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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/22/2012 2:28:42 PM   
mnottertail


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I believe if they (and there are glitches on this site) show read, they are read, if they get bulk mailed or whatever and then are deleted, I believe they show delete unread.

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/22/2012 2:30:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Iamsemisweet
But really, the most obvious answer to your question as to why they don't respond is just that they don't want to.


Again, thank you for your straightforward answer -- this time to my original question.

* Oside noted the issue of past track records with bad reactions.
* You noted the issue that maybe they just don't want to (which is a bit puzzling to me, but that's ok)

Thank you both. (seriously, not being a smartass)

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/22/2012 2:35:24 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail
I believe if they (and there are glitches on this site) show read, they are read, if they get bulk mailed or whatever and then are deleted, I believe they show delete unread.


That would've been my guess. Even though glitches can never give us absolute certainty, it's nice to get confirmation of what I figured. Thanks.

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/22/2012 2:39:04 PM   
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Follow-up/clarification: Any other thoughts on my original question if we take my ass out of the picture (so to speak)? Because I didn't used to have that picture on my profile, but the "cricket-effect" has always existed.

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/22/2012 3:31:47 PM   
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See this thread for more on why women don't respond: http://www.collarchat.com/m_4029671/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#4029671

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/22/2012 3:37:31 PM   
DesFIP


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Because we want to have relationships with people, not just sex/play.
Your profile doesn't tell us anything about you.What non kink activities are you passionate about?
Horse riding, volunteering for Habitat for Humanity, geocaching, sudoku, film noir?

When you tell us nothing about yourself, but say you will answer questions, expect not to get any questions. Women read profiles to get a sense of what a guy is like as a person. We aren't going to waste time trying to find this out if something about you doesn't attract us.

Imagine you went to a party and said hello to someone but didn't say anything else. Do you think they would want to play 20 questions trying to find out anything about you or would they assume you were pretty boring and go off to talk to someone whose conversation was engaging? Because that's the equivalent of what you do here. Except your profile is even worse than that, it says "hello, this is what I want you to do to me". If I was at a party and a guy started right in from hello with what he liked in bed, I'd run fast.

In addition, you're looking for a dominant woman but the few lines in your profile are all about what you want her to do, how you want her to serve you. She's dominant, she knows what she likes to do to guys. And she doesn't want to have to follow your script instead of her own.

I suggest you go to Ask a Mistress and read the threads there. It will teach you what dominant females do and don't like.


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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/22/2012 3:39:36 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Aderious

You mean these "ventings" of mine where I expose myself to be eminently logical, articulate, rational and intelligent, even in the face of overwhelming adversity and ad hominem insults directed at me by a crowd of people? In other words, the very traits which any Dom should be required to possess?

I'm fairly sure Ron can get the irony here... I can't decide if the second colored phrase is a pleonasm or not. Any arguments pro? contra?


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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/22/2012 3:50:04 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: JanahX

Can you suck on your own cock too?
Not anymore.


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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/22/2012 3:50:13 PM   
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Dommes get a LOT of mail. So if they specify, "Don't email if ..." and then get your

quote:

Ma'am, I realize that I'm not what you are currently looking for, but

of course they aren't going to respond.

You may have been filtered into Bulk or they may hover over your message and stop reading at this point.

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/22/2012 3:59:09 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aderious

Not yet. I'm going to do some deltoid exercises now and then watch a movie. Haven't decided which one yet. Recommendations? I like serious, intellectual films with masculine themes.

"Abbott and Costello Meet Frankenstein"


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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/22/2012 4:13:43 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam

People don't like to associate with assholes.


I do. I've never really been a boob lover.

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/22/2012 4:17:52 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Hippiekinkster


quote:

ORIGINAL: Aderious

You mean these "ventings" of mine where I expose myself to be eminently logical, articulate, rational and intelligent, even in the face of overwhelming adversity and ad hominem insults directed at me by a crowd of people? In other words, the very traits which any Dom should be required to possess?

I'm fairly sure Ron can get the irony here... I can't decide if the second colored phrase is a pleonasm or not. Any arguments pro? contra?



I doubt he was demonstrating a tautology the punctuation just aint there. He is mordant, but that superrogates mordancy.

I am struggling with forming any (even inept) oratory or scribbled device that; meets a necessary and sufficient set of conditions that it is; ad hominem, and not insult.

Alas, I am wanting in this endeavor.

But check out my ass!!!!!! 

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/22/2012 4:18:31 PM   
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It is true, Ron's ass is quite fine for a man of his experience.

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/22/2012 5:24:52 PM   
sincelo


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I think that you have been given good advice here. To add to it, you say:
quote:

Ma'am, I realize that I'm not what you are currently looking for, but I just wanted to say that I found your profile pictures absolutely stunning; particularly the 3rd one -- you have very arresting eyes.

which seems polite enough though you are already addressing them in a way that assumes a dynamic to some degree. Cut the Ma'am out. You don't know if she wants or likes to be addressed that way by people that she is intimate with never mind complete strangers.
Good luck though.


