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mnottertail -> RE: Can bdsm mess you up? (2/15/2012 7:08:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: hellionsLight No, this isn't common. Mistakes were made. Take care of your health. Thanks, I will. This thread has messed me up. Maybe I don't want a blowjob anymore............... NAH!!!! FUCK THAT!!!

JanahX -> RE: Can bdsm mess you up? (2/15/2012 7:18:35 AM)
It DOES sound quite Kevinish .... I call bullshit on the whole thing. quote: ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009 quote: ORIGINAL: hausboy I've never seen BDSM "mess someone up"--I've seen people who were already messed up, had some mental health issues, and for some of them, certain types of BDSM play exacerbated their problems. This! But frankly, I'm with Ron on this one. I applaud those of you who have been trying to be helpful and empathetic to the OP. But I've got to call "BS" on this entire thread. None of it makes sense. From the ridiculous premise of the OP itself, to the idea that he actually thought that a pay-per-minute on-line counseling services was a viable form of therapy, to the "moving target" nature of his story, none of it sound like the behavior of a sane, rational human being. So either he's pulling our collective chains, or he has serious mental health problems. Troll or crazy person? Take your pick. The OP said that he has another account here on CM. I have to say that he sounds eerily like Kevin. [8\|] This thread has already reached 5 pages. That's 4.5 more pages than it deserved.

PeonForHer -> RE: Can bdsm mess you up? (2/15/2012 8:04:44 AM)
Welcome to the forums, TBG - and I hope you enjoy your time here as much as the rest of us will.

lostinmyownmind -> RE: Can bdsm mess you up? (2/15/2012 8:10:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Steve2199 quote: ORIGINAL: angelikaJ quote: ORIGINAL: lostinmyownmind So, you did it, you liked it and now, you are having problems with your self image of masculinity because you liked it. You're depressed and anxious because what liking it goes against that self image of masculinity. Oh yeah, therapy is in order here.... We don't even know IF he liked it... but he is depressed and anxious now. I didnt like it, i felt angry for letting her boss me about So, then, you went into something you thought you would like without researching what it is actually all about and now you feel the need to come to a board full of people that do like it and complain? Bullshit meter is reading a solid 9 right now.

Fornica -> RE: Can bdsm mess you up? (2/15/2012 8:13:07 AM)
OP~ YOu were doing sorta okish until the therapist thing. Adding too many obscure details is what tripped you up. Better luck next time. And is the dog person the same dude? The twists and turns are so beautiful in this thread. [image]local://upfiles/1311353/3734E22628014D4B87FA8EB51379D75A.jpg[/image]

kalikshama -> RE: Can bdsm mess you up? (2/15/2012 8:13:11 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TheBigDog By calling sub men pussies, you are both insulting women and violating section guidelines: quote: Keep the discussions civil and mature, and do not insult the kinks, preferences, lifestyles, etc. of others.

xssve -> RE: Can bdsm mess you up? (2/15/2012 8:18:59 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Steve2199 quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus Therapy. Crisis hotline. Your church, if you are religious. Are you sure that this one incident is enough to have pushed you into a whole new zone? I can't think what else it could be, I felt great before I did it, it's kind of freaked me out I dunno why. You have just discovered you are not a submissive - also the reason submissive's are to be respected in general, it's takes a certain amount of strength. Chalk it up to experience, go get a good work out, and fuck somebody else instead, one experience does not brand you for life, it makes you more experienced.

Rochsub2009 -> RE: Can bdsm mess you up? (2/15/2012 8:38:07 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail This thread has messed me up. Maybe I don't want a blowjob anymore............... Someone call an on-line therapist! If he doesn't want a blowjob, then this thread has definitely messed him up. [:D]

xssve -> RE: Can bdsm mess you up? (2/15/2012 8:44:24 AM)
I think the screen name says it all. But to be fair to dominas, not all femmedom is about emasculation, it's often assumed of course, but not at all axiomatic, but it isn't all dependent on the skill of the domina, you work with what you have, so you need to figure out what it is you need and learn to communicate it. What happened probably is that your testosterone levels dropped, some physical activity should help.

poise -> RE: Can bdsm mess you up? (2/15/2012 8:59:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: poise A real man would take no pleasure in insulting another ~~simply to make himself look better.~~ with the intent on making himself look better. quote: ORIGINAL: Kirata I would have to question the part about it making him look better. K.. Hence my Woof. [;)] edited nonetheless

xssve -> RE: Can bdsm mess you up? (2/15/2012 9:16:11 AM)
Well there ya go, that's the testosterone talking.

