you yourselves did something reprehensible to get attention.

As someone commented, what a way to introduce yourselves on the boards.

(in reply to Dscouple7383)

Post #: 266

RE: BDSM out of necessity? - 1/15/2012 5:58:47 PM

Firebirdseeking

Posts: 477
Joined: 9/3/2006
Status: offline

To the OP and everyone else reading this thread: this is what this modest D/s couple writes in their profile"

"We are a VERY attractive couple who turn heads everywhere We go."

Doesnt that make ya just feel like your dyin' to meet them?

(in reply to JstAnotherSub)

Post #: 267

RE: BDSM out of necessity? - 1/15/2012 6:04:12 PM

shylilbear

Posts: 125
Joined: 11/25/2011
Status: offline

Generally, looks really don't matter to me. I have dated men of all shapes, sizes, and appearence. Everything from one guy that was smooth shaven, almost shorter than me and maybe 150 soaking wet, to one that was around 6'4, scruffy and at least 350. I've also dated a very wide range of ages. To me, what truly matters is what's in the heart and between the ears.

When it comes to hygiene though, that's where I get a little more picky. I couldn't care less if someone comes to an event in sweats and a t-shirt, even PJ's for all I care, with no make-up, and no hairstyle. However, if your hair looks like it hasn't been washed in months let alone brushed, and if I can smell you from 5 feet away, I do have problems with that. If your picture gives me the same impression, it's not likely I'm going to want to talk to you. They say pictures are worth a thousand words, and yes, first impressions really do count for a lot. If you can't at least make the minimum effort needed to be halfway presentable even for just a picture, I have to admit it does make me wonder what you're going to be like in a relationship.

< Message edited by shylilbear -- 1/15/2012 6:10:29 PM >

(in reply to tazzygirl)

Post #: 268

RE: BDSM out of necessity? - 1/15/2012 6:10:13 PM

xxblushesxx

Posts: 9318
Joined: 11/3/2005
From: Kentucky
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: shylilbear

Generally, looks really don't matter to me. I have dated men of all shapes, sizes, and appearence. Everything from one guy that was smooth shaven, almost shorter than me and maybe 150 soaking wet, to one that was around 6'4, scruffy and at least 350. I've also dated a very wide range of ages. To me, what truly matters is what's in the heart and between the ears.

When it comes to hygiene though, that's where I get a little more picky. I could care less if someone comes to an event in sweats and a t-shirt, even PJ's for all I care, with no make-up, and no hairstyle. However, if your hair looks like it hasn't been washed in months let alone brushed, and if I can smell you from 5 feet away, I do have problems with that. If your picture gives me the same impression, it's not likely I'm going to want to talk to you. They say pictures are worth a thousand words, and yes, first impressions really do count for a lot. If you can't at least make the minimum effort needed to be halfway presentable even for just a picture, I have to admit it does make me wonder what you're going to be like in a relationship.

And if this ^ ^ would have been the opening post, this would have been a very different conversation.

_____________________________

~Christina

A nice girl with a disturbing hobby

My femdom findom blog: http://www.MistressAvarice.com

(in reply to shylilbear)

Post #: 269

RE: BDSM out of necessity? - 1/15/2012 6:19:14 PM

OsideGirl

Posts: 14441
Joined: 7/1/2005
From: United States
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: lthrpup
but I can't help lament the society that high fructose corn syrup has wrought.

Don't even get me started on "just like sugar" high fructose corn syrup....

quote:

Derek raised a legitimate question indelicately (not that he wouldn't have set off a mine no matter how he put it). Everyone has dignity, but some amount of judgment is not inappropriate for people who show up at a social function appearing the same as they would dropping a deuce at 2am in privacy of their own home. What amazes me about this (and many other topics) are those who sanctimoniously pounce on those who make a judgment as if it were never OK to do so.

He's was pounced on because he relegated that as belonging to only to the overweight. When the reality is that it has nothing to do with being overweight, it has to do with apathy. Apathy is an unattractive tract whether thin or overweight.

_____________________________

Give a girl the right shoes and she will conquer the world. ~ Marilyn Monroe

The Accelerated Velocity of Terminological Inexactitude

(in reply to lthrpup)

Post #: 270

RE: BDSM out of necessity? - 1/15/2012 6:19:45 PM

tazzygirl

Posts: 37833
Joined: 10/12/2007
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

The thought of you in a classroom warms my sadistic little heart. To think of you as school teacher in uniform with tear stains running down your cheeks from mascara, your little ripped panties, torn stockings, a fat puffy lip and one of your saddle shoes laying off to the side where it fell during the rape. And on top of your saddle shoe lay a few drops of blood...

Poor little tart, used and abused like that. Just makes me go all soft and warm inside.

~thud~

wait.. rape?

