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Orgasm on Demand - 6/1/2006 4:35:55 AM

Brosco

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Ok, still a newbie here but time I started a thread about my favourite topic. My kink is Orgasm, tease, denial and control. I enjoy many other activities that are generally recognised and used in D/s, but for me, unless they add to the struggle and therefore my control, they aren't particularly important.

Do others share my kink and want to discuss this further?

Brosco

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RE: Orgasm on Demand - 6/1/2006 5:25:39 AM

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http://www.collarchat.com/m_313958/mpage_4/key_cum%252Ccommand/tm.htm#318676
Cum on command

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Again, I think cumming on command is a neat trick for some people to do- something like being able to curl your tongue. But I think too many get caught up in not only doing it, but feeling like they've made some awesome accomplishment by doing it. I wish people would focus more on simply enjoying their time together- not some hot orgasm.

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RE: Orgasm on Demand - 6/1/2006 5:33:38 AM

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Long time no argue LA, so here goes. I am with you Brosco in that it is a great way to play. But sadly this time i too agree, there is a great deal of info on LA's link. We all had a great time doing battle on that thread so if you wish to witness the melee follow that link.

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RE: Orgasm on Demand - 6/1/2006 5:37:33 AM

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You are most certainly entitled to your opinion, but I doubt if you would be to impressed if I relegated your bdsm-D/s tastes to neat party tricks like curling a tongue!

I unfortunately dont know how to link to a specific post on this forum, but if you scroll down a couple of screens from where you directed me, you will find a great post by ownedgirlie.

Orgasm Control is not a stupid little party trick. It is about giving the control of a body function over to another. Its a pity you are so condescending of the tastes of others.

Brosco

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RE: Orgasm on Demand - 6/1/2006 5:39:26 AM

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"Long time no argue LA, so here goes. I am with you Brosco in that it is a great way to play. But sadly this time i too agree, there is a great deal of info on LA's link. We all had a great time doing battle on that thread so if you wish to witness the melee follow that link. "

Thank you... and being new here I had not read all posts in this forum... i will definitely read it now.

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RE: Orgasm on Demand - 6/1/2006 5:43:01 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Brosco
You are most certainly entitled to your opinion, but I doubt if you would be to impressed if I relegated your bdsm-D/s tastes to neat party tricks like curling a tongue!

Well when it comes to things like orgasms, I'd simply agree with you.

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Orgasm Control is not a stupid little party trick.

I didn't say the word stupid.

quote:

It is about giving the control of a body function over to another.

So people who are not able to orgasm on command are simply withholding control? I know I'd certainly disagree with you on that.

For some people, orgasms are like pissing, you can make them hold it, and then let it go when you say. For some people, orgasms are not like pissing. They aren't withholding control over a body function, they are just doing what they do.

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Its a pity you are so condescending of the tastes of others.

I don't consider it condescending.

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RE: Orgasm on Demand - 6/1/2006 5:54:05 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

quote:

ORIGINAL: Brosco
You are most certainly entitled to your opinion, but I doubt if you would be to impressed if I relegated your bdsm-D/s tastes to neat party tricks like curling a tongue!

Well when it comes to things like orgasms, I'd simply agree with you.

uuummm you would agree with what?????

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Orgasm Control is not a stupid little party trick.

I didn't say the word stupid.

My apologies... you didnt say stupid.

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quote:

It is about giving the control of a body function over to another.

So people who are not able to orgasm on command are simply withholding control? I know I'd certainly disagree with you on that.

Sorry, you failed dismally here. You make an assumption based on my statement, then attack me for your own misconception.

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For some people, orgasms are like pissing, you can make them hold it, and then let it go when you say. For some people, orgasms are not like pissing. They aren't withholding control over a body function, they are just doing what they do.

wow.... uuummmm... have you ever had an orgasm yourself?

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Its a pity you are so condescending of the tastes of others.

I don't consider it condescending.

I do !

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RE: Orgasm on Demand - 6/1/2006 6:10:43 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

http://www.collarchat.com/m_313958/mpage_4/key_cum%252Ccommand/tm.htm#318676
Cum on command

Reposted:
Again, I think cumming on command is a neat trick for some people to do- something like being able to curl your tongue. But I think too many get caught up in not only doing it, but feeling like they've made some awesome accomplishment by doing it. I wish people would focus more on simply enjoying their time together- not some hot orgasm.

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RE: Orgasm on Demand - 6/1/2006 6:19:29 AM

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I don't consider being told to cum or not cum on demmand a party trick. I think it just something the ones involved enjoy. I've never found it to be a personal kink. I do know.... being told to hold an orgasm.... personal... makes it harder for me to explode on command. But that's just me.

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RE: Orgasm on Demand - 6/1/2006 6:32:12 AM

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Oeps, i did something wrong

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But i'm with LA " wish people would focus more on simply enjoying their time together - not some hot orgasme". Of course i don't dislike orgasm. But like everything in life…. To much is never good. I just wonder … When the sub always have to come on command…. Could it be that she’s gonna to fake one??? Just a questione that came in my mind.