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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/22/2012 6:48:34 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

It is true, Ron's ass is quite fine for a man of his experience.


I've been told I have a rather saucy little wiggle when I walk.

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/22/2012 6:51:41 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: wannapleez

Follow-up/clarification: Any other thoughts on my original question if we take my ass out of the picture (so to speak)? Because I didn't used to have that picture on my profile, but the "cricket-effect" has always existed.


Women are funny, wannapleez. You show them a picture of your dick, they think you're a dick. You show them a picture of your ass, they think you're an ass.

As asses go, the picture of yours is most definitely not one I'd like see opening an email from you...or anywhere else.

The rest of the advice to thoroughly read and heed the Ask A Mistress FAQ is your best bet, along with getting rid of that horrid picture. It is NOT helping your cause; please trust me on that.

Good luck to you.

PS: to answer your question about whether something shows as read or unread: I have folks who don't match my criteria go to bulk mail. I rarely, if ever, check it. I believe mail is held for about 6 months and then deletes itself. So given enough time, an old email I never saw would probably show as 'deleted unread' and yes indeed, I may have never read it.

< Message edited by MistressDarkArt -- 2/22/2012 6:59:10 PM >

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/22/2012 9:46:16 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Alas, I am wanting in this endeavor.

Inconceivable!
My Ironicator indicated no irony in the possibly pleonastic purple prose. The pompous polysyllabic pup purports possessing particular proficiencies, primarily perspicacity, perceptiveness, physical prowess, practicality, prodigality, precociousness... yet paradoxically phlematic. Pfuck.

It's that "intelligent" vs. "ad-hominem insult" thing. A fallacious use of a fallacy.


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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/22/2012 10:42:32 PM   
Casteele


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aderious
Have you ever seen the posters hanging up on a teenage girl's bedroom wall? Have you ever seen the TV shows that teenage girls watch, or the music they listen to?

Uhmm.. .. .. .. .. This sounds more like the 12-14 year old teen crowd of girls.. Dude, this is an ADULT forum, not the kiddie petting zoo..

I ain't readin' the rest of this fucked up thread. It's gotta be trollbait anyhow.


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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/22/2012 11:25:31 PM   
Aderious


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quote:

ORIGINAL: PolyDommesgirl

i am sensing your heightened state, based on your words and delivery.

i and many O/others understand that the lack of sex and testosterone can agitate people.


Stop speculating about that which you know nothing about or else I'll do the same about your life, starting with your physical appearance, and you won't like it one bit. What do you know about my sex life? Not a damn thing. I said I wasn't getting any sex from this site. I didn't say I wasn't getting *any sex*. There's a massive fucking difference between those statements. Acquire some reading comprehension. Check yourself before you wreck yourself.

I'm sensing female shaming tactics. I understand that females, especially old and over-the-hill ones such as yourself, cannot tolerate naked masculinity, and thus they seek to pathologize healthy male instincts. I can predict with 95% certainty that you haven't slept with anyone under 30 body mass index in years.

I am not getting any sex from Collarme. Hundreds of other men are not getting sex from Collarme. Scratch that, thousands.

You read my post as: "I'm not getting any sex from Collarme. Help me so that I can get laid."

That is NOT what I wrote, you liar.

What I wrote was that this site doesn't work for getting attractive girls, PERIOD.

Not for me. Not for Jesus. Not for Buddha. Not for Michael Jackson. Not for Bill Clinton. Not for you. Not for that older Jewish guy who always posts in these threads. Not for the gimp from Pulp Fiction. Not for the Virgin Mary. Not for the Admin who PMed me to tell me that I shouldn't use personal attacks against others on the forum. Not for a lump of cheese. Not for Bill Gates. Not for Brad Pitt. Not for a homeless bum. Not for anyone. Not for everyone. Not for no one. Not for any permutation of anyone, everyone and no one.

The
Site
Does
Not
Work
For
Getting
Attractive
Girls

The
Site
Works
For
Getting
Unattractive
Girls

I
Do
Not
Want
Unattractive
Girls

Therefore
The
Site
Doesn't
Work
For
Me
And
Anyone
Else
Who
Shares
My
Preference
For
Attractive
Girls

Get it?

The
Site
Simply
Doesn't
Work

I
Can
And
Will
Repeat
This
As
Often
As
It
Takes
For
It
To
Sink
In

You
Have
Zero
Proof
To
The
Contrary

Completely
Unable
To
Refute
Anything
Which
I've
Written

That was an experiment in vertical communication.

quote:

ORIGINAL: PolyDommesgirl
The season can also affect a persons mood. During the winter W/we become deprived of vitamin D.


Not me. I take vitamin supplements.

quote:

ORIGINAL: PolyDommesgirl
i am even open to the belief that some of the ridicule may have been inappropriate. Ignore those comments.


