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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 6:09:42 PM   
poise


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ORIGINAL: Aderious


I have a damn good physique. You know it, I know it. As the saying goes, if you've got it,
you flaunt it. Or at the very least, you don't tuck it away and hide it behind a bunch of clothes.



If it makes you feel any better, it isn't only the hot young submissive women that seem to find you,
and that buff physique of yours to be repulsive, as you can see by comments some men have
made about you on this body building website.

However, judging by your previous contributions to the forum, it always seems to be someone
elses fault for not finding you to be the super duper uber dom you purport yourself to be, so I
see many more months of frustration in your future.

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 6:09:44 PM   
Aderious


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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

By god you are a self confident feller, no fa niente; but your arms look a little scrawny, and your traps are faded (as you know I meant earlier to say ok lats) and you have no real definition to your pecs, I am sure you lift your arm and the muscle disappears.


All valid points but the thing is, my physique is a work in progress and some of those photos are old. I am now larger and more muscular than before and will continue to bring up my weak spots. Some of those photos are from when I was 18 or 19...

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 6:10:41 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SpiritedRadiance

And id fuck DarkSteven in a heartbeat


YAY!!!!!
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.... before id go anywhere near touching you...



Oh. Kicks rocks

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 6:13:31 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Aderious

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

By god you are a self confident feller, no fa niente; but your arms look a little scrawny, and your traps are faded (as you know I meant earlier to say ok lats) and you have no real definition to your pecs, I am sure you lift your arm and the muscle disappears.


All valid points but the thing is, my physique is a work in progress and some of those photos are old. I am now larger and more muscular than before and will continue to bring up my weak spots. Some of those photos are from when I was 18 or 19...



You've been standing around naked for 6 or 7 fuckin years?

Jesus, man........just look, you are not workin your strenghts here....that is about all I can say.....I am just.....just... 

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 6:13:46 PM   
Aderious


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ORIGINAL: poise
If it makes you feel any better, it isn't only the hot young submissive women that seem to find you,
and that buff physique of yours to be repulsive, as you can see by comments some men have
made about you on this body building website.

However, judging by your previous contributions to the forum, it always seems to be someone
elses fault for notfinding you to be the super duper uber dom you purport yourself to be, so I
see many more months of frustration in your future.


Lol, I post on BB.com and I've seen that exact thread. I even posted on it. It was made as a joke. No one there was seriously saying I had a bad physique. A few people pointed out minor (yet valid) criticisms which I acknowledged, but that is the name of the game on a bodybuilding message board. Bodybuilders are devoted to constant physical improvement. Even 250 lb guys with 7% bodyfat will readily acknowledge that they have "weak spots" that need to be brought up. It's just the name of the game. I'm well aware of my weak spots but that doesn't change the fact that I have a better body than the overwhelming majority of the general population. As I said a few posts ago, the only place where you can find guys who can rival or surpass my body is on dedicated bodybuilding forums.

And I know what the male opinion of my physique is because I get flooded with messages from gay guys on every dating site that I join. I get as MUCH attention from gays as I get LITTLE attention from females. Of course, that's a reflection of 2 things: 1) There are vastly greater numbers of gay men online than straight wimmin and 2) Gay men (as men in general) love sex far more than wimmin do and are much more turned on by visual stimuli.


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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 6:14:36 PM   
MissAsylum


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*deep breath*

I'm under 25, at a weight that was recommended to me by a doctor, female, to what people tend to unanimously attest to as being attractive.

Not submissive, but I look at it from that point of view.

1. You're naked. Am I supposed to be naked too? Are all we are going to do is fuck? Is that all you think about

Not sure much else needs to be said, but I'll continue.

2. You're intelligent (as you claim), financially stable, mature *tries to hold in giggle*, a personal trainer, like to shove things up my ass, treat me as an object, put me on a leash while I do housework with my sister submissives while you take photos of us in our stockings.

This is what I got from your profile. You don't really explain who YOU are.

3. You are looking for live-in without any details of my living arrangement.

4. You say no men, but you are seeking submissive men, male-dom couples...plus, you're naked. Are we crying foul here?


You aren't interesting. And I mean as a person, not a dominant. And fyi, women in my age group aren't as into physical attributes as much as men your age are.

All i am seeing is that you are interested in fucking more than looking for a mate. If you want a live-in(s), you'll have to present yourself as wanting that.

I'm more than a little bit amused that you are so peeved about not getting any attention that you seem to deserve. As another poster pointed out, men outnumber women by a looooooooong shot.

So fuck a submissive running backwards with a crowbar if she doesn't want to respond to you, when she has a choice.

Seriously, get it out of your head that you are entitled to a response or a submissive girl should be clamoring to be at your black bar.



Oh, and your attitude, it sucks. Fix it.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aderious

Message to doms: Find a relatively attractive young female sub who isn't 50 lbs overweight? Then don't bother messaging her because you'll never get a response.

Source: Been here for 9 months, probably sent over 1,000 messages, response rate is WELL under 1%. Tried every strategy in the book. Absolutely nothing works. Female subs almost never view my profile (I get one hit every other month, if that). It's just a constant stream of PM's and views from old gay guys. This is what BDSM is all about. Leather perversions for sexual rejects. My pics speak for themselves. I am not a sexual reject. If this site truly had a population of attractive young sub girls then my inbox would be filled with messages from them. But it's not because they don't exist. This is a fantasy site not a dating site for those under 45 and <300 lbs. If you're over 45 and weigh more than 300 then it becomes an actual dating site, but not before.