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RE: Orgasm on Demand - 6/1/2006 6:34:05 AM

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Brosco, welcome to the wild wonderful world of the collarme forums. LA is our resident link expert and great fun to debate with. She and i have crossed words on occasion. On here you will find all types of folks, we do enjoy our battle of wits. I myself will slash with vehement repartee on subjects i believe in. Try not to take it personally; it is what we are here for after all. Do remember we are governed by a god of mischief who i am sure you will meet at some point.

Smiles...enjoy yourself.

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ORIGINAL:silent4323

To much is never good. I just wonder … When the sub always have to come on command…. Could it be that she’s gonna to fake one??? Just a questione that came in my mind.

Hmmm, too many orgasms being never a good thing; can't say i agree with that one, of course eventually you would pass out but, WOW! I do not think i have ever heard anybody say they got off too many times and i am multi orgasmic.

As to faking it, maybe some can, with me it would not be possible due to unmistakable physical reactions that occur then.

< Message edited by twicehappy -- 6/1/2006 6:44:21 AM >

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RE: Orgasm on Demand - 6/1/2006 8:09:32 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Brosco
My kink is Orgasm, tease, denial and control. I enjoy many other activities that are generally recognised and used in D/s, but for me, unless they add to the struggle and therefore my control, they aren't particularly important.Do others share my kink and want to discuss this further?

I find it difficult to comprehend this whole cum on command thing. (But then, I find it difficult to comprehend most sexual topics.)

I've witnessed this supposed orgasm via instruction at parties. The people engaged in it seemed to think they were doing something oh so interesting and impressive, and seemed kind of..... hrm... theatrical?
I did notice that the ladies doing it didn't show any of the more physical expressions that many ladies exhibit during orgasm. Their faces didn't flush. Their chins didn't tilt. Their muscles didn't tighten (at least the ones we could see). Their teeth didn't clench. Their breathing didn't quicken. It was a lot of "oh! oh! yes! Master!" and then a lot of looking around for audience reaction.
When one sees that kind of theatrical performance over and over again by different people, all calling it "cum on command" one begins to wonder the validity. I kind of chalked it up to shy exhibitionists that enjoyed role-playing, and then I went to watch the needle play thinking "whatever floats your boat."

Frankly, I don't have much of a clue about other people's sexual proclivities, and don't much care to. Hearing about susie subbie's orgasm is almost as exciting to me as hearing about which brand of toilet paper one wipes their ass with. It doesn't disgust me. It doesn't offend me. But it certainly doesn't interest me to the point I'd spend more than a few casual minutes hearing/talking/watching.

I'm more into other aspects of control than bedroom topping. I'm looking for surrender of control of one's mind, heart, soul, and spirit. Not their genitals.

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RE: Orgasm on Demand - 6/1/2006 8:12:37 AM

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What happens if you can't do it? If you hit subspace, you don't get the big O (although subspace is pretty amazing too).

For me, it's one of those things that's less likely the more you try for it. I just like to get totally carried away by the scene, and take whatever comes.

Ok, should have phrased that last bit better....

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RE: Orgasm on Demand - 6/1/2006 8:43:29 AM

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I never did reply in those past threads...I dont think I did anyway...so here goes.

For those few males who are allowed to orgasm,its not only on demand but made into a game.
My favorite thing to make them do is try to get it all in a cup.they are standing or kneeling.
There are penalties for missing the cup.Rewards for getting all of it in...none have done yet...LOL
I have to say that kind of control is fun for Me,they try so hard to please.

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RE: Orgasm on Demand - 6/1/2006 10:01:36 AM

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Bronco I must say you have hit on one of my favorate ways to play!!!
I love beeing teased and denied orgasm

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RE: Orgasm on Demand - 6/1/2006 1:02:45 PM

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Trick or a tool, call it what you will, its just one more item to put in my "bag of tricks". Personally I find it a great way to shut her up when she wants to talk to much. It's pretty hard to talk and orgasm at the same time. Other times its a pain in the arse. Your walking through a store and you say the wronge word...really should have been more careful picking my trigger word... and all of a sudden she's weak kneed and I'm having to play catch. Something about not being able to walk and orgasm.

Like anything else, its what trips your trigger. Pun intended.

If I get this boy I want, who enjoys humiliation play. The thought of triggering him out in public, causing him to mess himself, does amuse me.

I for one, enjoy my little parlor trick.

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RE: Orgasm on Demand - 6/1/2006 1:24:14 PM

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I would love to have relation with a Mistress that could do that for me in either role.

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RE: Orgasm on Demand - 6/1/2006 1:33:07 PM

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Recursive acronym:

GOOD--Good orgasm on demand

Christ, I need a nap.

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RE: Orgasm on Demand - 6/1/2006 2:03:40 PM

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I think it would be so awesome to have someone that could do it to me. Now that would be controlled!!! Now if I can just find someone.

sublace

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RE: Orgasm on Demand - 6/1/2006 3:05:44 PM

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Orgasm on command can be a wonderful thing. What can be difficult is in the following senario:

-sub is with Master.
-Master trains sub to orgasm only on command.
-sub and Master break things off on poor terms.
-sub still can't cum without command.

This is a topic my Dominant and i have discussed many times. In this scenario...when the submissive is receiving permission from a Dominant she is playing with... in essence, she's really still obeying her first Master. Ok, is this getting confusing?

i'll stop before i hurt muhself -snort-

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