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Aileen1968 -> RE: Master does not want sex (1/30/2012 3:51:07 AM)
You can have all of that in a relationship with someone who will fuck you. Just sayin.

xssve -> RE: Master does not want sex (1/30/2012 3:59:21 AM)
Lotta women put up with a lot worse, for a lot longer than that. You seem to have your head together now - you wanna get fucked? Can't make up your mind? Horrors, you must be BPD. We're all head cases in here, don't sweat it, choose your own madness baby. You do know that the only cure for narcissism is love don't you? I think you're covered for now, move on, seriously, 'less you like giving BJ's. A lot. If you do, there's plenty of takers in here, not a problem, but there's othing wrong with wanting more, and anticipation is half the fun - just a question of how long you can reasonably string that out before it just kinda goes flat. I think you went as long as anybody can be reasonably expected to, and then some, given the information I have, and taking you at your word. At worst, you're lovin' a little too much to take up the slack of somebody ain't lovin' enough, there's masterful, and then there's lazy and selfish. We all get that way from time to time, but it shouldn't be a lifelong habit. Love yourself first baby: you can't love anybody else if you can't love yourself.

xssve -> RE: Master does not want sex (1/30/2012 4:03:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen1968 You can have all of that in a relationship with someone who will fuck you. Just sayin. Right.

kalikshama -> RE: Master does not want sex (1/30/2012 4:07:02 AM)
quote: The only thing Im really guilty of is questioning the role of BDSM in my relationship and having trust issues with it. And lying.

chatterbox24 -> RE: Master does not want sex (1/30/2012 6:09:38 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kalikshama quote: The only thing Im really guilty of is questioning the role of BDSM in my relationship and having trust issues with it. And lying. Exactly what am I lying about? You have no proof whether Im lying or telling the truth. I can call you a liar too by trying to throw around your false diagnosis and your "look at me I am so important" articles and shit, when frankly you have no idea what you are talking about PERIOD. I really have very little respect for someone who acts as if THEY KNOW THE ANSWERS, when they are guessing and INSISTING they are right.kinda like a doctor treating someone with cancer when the patient actually has diabetes does more harm then good. hate to tell ya girl but on this one YOU ARE WRONG. I am not lying.

chatterbox24 -> RE: Master does not want sex (1/30/2012 6:12:11 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: xssve Lotta women put up with a lot worse, for a lot longer than that. You seem to have your head together now - you wanna get fucked? Can't make up your mind? Horrors, you must be BPD. We're all head cases in here, don't sweat it, choose your own madness baby. You do know that the only cure for narcissism is love don't you? I think you're covered for now, move on, seriously, 'less you like giving BJ's. A lot. If you do, there's plenty of takers in here, not a problem, but there's othing wrong with wanting more, and anticipation is half the fun - just a question of how long you can reasonably string that out before it just kinda goes flat. I think you went as long as anybody can be reasonably expected to, and then some, given the information I have, and taking you at your word. At worst, you're lovin' a little too much to take up the slack of somebody ain't lovin' enough, there's masterful, and then there's lazy and selfish. We all get that way from time to time, but it shouldn't be a lifelong habit. Love yourself first baby: you can't love anybody else if you can't love yourself. Now here is someone with some sense!!!!

Fornica -> RE: Master does not want sex (1/30/2012 6:14:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: chatterbox24 Exactly what am I lying about? Here's one, should we list them all? quote: He is not married because I visit his home. Yes I am 44 and I was in a relationship for 22 yrs. quote: I failed to tell I have also been married 22 yrs and Yes have a Master. Does my husband know? Sure does

chatterbox24 -> RE: Master does not want sex (1/30/2012 6:18:14 AM)
Wrong! Its truth. Im married and I have a Master too. Married 22 yrs.

kalikshama -> RE: Master does not want sex (1/30/2012 6:28:24 AM)
First you lied by omission by failing to mention your 22 year marriage when you started your whine fest. You really thought you'd get good advice by leaving that out? Then you lied by using the past tense. I'd give you more examples but that would feed into your [image]http://www.demotivationalposters.org/image/demotivational-poster/small/1012/drama-drama-llama-spits-die-lonely-demotivational-posters-1292385558.jpg[/image]

