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Kana -> RE: my Master... (2/22/2012 10:55:55 AM)
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Kana's general rules for meets.
1-Meet in a public place-Starbucks is my personal preference. They are everywhere, everyone knows em, and they are almost always crowded.
2-If things go well, we go not to my place, not to her place, but a hotel where she has the reservations-thus management is obligated to protect her, the guest, not me...and we drive separately
3-No restraints in first play. I want her to feel that she can leave at any time (And if I need more restraints than my word and will, there's something wrong with how we are interacting)
Note that these are designed for her safety, so that she feels secure and comfortable. They also build the foundation of trust. By being patient, by showing understanding of her fears and where she may be emotionally, by acknowledging her vulnerability, understanding why it is there and that it is rational, planning a thought out response that takes her fear into consideration, I am demonstrating responsibility.
Now these are general rules. Sure, I've met folks, driven em home in my car and molested the fuck out of them (With their utter consent...as in "Please fuck me now, Kana" sorta stuff), but as a rule, these will let her feel safe while still allowing room for sparks to fly, things to occur and grow.
What I won't do, evereverever, is give personal info to someone before I meet them. No license #'s, no full names, nada.
Why should I? WTF are they? I don't know em. I sure as heck don't trust em.
Why should I? They are just words on the screen. I have zero reason to believe they have my best interests at heart.
And ya know what-that's responsible too. That's responsible to myself. And if a chica don't like it, oh well. I ain't a HNG and the great thing bout America-there's another slutty chick waiting round the corner...always.
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