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ORIGINAL: PolyDommesgirl

i (I) have found that in general; on this site and many others, including non fetish; many men tend to have an aversion to reading profiles. In most cases, they seem to be responding to the pretty pictures or profile photos.
(me at a Wallmart, yep, some are calling that pretty.) (Move left to tie into previous paragraph).

As a m-f transgender person who wears very little make up, (no comma needed here) who doesn't glam out, this is still a compliment.

How ever ("however" is one word) it feels like a roller coaster ride at times. There is the high of the excitement of some new ("new" what? Person? Did you mean "someone?) contacting you, and then the low of no content or photo.

Granted (comma) many emails are form letters. But the fact is, i (I) was still one of the people they narrowed there ("their") selection to.

i (I) am sure many of you have experienced this and found this to be at times (comma) exhausting.

1. What is you ("your") favorite way to respond to the males who throw one liners at you and or ("and/or") don't read your profile?
2. Are you polite, direct (comma) or rude in your response?
3. Do you block them (comma) or ("do you") play it by ear.

Thank you for your input. (You're welcome. I'm here M-F {occasional Saturdays....never on Sunday}, 5:00 p.m. Pacific through approx. 8:00 p.m. or so...happy to help. Don't forget to tip your waitress).

dee

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ORIGINAL: PolyDommesgirl

Thank you "LookieNoNookie" for your editing and admonishment. i do appreciate it.

i am curious to your intentions. What purpose does it serve? Are you trying embarrass me, upset me, or annoy me, if so why?

Have i offended you in some fashion? If so, please tell me and i will do my best to make amends.


i don't claim to be a perfect writer, i never have. i understand my technique can make reading my pieces a tad jaded at times. This is partly because English was not my primary language in my youth. It is a great source of embarrassment to me. However i forgive you. You didn't know that.

i do try to correct the mistakes i see, even if it is after the fact, as can be seen below with the statement that reads. " Message edited by PolyDommesgirl -- 2/14/2012 x:xx:xx PM"

If you have done this because of some content in my profile, perhaps you have read my profile incorrectly. Please note, my Partner is the professional text editor, not i.

i must confess people who perform editing as a passion or as a career have my deepest respects. As you can see, i do not have the patience to be so meticulous.

If you have done this because of this topic, please note the focus was about people, generally men who do not read profiles or who have not taken the time to read entire profiles. The secondary focus of this thread was my attempt to articulate some new found emotions and placing them on my cuff, while reaching out to the community for some advice.

Some how i gather you may have missed that.

i would also like to point out where my statements or words were referring to me, they are done so in the lower case. That is my position in the dynamic with my partner and community. i am proud to be recognized as a submissive. The opposite is true for my Domme.

Merci Monsieur, LookieNoNookie, bonne soirée

dee

PS. i checked out your profile, i also read a few posts by you. i almost regret spending so much time making this response.
What is the internet nic-name for instigators like you?

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ORIGINAL: PolyDommesgirl

Proved my point a 3rd time.