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NocturnalStalker -> RE: Are all "Pay Pigs" just desperate little losers? (1/30/2012 11:23:25 AM)

I'm sure your flirtations towards her has absolutely no bias.

But that is fine.  I remember when I was twelve, too.




xXLithiumXx -> RE: Are all "Pay Pigs" just desperate little losers? (1/30/2012 11:23:47 AM)


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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

he just thinks he has, Niner. yano, cause he's all speshul and stuff.



It's like letting your kids believe in Santa Clause. You know it isn't real, but what harm is it in letting them think it is?

Once the grown up settles in, real experience kicks in, and reality meets the two...the realization that it's been mom and dad making the magic all along comes crashing down...well...there will be some pouting, but in the end, he'll move on.

Besides...My Granny-Mom always said "Change a fools mind against his will and he will be of the same opinion still"




mnottertail -> RE: Are all "Pay Pigs" just desperate little losers? (1/30/2012 11:24:03 AM)

was your spelling better or worse?




NocturnalStalker -> RE: Are all "Pay Pigs" just desperate little losers? (1/30/2012 11:34:07 AM)

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ORIGINAL: xXLithiumXx


quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

he just thinks he has, Niner. yano, cause he's all speshul and stuff.



It's like letting your kids believe in Santa Clause. You know it isn't real, but what harm is it in letting them think it is?

Once the grown up settles in, real experience kicks in, and reality meets the two...the realization that it's been mom and dad making the magic all along comes crashing down...well...there will be some pouting, but in the end, he'll move on.

Besides...My Granny-Mom always said "Change a fools mind against his will and he will be of the same opinion still"


She bastardized the Dale Carnegie quote. 




xXLithiumXx -> RE: Are all "Pay Pigs" just desperate little losers? (1/30/2012 11:34:57 AM)

Just sayin'.


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GreedyTop -> RE: Are all "Pay Pigs" just desperate little losers? (1/30/2012 11:35:15 AM)

so, duckyface, when ya gonna grow up and actually BE an adult? or are you content being the stunted soul that you appear to be here?




crazyml -> RE: Are all "Pay Pigs" just desperate little losers? (1/30/2012 11:35:48 AM)

Catize, your point is a good one. And yes, I generally feel strongly that we should not be judging people for their kinks.

I have had a tendency to judge paypigs.. Perhaps because of the number of whining bitches that post findomme threads.

There have been some really decent replies to this thread, and they've helped challenge that prejudice.

Of course there have been some pretty pointless replies too of course, but even these are useful in their own way.




stef -> RE: Are all "Pay Pigs" just desperate little losers? (1/30/2012 11:38:05 AM)

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

so, duckyface, when ya gonna grow up and actually BE an adult? or are you content being the stunted soul that you appear to be here?

Emo Platypus has no need for adulthood. He's our very own Peter Pan except he can't fly and nobody likes him.




NocturnalStalker -> RE: Are all "Pay Pigs" just desperate little losers? (1/30/2012 11:39:34 AM)

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

so, duckyface, when ya gonna grow up and actually BE an adult? or are you content being the stunted soul that you appear to be here?


Really?




GreedyTop -> RE: Are all "Pay Pigs" just desperate little losers? (1/30/2012 11:41:08 AM)


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ORIGINAL: stef

quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

so, duckyface, when ya gonna grow up and actually BE an adult? or are you content being the stunted soul that you appear to be here?

Emo Platypus has no need for adulthood. He's our very own Peter Pan except he can't fly and nobody likes him.






QFT




GreedyTop -> RE: Are all "Pay Pigs" just desperate little losers? (1/30/2012 11:42:30 AM)


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ORIGINAL: NocturnalStalker

quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

so, duckyface, when ya gonna grow up and actually BE an adult? or are you content being the stunted soul that you appear to be here?


Really?




yes, really, stuntyduck!!

(you do realize, I am not using the words I would normally choose to apply to you, right?)




NocturnalStalker -> RE: Are all "Pay Pigs" just desperate little losers? (1/30/2012 11:44:00 AM)

I realize that somebody that says words like, "speshul" is talking about stunted growth. 




Ninebelowzero -> RE: Are all "Pay Pigs" just desperate little losers? (1/30/2012 11:45:24 AM)

When have you known me NOT to flirt I am an inherent tart. It's common knowledge. & though I say so myself I am fucking good at it.




PeonForHer -> RE: Are all "Pay Pigs" just desperate little losers? (1/30/2012 11:50:22 AM)

One thing that's just struck me, ML:

Going on the premise that humiliation is just another form of masochism (i.e. one that focuses on mental rather than physical pain) and that some prefer severe pain to mild pain, it could be that, with pay pigs, we're just looking at a strong form of humiliation buzz.

The point is that none of us who's never reached a level of either kind of pain, and enjoyment thereof, is likely to understand it. Thus, basically, I don't fully understand out-and-out pain sluts, no matter what species of pain they're into.




xXLithiumXx -> RE: Are all "Pay Pigs" just desperate little losers? (1/30/2012 12:02:17 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: NocturnalStalker

quote:

ORIGINAL: xXLithiumXx


quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

he just thinks he has, Niner. yano, cause he's all speshul and stuff.



It's like letting your kids believe in Santa Clause. You know it isn't real, but what harm is it in letting them think it is?

Once the grown up settles in, real experience kicks in, and reality meets the two...the realization that it's been mom and dad making the magic all along comes crashing down...well...there will be some pouting, but in the end, he'll move on.

