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RE: A New Domme - 2/18/2012 11:37:28 AM   
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Status: offline 		Mike - none of us can tell you what to do, and I know you know this. We also know that you (usually *kiss*) have a great head on your shoulders. Please, dearheart, do what is BEST FOR YOU.

Saying that, I will also say, do not discard that piece of string, because it may be the piece that completes the quilt.

Take some time, assess.

She will understand, I hope, if you explain your feelings and WHY those feelings are there.

as always I wishthe best for you.

(and feel free to ignore me, I haz teh sleepies, and am toddling off to bed in a few, so I make no claim that I am coherent or making sense at this pointy in time. I just hope that I am clear enough that you know you are loved and those of us that think highly of you want the best for you)

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RE: A New Domme - 2/18/2012 1:07:30 PM   
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Status: offline 		Mike, really. Read over our cmails again. Take a step back and get some perspective. Do what's right for YOU.

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RE: A New Domme - 2/18/2012 4:25:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		I can't take a step back Lady,i'm afraid of missing whats in store for me if i only have the courage to step forward

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RE: A New Domme - 2/18/2012 9:55:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		It really comes down to this Lady Hib,a coward dies a thousand deaths....a brave man can only die but once.
Were I to walk away my nights would be haunted by things I could/might have been able to experience......I don't care to live with that sort of fear,brought on by my own timidity

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Forget Guns-----Ban the pools

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RE: A New Domme - 2/19/2012 7:55:38 AM   
slvemike4u


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Status: offline 		I'm back,at least I think I am,so let me repeat something....
I decided to surrender and accept everything,some think I am selling my self short and entering into a relationship in which my needs are not being met.
I can not disagree with that...I really,really can't
But I can't get over the fear that should I walk away from this I would suffer a thousand deaths,each and every night,should I take counsel of my fears.
So I am going forward...fear and all

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RE: A New Domme - 2/19/2012 8:00:12 AM   
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RE: A New Domme - 2/19/2012 8:25:37 AM   
slvemike4u


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Status: offline 		Thanks,I need them...cause I'm scared,and She isn't bending on anything,it is Her way or the highway.
I chose Her way and She demanded that I hold on to the courage to surrender completely and allow Her to take me along for the ride...so here goes....

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If we want things to stay as they are,things will have to change...Tancredi from "the Leopard"

Forget Guns-----Ban the pools

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RE: A New Domme - 2/19/2012 8:28:59 AM   
slvemike4u


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Status: offline 		Apparently I have lost someone here....a lovely Lady who feels I am making a mistake and going forward in error.
I am sorry You feel that way,and hope You can see that I am doing this,scared and all...my ability to say no is intact,and I will do so down the line if it all comes to be too much for me.

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RE: A New Domme - 2/19/2012 12:33:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		Are you talking to me? I haven't run off, just conked out from too much time in front of the technology! More tonight via cmail, and you know I wish you the best no matter what!

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RE: A New Domme - 2/19/2012 1:10:09 PM   
slvemike4u


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Status: offline 		Yes Lady Hib,I was afraid my decision had gotten You a tad upset with me...and I didn't want that,not in the least
The Dommely Ladies here are such a great resource for me and there isn't a one of You that I want to "lose"
Thanks,I will be looking for it

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Forget Guns-----Ban the pools

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RE: A New Domme - 2/19/2012 1:11:39 PM   
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RE: A New Domme - 2/19/2012 1:41:45 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: slvemike4u
She isn't bending on anything,it is Her way or the highway.


I didn't think there were many of us left. It is so odd to me that in the world of domination and submission that her way is the exception to the rule. Such is life in the world of conditional submission. Good luck and best wishes on this new frontier.


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RE: A New Domme - 2/19/2012 2:15:24 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm not sure how to read that last Miss Liz,but I am going to make an assumption that it is not pure snark...and answer it straight up
My submission is not conditional,my agreeing to submit ,is in fact conditional.
Were and when I submit I do so as fully as common sense allows me to...but there are always pre-submission negotiations in which the parameters of ones consensual slavery are set.
It was here that my Lady refused to budge,it was here that She laid it out,Her way or the highway...and it was there that I fell to my knees and accepted Her right to lead me.
An acceptance that can,realistically speaking,be withdrawn the moment i feel my needs are not being met.I ,being an honorable and enthusiastic slave would never withdraw my submission lightly...but I always retain that right.

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If we want things to stay as they are,things will have to change...Tancredi from "the Leopard"

Forget Guns-----Ban the pools

Funny stuff....https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eNwFf991d-4


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RE: A New Domme - 2/19/2012 2:26:02 PM   
slvemike4u


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Check your cmail!

checked and responded too...but now I'm confused...and maybe something else to,I didn't see that coming

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Forget Guns-----Ban the pools

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RE: A New Domme - 2/19/2012 2:46:18 PM   
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RE: A New Domme - 2/19/2012 2:51:57 PM   
slvemike4u


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Status: offline 		Oh I wasn't doubting the pals thing...not at all.Just confused about the confusion....lol.

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Forget Guns-----Ban the pools

Funny stuff....https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eNwFf991d-4


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RE: A New Domme - 2/20/2012 8:12:58 AM   
slvemike4u


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Status: offline 		Okay,an update on the Lady's attempt to aid me in quitting smoking.
I received a text last night,the orders for the day are thus...for every cigarette smoked I am to spend 5 minutes kneeling on rice at 11:30 each night.
No cigarettes allowed at all after 11:30.
Now we have done the rice thing together,She knows I hate it,that my body can barely tolerate the extended kneeling ,far less the rice.
The result so far is that I have been up since 9...it is 11:15 and I have only smoked 2 cigarettes...usually by now I would have had 4 or 5.
I hate this,but I asked for it,I have wanted to quit for many years and requested She help me,well She is...and i hate Her for it

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If we want things to stay as they are,things will have to change...Tancredi from "the Leopard"

Forget Guns-----Ban the pools

Funny stuff....https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eNwFf991d-4


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RE: A New Domme - 2/20/2012 8:43:10 AM   
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Status: offline 		yay you, Yay your Domme:) good luck quitting...ps let her know that jiffy pop is a BITCH to use too:)well any hard kernals of corn work nut and cut hard rice is even better for those sharp bits..or even lego's
That said, you didnt say wether you cooked the rice first, cos yanno thats cheating(and kinda messy)

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RE: A New Domme - 2/20/2012 8:55:24 AM   
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Status: offline 		No Lucy ,the rice isn't cooked...and why in gods name would I pass along any of those other AWFUL suggestions
Slave I might be...but stoopid slave nah

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If we want things to stay as they are,things will have to change...Tancredi from "the Leopard"

Forget Guns-----Ban the pools

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RE: A New Domme - 2/20/2012 9:06:10 AM   
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