Some? May have been? Open to? Belief? Can you be any more tepid? And don't worry, I already did ignore them.

quote:

ORIGINAL: PolyDommesgirl
Understand fighting with people who want to help you, is neither logical nor productive.

When you are done with this rant, where will that leave you? Will you learn from the lesson. Or will you will still be in the same place from where you started this journey.


It's not a rant, it's an argument. And when it's done, I emerge victorious. That's where I am.

quote:

ORIGINAL: PolyDommesgirl
Many people have been where you are. Not old enough, too young, too big, too small, not the right color of hair, etc. etc. etc. As an example; i have just turned 40 and i am still struggling to find acceptance in some areas in my life.


You have nothing to teach me. The older you get, the easier it is to obtain sex (with other old people). It works like this:
People stop caring, they let themselves go, throw in the towel. And then the party is on, because at that point no one has any standards left. That's when you start hearing things like "It's what inside that counts" and all that other feelgood nonsense for people with chronically low self esteem. I do not need that. Your advice is incapable of benefiting me because I do not seek what you seek. I seek sex with ultra-thin, ultra-pretty, superficial, dumb, young girls. I don't want spiritual enlightenment. I don't want a soulmate. I don't want a friend. I don't want a partner. I want a submissive young wench.

quote:

ORIGINAL: PolyDommesgirl
Let’s hypothetically say you are correct. And let’s hypothetically say, we have accepted your warning. Does this now bring closure for you? Will consider ceasing your rants?


What warning? And no, I intend to keep posting here every few months, as stated before.

quote:

ORIGINAL: PolyDommesgirl
Seriously. Try not to be so intense. Embrace the fact this is a time place to develop more skills. After all you are quite young.


You develop more skills, k? When you start bedding the caliber of people that I bed on a regular basis, you can lecture me. Until then, you're the pupil, and I'm the teacher. What in high heaven makes you think you have the position to teach me anything? I'm a hyper-masculine, ultra-intelligent, ultra-fit alpha male at the peak of his existence.

quote:

ORIGINAL: PolyDommesgirl
Most subs seek a calm and level Dominant. Unpredictable behavior scares the crap out of me and other subs.


I'm as calm and level as an Arctic lake.

quote:

ORIGINAL: PolyDommesgirl
Recognize you have a community you can turn to. Conversely, recognize there are so many others who think they are completely alone with these DEVIANT thoughts in their head.


There's no such thing as a BDSM community for pretty young things and fit young studs like me. There is a BDSM community for morbidly obese, middled-aged wimmin and disgusting, hairy old men who ride Harleys and wear way too much leather. I'm well aware of that "community," and I don't want to touch it with a 10 foot pole. I don't own a Harley, I don't want a Harley and I wouldn't be caught dead wearing leather in the BDSM style. To be part of this you MUST be 1) ugly 2) overweight or 3) old as hell. Those are the rules. There are no exceptions that I've seen - and I've looked. I'm not trying to insult you. I don't need to bring up these points. But when you keep bringing up my sex life and talking down to me as if I'm a virgin, you deserve it. Having sex with old, overweight and ugly people is NOTHING to brag about. I could get that crap every single day of the year if I wanted to. I get disgusting fucks who messaging me asking if I'll piss or shit on them. It's absolutely nothing to be proud of, rofl. You're living in a fantasy land where banging a 1 someone equates to banging a 7. Let me tell you: it doesn't. They're worlds apart. The day you or anyone else on this site turns an attractive, thin, 18 year old cheerleader into your full-time submissive - whom you never knew previously, and contacted on the site - that's when I'll sit down and listen to your advice. I have been waiting for that day and will continue waiting patiently. No evidence = no audience. Show me a photo of you and your young cheerleader with her holding up a sign which clearly states that she is your sub. I'll wait, but I sure as hell won't hold my breath. LOL

quote:

ORIGINAL: PolyDommesgirl
Have a cup of tea and meditate. Accept this moment.


No thanks, I think I'll have sex instead. With a 7+.

You assume I'm not getting sex because I make these threads. Your assumption is incorrect.

It just so happens that I love confrontation of all types, physical and intellectual. I love arguing. Always have, even when I was a kid. It keeps the intellect sharp. I despise small-talk and "feelgood" circle jerks. Let's get out the knives and have at it. May the best man win. That's my approach to life
That's why I post here and other forums where I'm hated. I love facing and defeating all of you in intellectual combat. 20 to 1 odds against me. Fucking champion of the tournament, that's what I am. If this were real life, I'd fight you until you bowed down to me and acknowledged my superiority over you. Fighting and fucking - that's what alpha males do.

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/22/2012 11:41:11 PM   
SpiritedRadiance


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However this site has worked for my partner seeing as he has me.. and hes young attractive and he has managed to snag himself a young and attractive female..

SO..

THIS
Site
Does
Work
Just
Not
For
YOU

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