Steve2199 -> RE: Can bdsm mess you up? (2/15/2012 10:29:45 AM)
Okay, I don't really understand a lot of the replies, I sense a lot of anger towards me, all iwas trying to d was express my feelings, I guess I'll try elsewhere, good luck guys, also I never posted on here before.

VideoAdminGamma -> RE: Can bdsm mess you up? (2/15/2012 10:34:19 AM)
Fast Reply I have pulled a couple of posts for violations. I also had to pull any post that quoted them. If you do not receive a gold letter, and want a copy of your post please contact me. Thank you for your contribution to the forums, VideoAdminGamma

Steve2199 -> RE: Can bdsm mess you up? (2/15/2012 10:34:55 AM)
As for the people getting angry now because I've replied with some of my views or feelings, I tried not to do that because I knew it would make people on here turn against me but when I have people making snide digs it's hard not to reply, there'd be something wrong if i didn't.

Steve2199 -> RE: Can bdsm mess you up? (2/15/2012 10:38:25 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: xssve quote: ORIGINAL: Steve2199 quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus Therapy. Crisis hotline. Your church, if you are religious. Are you sure that this one incident is enough to have pushed you into a whole new zone? I can't think what else it could be, I felt great before I did it, it's kind of freaked me out I dunno why. You have just discovered you are not a submissive - also the reason submissive's are to be respected in general, it's takes a certain amount of strength. Chalk it up to experience, go get a good work out, and fuck somebody else instead, one experience does not brand you for life, it makes you more experienced. Okay, fair enough, I would like the thread to drop now because I can see where it's going, although i feel people will try to keep it going.

DommesLesEnigma -> RE: Can bdsm mess you up? (2/15/2012 10:40:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: xssve quote: ORIGINAL: Steve2199 quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus Therapy. Crisis hotline. Your church, if you are religious. Are you sure that this one incident is enough to have pushed you into a whole new zone? I can't think what else it could be, I felt great before I did it, it's kind of freaked me out I dunno why. You have just discovered you are not a submissive - also the reason submissive's are to be respected in general, it's takes a certain amount of strength. Chalk it up to experience, go get a good work out, and fuck somebody else instead, one experience does not brand you for life, it makes you more experienced. In any case I agree it takes a certain kind of strength.

VideoAdminGamma -> RE: Can bdsm mess you up? (2/15/2012 10:40:38 AM)
Fast reply Please refrain from personal attacks and insulting the kinks of others. If anyone needs help find where the TOS and/or guidelines are I will be happy to help. Thank you for your contribution to the forums, VideoAdminGamma

Steve2199 -> RE: Can bdsm mess you up? (2/15/2012 10:45:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DommesLesEnigma quote: ORIGINAL: xssve quote: ORIGINAL: Steve2199 quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus Therapy. Crisis hotline. Your church, if you are religious. Are you sure that this one incident is enough to have pushed you into a whole new zone? I can't think what else it could be, I felt great before I did it, it's kind of freaked me out I dunno why. You have just discovered you are not a submissive - also the reason submissive's are to be respected in general, it's takes a certain amount of strength. Chalk it up to experience, go get a good work out, and fuck somebody else instead, one experience does not brand you for life, it makes you more experienced. In any case I agree it takes a certain kind of strength. Well most people don't, I'm one of them, even shanks twain sang I'd rather die standing than live on my knees or something like that didn't she? If you like bdsm that's great but i don't, I guess I didn't realise my views were so conflicting to most on here, but I was the thread to finish I don't want to turn it into a pantomime.

DommesLesEnigma -> RE: Can bdsm mess you up? (2/15/2012 10:59:39 AM)
uuuhhh your on a BDSM website...what lost your way

Steve2199 -> RE: Can bdsm mess you up? (2/15/2012 11:00:34 AM)
What do u mean?

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