Fornica -> RE: Master does not want sex (1/30/2012 6:34:51 AM)
How quickly you turn on someone who you decided was correct (until it didn't go along with what you wanted anymore) quote: For the other posters such as Kalikshama, you are hitting the nail on the head quote: My Master is an unusual man, and I do think the mentioning of personaltiy disorder is " dead on it" quote: Kalikshamma hit the hail on the head. He is a narcissist quote: Kalikshama, I just want to say you are one intelligent, insightful lady. You describe this man like you know him. Are you into psychology in some way? quote: Kalikshama you are the one I thank the most because you have lived through such an ordeal. Sounds like yours advanced into living together which isnt gonna happen here, and I so MUCH THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart of this insight. HUGE HUGS TO YOU!!! Just to remind you, here's what you said: quote: I do believe he is a narcissist. I am actually a good communicator and how I managed to stay wrapped up with him this long is beyond me. quote: Here is the only sexual thing he has said to me toward my own needs. " I almost grabbed your tit your last visit" ..................OH BOY!!!! hahahahaa, lucky me. quote: in the past he has pursued his "money tree" which is me quote: I wouldnt want to lose me either if I was him. I helped him toward a car, and bought him an expensive tool to help with his work. I really have been a love struck blind fool. quote: this relationship has been more a physiological game then anything else quote: Somehow he talked me into staying, of course I never made it hard for him to contact me. quote: I will make it where he cant contact me. I know I will give in if i dont. If i continue with this relationship after learning everything i have I wont have anyone else to blame then myself. quote: I am leaving him before he ruins my life quote: it advanced to him asking for gifts to redeem myself. He wanted control over everything, and recently asked to start a bank account together and mind you we dont live together. This is when I started really thinking, something is definitely off with this guy. He has always knew i wanted more so he would say things to lead me on. quote: this man is a master manipulator, charming, demanding, and handsome. He has a gift of getting his way and being powerful in the world, and I fell for it. But now Im done. quote: If anyone else comes across this thread having the same problem. My advice is STOP ALL CONTACT AND RUN! quote: all i need to red flag the start of a bad relationship. He gave me plenty of signs to look for quote: Only problem I have was staying in to long and not seeing him for who he was much sooner quote: I bet i would have stayed in and let him completely ruin me, financially and mentally. So Happy day to getting smarter!!! quote: No I am not going back IM done. quote: yes he is involved in studies of capitalism....in the last two yrs......studying my pocketbook quote: NOt too worry, the moron here has gained some IQ points in the last 24 hours. I am NOT GOING BACK TO THAT quote: I just needed to hear how stupid I was being, even though I knew it, he just has had so much influence over me its been unreal. And those are just the first few pages. Shall I continue?

Fornica -> RE: Master does not want sex (1/30/2012 6:37:25 AM)
You said "was" in your post I quoted. Then changed it to present. Don't play stupid. You've made a complete ass out of yourself in this entire thread. quote: ORIGINAL: chatterbox24 Wrong! Its truth. Im married and I have a Master too. Married 22 yrs.

kalikshama -> RE: Master does not want sex (1/30/2012 6:43:04 AM)
quote: I asked him once "WIll we ever have sex?" and he said I can not answer that. But also keep in mind he told me once he preferred worship over sex. I take my collaring very seriously and need some advice!!!! I dont think I can go without sex forever. This could have been a one page thread if you had added in your OP: quote: I have also been married 22 yrs and Yes have a Master. Does my husband know? Sure does In which case I would have said, "So get the sex from your husband." End of thread.

chatterbox24 -> RE: Master does not want sex (1/30/2012 6:50:13 AM)
THe narcissist part of my Dom was hitting the nail on the head. ANd yes, I was distraught about my relationship with him because I wasnt getting what I want. AND YES advice would be it would be best to get out of a relationship if it is not satisifying one, but I am not ready to say goodbye to him just yet. People get mad, they say things, argue , in many relationships..........DOes it make one a liar??? AHHHHHHHH no. I have decided to stick it out a bit longer, and when i said that all the sudden I am BPD blah blah. A liar. I had a question about my Master I was addressing that problem, not adding the complication I was married etc. Because people were going to get on their soap box and get side tracked on that not address my real question. I think I can handle this problem on my own, I have the answers and now this is just plain drama. I appreciated the advice at first but now with all your accusations I think a few of you "need a life" If there is any wonder why people dont stay or post here its because of this RIGHT HERE. I gaurantee you one thing, in person you would think twice before you challenged me. Easy behind a screen isnt it girls?