~swoons

_____________________________

Telling me to take Midol wont help your butthurt.
RIP, my demon-child 5-16-11
Duchess of Dissent 1
Dont judge me because I sin differently than you.
If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

(in reply to ResidentSadist)

Post #: 271

RE: BDSM out of necessity? - 1/15/2012 6:21:06 PM

OsideGirl

Posts: 14441
Joined: 7/1/2005
From: United States
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

The thought of you in a classroom warms my sadistic little heart. To think of you as school teacher in uniform with tear stains running down your cheeks from mascara, your little ripped panties, torn stockings, a fat puffy lip and one of your saddle shoes laying off to the side where it fell during the rape. And on top of your saddle shoe lay a few drops of blood...

Poor little tart, used and abused like that. Just makes me go all soft and warm inside.

ummm...yeah...makes me go all soft and warm inside too......

_____________________________

Give a girl the right shoes and she will conquer the world. ~ Marilyn Monroe

The Accelerated Velocity of Terminological Inexactitude

(in reply to ResidentSadist)

Post #: 272

RE: BDSM out of necessity? - 1/15/2012 6:24:43 PM

tazzygirl

Posts: 37833
Joined: 10/12/2007
Status: offline

Uh huh uh huh uh huh.

_____________________________

Telling me to take Midol wont help your butthurt.
RIP, my demon-child 5-16-11
Duchess of Dissent 1
Dont judge me because I sin differently than you.
If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

(in reply to OsideGirl)

Post #: 273

RE: BDSM out of necessity? - 1/15/2012 6:32:03 PM

LadyPact

Posts: 32566
Status: offline

I only got to about page five and since I've been around here long enough to know how these things go, that's probably sufficient. (I'll read the rest for the jokes and stuff later.)

To answer your actual question, I would have to tell you no. I never had a problem getting dates in the vanilla world. My husband and I actually aren't D/s. At this point *now*, we're actually more of a D/D type couple. The only power exchange going on around here is with the sub that is collared to Me.

The only "BDSM" out of necessity (and I don't even happen to call it a *need*) is the fact that I like to beat people. With My shape, I do just fine finding people who will engage in that activity with Me. It also happens to be My opinion that damn near any woman should know that all they really have to do to find people interested in dating or anything else along those lines, all they have to do is show up. Men hope they'll get laid. Women *know* they will.

Unfortunately, I'm not allowed to drag people's names into a thread that they aren't participating on, so I can't show you the examples of folks that I know from your region that aren't anything like you describe. Some of them are actually members on these forums and others I've met at regional events such as SELF and DomCon (Atlanta). There are more than a few names that come to mind, and frankly, those chicks are hot. (Taken, but hot just the same.)

I'm not denying you the right to your opinion, but your wife is right. It probably wasn't the best idea to express it in just this way. There's a difference between giving your opinion when it's been asked for and starting up conversations with some version of "Ewwwww, I'm not interested in *those* people".

< Message edited by LadyPact -- 1/15/2012 6:33:30 PM >

_____________________________

The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT

Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

(in reply to Dscouple7383)

Post #: 274

RE: BDSM out of necessity? - 1/15/2012 6:36:35 PM

ResidentSadist

Posts: 12580
Joined: 2/11/2007
From: a mean old Daddy, but I like you - Joni Mitchell
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

Excuse me, but we were talking about sex here.
Nasty, dirty, raunchy, fuck like monkeys, only dirtier and nastier, sex.
(just sayin'...)

Dirty sex . . . like a truly fantabulous blow job from a hot masochist wearing cheap mascara? The kind of fantabulous blow job where the taste of your own cheap mascara fills your mouth because it's run down your cheeks in the tears and onto the penetrating shaft. You are crying because your throat hurts and your cheeks sting like hell from being slapped while being face fucked like no one cares if you survive, so long as I cum. While fucking your face, you have no control because your hands are tied behind your back and your head in is in my hands… I hold your life in my hands and could make you choke to death on cock. Despite the burning, despite the throbbing, despite your own lust that is building between your legs, you tell yourself to breath between strokes. Keep the rhythm… breathe out… hold… breathe in…

During a slight pause, your masochism drives you to say “come on daddy, drive me like you stole me” … then I use you and your skull like it’s "make it or break it time" and slip my foot in between your legs. Kneeling there with my cock down your throat and pussy grinding your soaking wet pussy on my leg. Being used, used well, used violently, the object of my passion to a point of reckless sexual obsession feels good. You feel wanted, you feel sexy and you are giving me something the beast in me can truly feel. Gasping for air between strokes to keep air in your lungs is a small price to pay to become my total satisfaction, my perfect sexual release. It’s a small price to be my “good girl”. You tell yourself, keep the rhythm… breathe out… hold… breathe in…

The mild asphyxiation is heightening your stimulation as my leg rubs your swollen clit. My leg is pressing against you harder as the rhythm builds. I am down your throat and between your legs at the same time… you are light headed, almost spinning and the tingling waves build up deep in your belly. Your orgasm is coming to the surface and you are getting the pre-gasm quivers. You might just choke to death if you cum while gagging down my cock at the same time. The dangerous reality of your situation hits you like a rush as you remember my words when we started. I lean into your ear and in a deep, calm voice I said “don’t you dare break the rhythm or even try to take your mouth off me because I will show no mercy. Even if I have to fuck you during your death spasms and resuscitate you later”. You can barely remember the heat of my breath on your ear as I spoke.

