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slvemike4u -> RE: A New Domme (2/22/2012 7:40:08 AM)

This is slowly transitioning into my "I'm quitting" thread....lol
Question...is it cheating if I all of a sudden switch to 100's,lol....walked the dog,got in my car ran errands(a lot of errands) came home and had been up forover two hours when I smoked that fist cigarette.
That sucker got inhaled,and inhaled quickly,before I knew it I was smoking a fucking filter....lol.
But I'm sticking to the program(as if She would let me off the hook now) I will get ready to play a round of golf,smoking my second cigarette on the way to the course.Leaving the pack home [:)]



GreedyTop -> RE: A New Domme (2/22/2012 8:53:52 AM)

I'm proud of you, Mike. You're following through. *hugs*



slvemike4u -> RE: A New Domme (2/22/2012 11:38:55 AM)

New rule,no smoking in my car,s I played golf(where I have decided there is no more smoking...lol) with the cigarettes in the car,waited till I got home...than had my third of the day.
If I can eliminate the occasions when I feel it is okay to smoke....I can whittle down the smoking to a point where it just gets stupid to continue....lol



DesFIP -> RE: A New Domme (2/22/2012 3:58:25 PM)

Good luck.
Remember that there is no shame to need help quitting. 20% of people who smoke find it easier to quit heroin than nicotine.
If you need Zyban or the patch or the e cigs, that's fine too. In this case it's the end that matters, not how you get there.



slvemike4u -> RE: A New Domme (2/22/2012 4:05:51 PM)

Agreed Des,but I have,in the past tried most of those methods...and failed.
This time around I am going to go the wean myself off method....just try like hell to cut down the nicotine that I introduce to my body,while mentally convincing myself that the things I love to do,can be accomplished without a cigarette dangling from my lips.
Guaranteed results? No way,just another attempt,my doctor once told me it doesn't matter how many times I fail,that I only need to succeed once [:D]



DesFIP -> RE: A New Domme (2/22/2012 4:09:19 PM)

He's absolutely right.

I hope this time is the last time you have to quit.



slvemike4u -> RE: A New Domme (2/22/2012 5:01:15 PM)

Thanks,me too...cause quitting sucks....lol



slvemike4u -> RE: A New Domme (2/24/2012 2:29:28 PM)

The quitting program took a serious hit yesterday,it being "date" night and Her being scary as all get out to me
So,i fell backwards a little bit yesterday,must have smoked 15 17 cigarettes(though I smoked them nervously,which is to say,not completely,they would get lit,held in my hand put out early...etc.etc The program will be rejoined tomorrow,I never thought it was going to be smooth and easy,not with all the shit She is putting me thru at the same time



LadyHibiscus -> RE: A New Domme (2/24/2012 2:55:48 PM)

Good luck, babe. Does she let you smoke in her presence? She's kinder than I would be!



slvemike4u -> RE: A New Domme (2/24/2012 3:04:24 PM)

Yes She does,but She smokes too...so She told me,in light of what She knows is my extreme edginess(hell She works hard enough to put me there)that i can have 1 cigarette cost free(no 5 minute rice rule) for every three She smokes...but it is the day leading up to date night that knocked me off the perch.
The new ground She is making me walk,has my knees shaking a bit,when i'm nervous falling back on crutches seems like the only sane reaction.
But i have vowed ,driving back from the hotel this afternoon,that i will not work hard all week to limit my smoking to once again let it blow up just cause the calendar says Thursday.....i have more backbone than that...or at least i hope i do [:)]



LadyHibiscus -> RE: A New Domme (2/24/2012 3:10:56 PM)

Oh great, she smokes too?? Helpful. [&o]



slvemike4u -> RE: A New Domme (2/24/2012 3:25:27 PM)

Well.......She is trying to be,She gives me props for trying to quit,She is proud of me when i do well...but She is a smoker,plain and simple and has never ,as far as i know,expressed a desire to quit.
Would it be easier for Her to take a hard case view of my smoking were She not a smoker ?
Perhaps...but as i kneel nightly on short grain rice(hurts worse than long grain...much to my surprise) to the tune of 5 minutes for each cancer stick ,I do wonder how She would accomplish that



LadyHibiscus -> RE: A New Domme (2/24/2012 3:35:45 PM)

You're the one that wants to quit, not her, right? If she were lousy at quitting, they hey! lousy role model. I just know it's harder to quit something when those around you are doing it.



slvemike4u -> RE: A New Domme (2/24/2012 4:08:01 PM)

true,but hell ifi use that as an excuse i'm sunk....my whole family smoke like chimneys....on that count we are "white trash"...lol



Hippiekinkster -> RE: A New Domme (2/24/2012 4:40:03 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: slvemike4u

true,but hell ifi use that as an excuse i'm sunk....my whole family smoke like chimneys....on that count we are "white trash"...lol
(other thread: yeah, Kitten was tres cool. might be on FL.)

My whole family lit up, too. I'm the first to quit at less than 60 years old. When I did it, I switched brands, got on zyban, went to a hypnotist, tapered, sucked on a straw, played with a pencil, visualized myself tobacco-free, kept telling myself how much they stank, how muc my clothes, my car, my house stank... it worked. I tapered doen to two cigarettes on Jan 22, 1999. Woke up Sunday the 23rd, said "today's the day" and haven't had one since. And haven't had any urges,

You'll make it.



slvemike4u -> RE: A New Domme (2/24/2012 4:52:48 PM)

I've tried every method out there ceptin hypnotism...I'm told highly intelligent folks can not be put under...so why waste the money [:)]
I hold on to the thought that it matters not a whit how many times I fail,I only need succeed once [:)]



TheGoddessGoldie -> RE: A New Domme (2/24/2012 4:57:54 PM)

Anyone can be Hypnotized especially Highly intelligent people...We are hypnotized everyday (Religion, Media, Tv, Movies, Even driving & even hypnotize ourselves)...

Not every Professional uses the same techniques.



slvemike4u -> RE: A New Domme (2/24/2012 5:02:05 PM)

Goddess,I had my tongue firmly planted in cheek writing that post.....I was busting the Hippie's balls



slvemike4u -> RE: A New Domme (2/24/2012 6:23:37 PM)

Self inflicted punishment for so egregiously falling wide of the mark yesterday,and large parts of today.....instead of riding out 2 weeks at 7....it is 6 a day starting tomorrow,no more maybe less if I somehow fall into a coma like sleep......lol



Hippiekinkster -> RE: A New Domme (2/24/2012 6:36:52 PM)

Hypnosis is kinda strange... like you're there and not there at the same time. First time for me was a Yoga class, of all places. Wow, tremendous.



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