tweakabelle -> RE: Sterilize all woman getting abortions? Pro or Con? Discuss. (2/28/2012 8:49:29 PM)
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ORIGINAL: tweakabelle Let's face it kali, DS is against anything that might help women out, or give disadvantaged women (or to use his preferred term "spread-ers") any kind of say in their lives, or any kind of meaningful reproductive choice. While men get a variety of sanctimonious platitudes for their sexual choices, women must be punished for their sexual choices in this view. It seems this paragon of compassion's views become more hardline the further one goes down the social scale. Or to put that a little more bluntly, the poorer the woman, the more his belief in punitive interventions in the lives of women hardens. Which causes me to wonder whether misogyny or snobbery or, most likely, both is the issue here. Given the socio-economic realities of the US, there are almost certainly racial aspects to these views too. I'm given to understand that these types of views are not uncommon among the religious and/or looney right in the US. (though any connection between these views and the philosophy propounded by the founder of Christianity is at best tenuous.) Which adds an ideological dimension to the mix. So, in the end, we are being asked to consider an ideologically driven mix of snobbery and misogyny, with racist overtones. The price of enforcing these archaic views and repulsive attitudes is paid by those women and children who disadvantaged impoverished lives are a direct consequence of the denial of reproductive control to poorer women. Does it get any uglier? Holy Fucking Hell Batman. You just fucking eluded to my being a racist. Who the fuck do you think you are? You think you have me pegged, but all you ever do is take the stuff I say about women's responsibilities and drop all the stuff I say about men's responsibilities. You don't know me. You never will know me. Even if we meet and spend 100 years together, you will never know me. You only read or remember what you want to put me in a box. Guess what. I don't fit in any boxes (okay, I would fit in a refrigerator box, but probably not a range/washer/dryer/dishwasher box). I would love for you to show me where I give "sanctimonious platitudes" for the men that are impregnating these women. Go for it. When have I said that I believe abortion should be illegal? When? I guarantee you won't find it. I have no problem stating that I am against abortion. I also have no problem stating that Government has not authority to rule that abortion is legal or illegal. Thus, I'm against abortion being illegal. Ta da! How many more times will I have to state that for you to understand my stance? How many times will it take for you to accept that I am not against women having that choice? Who said: quote: I'm against guys and gals that won't be capable of supporting the result of their fucking if their efforts to prevent it fail still going out and fucking. As enjoyable as fucking is, if you can't cover your ass if you "lose," you shouldn't be rolling those dice. And that applies to men and women, not just women. Oh, that's right. It was ME. OMG!! Where's the misogyny? Where's the snobbery? Where's the racism? Your assigning racism to my statements only highlights your beliefs that the underprivileged who get PP abortions are minority. The best man at my wedding? Black. Whoops. There I go again. Rampant racism, right? Best of luck to you, tweakabelle. From what I've read, you're going to need it. Get one thing straight DS, this is not about you personally. The only thing I described you as was “a paragon of compassion”. All the criticisms were aimed directly at your statements and ideas (such as they are). Bleating about imaginary personal attacks is one way of ignoring those criticisms, but it’s certainly not going to make the criticisms go away. quote:
Where's the misogyny? Where's the snobbery? Where's the racism? Snobbery: Your proposals will have far more devastating impacts on poor and marginalised sections of the community than those who are well-off. An extra mouth to feed, clothe and educate will place far more stress on households with limited budgets. Not to mention the extra health costs under the US’s insane private healthcare system. The proposals you make will have minimal impact on those able to afford, or those who obtain company paid healthcare insurance. The effects of these proposals will impact largely on those unable to obtain private insurance - the less well off sections of society. A policy that has minimal impact on the affluent, while severely disadvantaging the already impoverished is clearly a form of snobbery. Misognyny: If you can’t see the misogyny inherent in referring to women in disparaging ways such”spread[-ers]” or in ‘solutions’ that penalise women unfairly while letting men evade any for the consequences of their actions such as: “This issue can easily be solved. Women who get abortions....should pay for their abortions. If places like Planned Parenthood want to provide free abortions, go for it. Gather donations (which does not include gub'mint payola...that isn't a donation) and provide to your heart's content. THAT is what should happen. It's not whether or not gub'mint should pay for all abortions, or only for the poor. Gub'mint should not be paying for them at all. Period. And, if anyone wants to go down the "women's health" road...can you get pregnant or std's from abstinence? Wouldn't that be a boon to a woman's health? Thought so.” Then all I can conclude is that you have no idea what the word ‘misogyny’ means. Women have"to pay" ... not a word about the fathers. And if the father isn't around, then that's just tough. Aww shucks, the 'spreader' should have chosen her partner more carefully. And if all else fails, try abstinence .... but only women are denied sexual pleasure. Your idea of "womens' health" seems limited to STDs and pregnancies. This kind of attitude is Neanderthal. Racist overtones: Please note that I said the policies you advocate have “racist overtones” and “racial aspects”, not that you were a “racist” as you mistakenly allege. In the US, minority groups are disproportionately represented among the ranks of the disadvantaged. As the policies you advocate will have disproportionate effects on the poorer sections of society, they will clearly have effects that have “racial aspects” and “racist overtones”. So, your post is" an ideologically driven mix of snobbery and misogyny, with racist overtones". Please feel free to respond to these criticisms of your ideas and proposals as you see fit. It would be nice if you respond to the actual words I have written and the arguments I have outlined rather than some fictitious or distorted interpretation that exists only in your head.
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