Besides...My Granny-Mom always said "Change a fools mind against his will and he will be of the same opinion still"


She bastardized the Dale Carnegie quote. 



Im going to address this because you don't seem to get exactly how insignificant you are in the grand scheme of life.

1) I had no idea there was a town in California named Ontario-so I knew damned good and well it was Canada. So that's a wager you would lose pal.
2) The duck face comment came from the fact that it seemed to stem from the West Coast..OF THE UNITED STATES. (just cos you seem to have some geographical issues)
3) Until you wanted to be a dick, it was all fun and games.
4) I was more than content to let this slide until you continued to make derogatory posts about Nine and myself, and the nature of our friendship.
5)You wanna keep on and keep on and that just lends to the feel that you are a troll. I give a damn how many posts you have up, a troll is a troll, even if it is a well traveled one. And anyone who purposely starts shit just for the verbal bashing and bull shit it starts is a troll. And you, darling, fit that bill to a T. You make bizarre little comments designed to be inflammatory, and then blame it on some one else. That is so childish. My 15 year old does that same shit.

Now, you want to take more offense? You want to keep talking? That's cool. I meant what I said, beyond this post, I have no intention of acknowledging a single word you say, because I know guys like you from a mile away.

You sit back with what you think is this untapped mountain of knowledge for which you have no practical use, because you are sitting at home, alone, bitching about how the world doesn't fit your definition. So, you make little passive aggressive comments, thinking you are offering something up, when in reality, you have nothing to offer. At all. In totality, you are a waste of human flesh and are taking up good air on my planet. The great thing about it is that you know you have nothing to offer so it makes you bitter and hateful towards anyone that isn't a tight ass like you. So, you sit back, trying with all your little heart to piss people off so you can read it later and jerk off.

Most of the time, like in the instance where I first engaged you, I was being funny. I feel, based on the short terms in which you speak, that you would sound like Ben Stein. I was trying to get you to loosen up, and have a little fun, you are way too young to be acting like you have to have mylanta to shit right. I thought if you realized how entirely elderly you sounded...you might take the hint. But tell me, did that comment hit close to home? Was that the problem? You lack true personality and it makes you hate everyone? Are you possibly a sociopath that is too young, too scared and too inexperienced to start killing strangers? Or do you have bodies in mommy's basement? Even better, Norman, is mommy in the basement with you?

All of that is irrelevant. (And I apologize profusely to the OP. It was not my intention to derail your thread by tossing insults around with the kiddies. I feel like this thread has a great deal to offer, and I feel horrible for my part in taking away from that. I hope in some way I have contributed at least one positive perspective on why people pay for domination.)

The relevant thing is this...grow up. Just because I say something, does not automatically require you to open your mouth.
I think, and I am sure almost everyone here would agree, that it is best if you keep your comments to yourself, and I will gladly do the same, since it is obvious from this thread that you have no personality, zero sense of humor, and no sense of respect for anyone what-so-ever. Even after comments have been made asking you, and myself, to knock this shit off, you keep on running your mouth. I was glad to let it go.

So...grow up. Move on. Get over yourself. Get a life. Get a hobby. Whatever you have to do, but in the interest of offering something useful, keep your comments about people's fetishes and how dumb or immature you -think- they may be (because you aren't paid to think here honey, and no one really gives a flying rats ass what you think) to yourself.



Again, OP, I apologize for my part in this. I really do.

And you, as well as the others, have my word that this is the last time I will comment towards this...ahem...person.








NocturnalStalker -> RE: Are all "Pay Pigs" just desperate little losers? (1/30/2012 12:04:57 PM)

So much for that whole, "I won't pay attention to him."

Couldn't resist, obviously.




xXLithiumXx -> RE: Are all "Pay Pigs" just desperate little losers? (1/30/2012 12:16:58 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

One thing that's just struck me, ML:

Going on the premise that humiliation is just another form of masochism (i.e. one that focuses on mental rather than physical pain) and that some prefer severe pain to mild pain, it could be that, with pay pigs, we're just looking at a strong form of humiliation buzz.

The point is that none of us who's never reached a level of either kind of pain, and enjoyment thereof, is likely to understand it. Thus, basically, I don't fully understand out-and-out pain sluts, no matter what species of pain they're into.



Is the humiliation just an on line thing? I can't help but wonder about that based off of the real time interaction I have had with paying clients. In a real time setting, it was less about the humiliation and more about the actual pay. In one instance, he just wanted to sit down with a dominant and talk out how he felt, and how to act on it with his wife.

I had one client that simply wanted me to have nice things, and wanted to (his words not mine) "offer gratitude for allowing him to spend time with me." With that one it was most often that he wanted to go to lunch, or to go to a movie. He wanted someone to open doors for, and to buy flowers.

I think, as I have said before, that pay for play has a great many benefits for both people, I mean, taking into consideration time, devotion to the lifestyle, and so on, it offers a bit more freedom of movement.

Or am I missing the point?




Yachtie -> RE: Are all "Pay Pigs" just desperate little losers? (1/30/2012 12:17:11 PM)

fr

[passes Lithium the popcorn]




Ninebelowzero -> RE: Are all "Pay Pigs" just desperate little losers? (1/30/2012 12:19:07 PM)

Is attention all you desire NS?

It seems your entire focus.

Not snarking btw, just curious.




xXLithiumXx -> RE: Are all "Pay Pigs" just desperate little losers? (1/30/2012 12:19:47 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Yachtie

fr

[passes Lithium the popcorn]



-nods and munches-

Thanks dollie.

Oo...You know what is amazing? Little Caesars Garlic butter on pop corn.

I be back!




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