The sound of my voice echoes in your head while my cock penetrates your raw throat. Your swollen lips, the taste of mascara in your mouth, my leg between yours, rubbing the orgasm out of you while the effects of hypoxia make your stinging cheeks feel like they are burning… it’s all too much and you can’t hold back. You are a good girl but this is too much. Your orgasm is coming down the track like a freight train and you can’t stop it. In spasms you feel yourself squirt on my leg as it splashes back on you. You try to push my cock aside for air but I grab your head and fuck you even harder… quaking and quivering uncontrollably in the aftermath, you feel my cock violently pushing deeper than ever before. Your lungs heaving against your cock blocked airway, you feel yourself slipping … that tingling all over your body feels like a million ants as you start losing consciousness. Then it happens, suddenly and violently air rushes in and I explode down your throat. You choke on my cum as you inhale it. Choking, gagging, still quaking from your own orgasm, my cum squirts out your nose as you choke and exhale…

…wait, what was the topic of this thread again?

{eta}oops, almost for the accompanying music.

Asphyxiation Fix – BDSM Rock Music Video (Awesome Real Player Video 3:06)

< Message edited by ResidentSadist -- 1/15/2012 6:44:21 PM >

_____________________________

-=BDSM Book List=- Reading is Fundamental !!!
I give good thread.

(in reply to xxblushesxx)

Post #: 275

RE: BDSM out of necessity? - 1/15/2012 6:39:53 PM

delilahdelight

Posts: 33
Joined: 11/3/2011
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

I only got to about page five and since I've been around here long enough to know how these things go, that's probably sufficient. (I'll read the rest for the jokes and stuff later.)

Which are the best parts of this thread. It's good to know that the folks here can take a sorry mess and turn it into something worth the time.

< Message edited by delilahdelight -- 1/15/2012 6:41:56 PM >

(in reply to LadyPact)

Post #: 276

RE: BDSM out of necessity? - 1/15/2012 6:58:18 PM

xxblushesxx

Posts: 9318
Joined: 11/3/2005
From: Kentucky
Status: offline

Uhm...what?
*passes out*

_____________________________

~Christina

A nice girl with a disturbing hobby

My femdom findom blog: http://www.MistressAvarice.com

(in reply to ResidentSadist)

Post #: 277

RE: BDSM out of necessity? - 1/15/2012 6:59:37 PM

kalikshama

Posts: 14805
Joined: 8/8/2010
Status: offline

*THUD*

(in reply to ResidentSadist)

Post #: 278

RE: BDSM out of necessity? - 1/15/2012 7:21:21 PM

GotSteel

Posts: 5871
Joined: 2/19/2008
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx
Excuse me, but we were talking about sex here.
Nasty, dirty, raunchy, fuck like monkeys, only dirtier and nastier, sex.
(just sayin'...)

Woa, "fuck like monkeys" I'm out, sounds like that involves way more kinds of bodily fluids than I'm into.

(in reply to xxblushesxx)

Post #: 279

RE: BDSM out of necessity? - 1/15/2012 7:49:48 PM

Clickofheels

Posts: 603
Joined: 10/23/2011
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Fornica

I picture you just sitting there frowning and clucking away, telling everyone in your world that you aren't angry, just "disappointed".

quote:

ORIGINAL: Clickofheels

quote:

ORIGINAL: JstAnotherSub

quote:

ORIGINAL: Clickofheels

"...and she is on the arm of that jackass, making her one by association."

Good luck.

Considering the fact that his fiance' has said absolutely NOTHING on this thread, don't you think that comment was a bit hasty and uncalled for??? PLEASE rethink your comment. I think you're better than that, JstAnotherSub.

Thanks,
Ms Click

Sorry, I aint above that. I mean it.

That's unfortunate...

Ms Click

Well, considering that you've never taken the time to get to know exactly WHO I am, I suppose then you would say something like that. I have no idea who you refer to when you say "your world," however since you feel it is your business to know...no, I'm not frowning or clucking (clucking?) Because yes, I truly AM disappointed because I think she is better than that...but then I think the same of you when I read most of your posts as well. (Smiles)

MsClick

(in reply to Fornica)

Post #: 280

Page: << < prev 12 13 [14] 15 16 next > >>

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> RE: BDSM out of necessity?

Page: << < prev 12 13 [14] 15 16 next > >>

Jump to:

New Messages	No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages	Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages	Locked w/o New Messages

Post New Thread

Reply to Message

Post New Poll

Submit Vote

Delete My Own Post

Delete My Own Thread

Rate Posts

Collarchat.com © 2025

Terms of Service

0.094