FemmeDominion
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OP, I'm a giver. I've had a scat sub in the past. He did not like watersports, just scat. He was a full "flush" as it's said. I have had my Hep shots, tetanus, never tested pos for carrying TB, never had a STD, never had an illness that most people haven't had. That is to say I've only had things like the chicken pox and colds and the flu - nothing where a doc had to scratch their head and look up my symptoms. In other words as far as I know I'm pretty healthy internally. I don't offer when I don't feel well. I'm very conscientious about the whole thing. Before I got into it I read up on what all could go wrong. I read the info from folks that had been doing it for years. I thought about how healthy I was before I seriously considered offering. I have long discussions (much to the horny fetishist's dismay) about everything - research I've found, how much research they've done, if they've eaten their own, how far do they want to go (from simply sniffing it/ being near it, to being only "toilet paper," to the full on "flush," to all the variations in between), we talk about after care -yes, I will care for a sub that gets sick, we talk about the meds I take and how that can get passed on, we talk about any and everything I can think of - as I think anyone would (and in my opinion) should when engaging in HIGH risk play. Do I like the smell? No. Do I like my sub getting his jollies? Yes. Will I only have a sub just as a toilet- no. Personally I need more than that. Blood play and sharps squicks me. I cannot go there. Everyone has their extreme. Mine is scat/watersports. If I remember correctly from looking at your profile, op, you're nowhere near me. I wish you luck and keep in mind some of the things I said above about safety and long conversations. And I agree - watch porn, taste your own (though on this end there is something special about the intimacy of receiving from another but if you're willing to taste your own then that's a very good starting point/indicator), research, and decide how far you want to take this. If it remains a fantasy there's no shame in that. If it moves beyond - no shame there either. FD Edited for the little grammar rules that I do know.
< Message edited by FemmeDominion -- 1/25/2012 11:45:55 AM >
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Now this is not gonna be pretty. We're talking violence, strong language, adult content... o·pin·ion -a personal view, attitude, or appraisal. FD,Your logic does not resemble our Earth logic. FD: Mine is much more advanced.
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