Fornica -> RE: Master does not want sex (1/30/2012 6:53:12 AM)
Is that a threat? Feel free to send me your phone number, and we can arrange a meet. quote: ORIGINAL: chatterbox24 I gaurantee you one thing, in person you would think twice before you challenged me. Easy behind a screen isnt it girls? [image]local://upfiles/1311353/2343910046C24107A6A55B912AE23040.jpg[/image]

tameeks -> RE: Master does not want sex (1/30/2012 6:53:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: chatterbox24 THe narcissist part of my Dom was hitting the nail on the head. ANd yes, I was distraught about my relationship with him because I wasnt getting what I want. AND YES advice would be it would be best to get out of a relationship if it is not satisifying one, but I am not ready to say goodbye to him just yet. People get mad, they say things, argue , in many relationships..........DOes it make one a liar??? AHHHHHHHH no. I have decided to stick it out a bit longer, and when i said that all the sudden I am BPD blah blah. A liar. I had a question about my Master I was addressing that problem, not adding the complication I was married etc. Because people were going to get on their soap box and get side tracked on that not address my real question. I think I can handle this problem on my own, I have the answers and now this is just plain drama. I appreciated the advice at first but now with all your accusations I think a few of you "need a life" If there is any wonder why people dont stay or post here its because of this RIGHT HERE. I gaurantee you one thing, in person you would think twice before you challenged me. Easy behind a screen isnt it girls? I just have to say, I love the above line most of all. I've seen it for many years on many message boards and it always makes me chuckle. Sorry for the interruption. Back to your regularly scheduled program.

Fornica -> RE: Master does not want sex (1/30/2012 6:55:19 AM)
You posted, made a complete fool out of yourself, admitted you were a moron for staying in the relationship, then turned around and made an even bigger ass out of yourself by back peddling on everything you'd posted, and tangled yourself in lies. And now you're threatening us. Not too bright, are you?

tameeks -> RE: Master does not want sex (1/30/2012 6:57:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Fornica Is that a threat? Feel free to send me your phone number, and we can arrange a meet. quote: ORIGINAL: chatterbox24 I gaurantee you one thing, in person you would think twice before you challenged me. Easy behind a screen isnt it girls? [image]local://upfiles/1311353/2343910046C24107A6A55B912AE23040.jpg[/image] Ha! my first real laugh of the day. Thank you!!

Lockit -> RE: Master does not want sex (1/30/2012 6:58:32 AM)
ROFL! Chatterbox... it sounds like you tried to pull off manipulating the forum members as much as you were trying to manipulate your dom. What I find interesting is how many things you allow yourself to excuse your behavior. Like... when angry, people say things. How about... when angry, I speak the truth more readily than I would normally express in an angry manner? You spoke your truth. You thought the worst of your dom and that is the truth. What isn't the truth is how you plan to lie to yourself and make the relationship something it will never be. You failed to mention your husband because you cannot give a lot more to your dom, for which you were blaming him for not giving you all. How can someone give their all to a married person, that accuses them of being a pretty bad person, who shows willful disregard and lack of forthrightness and all you have exhibited here? Like I said... you have your own role in all of this, including this thread and have yet to admit to much more than being hard to train. You don't admit anything that is painfully obvious to many that you deluded within this thread. You betrayed your dom in this thread. That's a fact chicky. If I had a cock, I sure wouldn't let a back stabbing, twisted tongued chicky suck it. First your problem was... upset with your dom to the point of complete disrespect and now your upset is with the forum members in which you tried to hide facts, twist them and misrepresent even yourself. Good luck with that type of behavior.

Fornica -> RE: Master does not want sex (1/30/2012 6:59:54 AM)
Tameeks, it always cracks me up when people say shit like "you wouldn't say that to me in PERSON"..um, yes. Yes, I would..lol.

kalikshama -> RE: Master does not want sex (1/30/2012 7:02:23 AM)
quote: I have decided to stick it out a bit longer, and when i said that all the sudden I am BPD blah blah. A liar. Nope, I brought in BPD long before you said you were going back to him to give a possible explanation to people who thought you were lying then.

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