Just a friendly FYI to straight male doms: don't waste your time. If it looks too good to be true, it is.Those 18-25 year old sub girls are either gay guys wanting to jerk off to your pics or else they're hit-and-run profiles made once and then forgotten by girls who have no intention of meeting anyone off the site.



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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 6:15:58 PM   
SpiritedRadiance


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Status: offline 		Oh DS you know i lust after you..

and Poise My gods,,, Just i cant stop laughing

and Op..

You dont get that your body isnt attractive to most women... most men... most animals and most inanimate objects but thats okay.. just one day.. it will sink in... For the love of all the gods in the universe a girl can pray you will finally get it

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 6:17:34 PM   
Daddysredhead


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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 6:18:44 PM   
tiggerspoohbear


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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 6:18:46 PM   
Aderious


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ORIGINAL: SpiritedRadiance
You dont get that your body isnt attractive to most women... most men... most animals and most inanimate objects but thats okay.. just one day.. it will sink in... For the love of all the gods in the universe a girl can pray you will finally get it


Why not? List the reasons and be specific.

That's funny because nearly every partner I've ever had has commented on how much they liked my body. And although you can't see it in my profile photos, I'm also very well endowed.

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 6:19:53 PM   
poise


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Status: offline 		Perhaps you should take some of that devotion to improving your physique and add some warmth to your personality.
Even if I were attracted to you physically, there seems to be no substance to you, or you are seriously lacking in social skills.
I'd advise you to stop trying to flag passersby with those abs lest they think there is something more they can sink their teeth in.

Another thing, say there is a small chance that tomorrow, someone that meets your search criteria looks at your profile and
finds interest in you. You are preparing your own noose by making posts such as this (complaining) and all she has to do is
click on Read Users Forum Posts.

If you are truly interested in putting your best foot forward, why do you think complaining like a high school kid is attractive?

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 6:20:40 PM   
mnottertail


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ORIGINAL: SpiritedRadiance

Oh DS you know i lust after you..

and Poise My gods,,, Just i cant stop laughing

and Op..

You dont get that your body isnt attractive to most women... most men... most animals and most inanimate objects but thats okay.. just one day.. it will sink in... For the love of all the gods in the universe a girl can pray you will finally get it


Well, it may not be so much that it is not attractive, but it sure is not attractive in context, and might be causing legionaires disease at  a nude beach, but we got all these department stores and they have sort of brainwashed us into wearing clothes most times, so we gotta dress for success that way... But if the situation becomes that a girl gotta oooo and ahhhh and fawn and mewl in the sheets about a glorious body, she aint gonna get a nut on that bitch either, and she is after that, no matter what she tells ya.

I think his act would go well in a gay bar though, it's raw like that. 

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 6:21:19 PM   
Kaliko


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ORIGINAL: Aderious

And although you can't see it in my profile photos, I'm also very well endowed.




Oh my...your black box is so....big.

<swoons and falls back on my Bon Jovi poster>

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 6:23:08 PM   
Aderious


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ORIGINAL: poise
However, judging by your previous contributions to the forum, it always seems to be someone
elses fault for not finding you to be the super duper uber dom you purport yourself to be, so I
see many more months of frustration in your future.


It's no one's "fault" - this isn't about finding anyone to blame. That's not how I operate.

A statement of fact is a statement of fact whether that fact represents a positive, negative, or neutral situation.

The statement of fact in this case is that this site does not work for young, straight male doms.

The odds are so enormously stacked against us that it might as well be impossible. For ME, this obviously represents a negative situation. For someone else, it could be a positive (say, an older dom who is looking for older subs).

I'm just stating facts, that's all. I'm not looking for anyone to blame. Bitches do that. I am no bitch. I accept full responsibility for everything that happens to me in my life. And all I'm saying is that by virtue of being 1) male and 2) hetero and 3) young, I and anyone else who fits that criteria will NOT have any success with finding subs on this site.

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 6:23:26 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		the one where hes wearing pants?  or is there another?

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 6:24:48 PM   
SpiritedRadiance


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aderious

quote:

ORIGINAL: SpiritedRadiance
You dont get that your body isnt attractive to most women... most men... most animals and most inanimate objects but thats okay.. just one day.. it will sink in... For the love of all the gods in the universe a girl can pray you will finally get it


Why not? List the reasons and be specific.

That's funny because nearly every partner I've ever had has commented on how much they liked my body. And although you can't see it in my profile photos, I'm also very well endowed.



You have 100 posts, all complaining about how women you find attractive do not like you

You have a very skinny undefined waist

My arms are more defined then yours

My thighs are more defined then yours

Your black box has been too far embellished...

Your personality sucks

You offer no warmth

Your profile lacks any sort of personality

You cant get a hint that your body wont get you chicks..

DS can have nearly any woman on this forum he wants, what is he doing right that your doing so terribly wrong?

Lots of men on this site who are over weight and old... tend to get chicks like me...

What are they doing right that your doing so so terribly wrong?

THEY OFFER MORE THEN THEIR BODIES...

Im a chick.. im a semi hot chick... I can walk out my door and say to the first 10 men i see... Hey wanna fuck... And guess what... IM GOING TO GET LAID...

If i want a relationship... i need more then a half limp dick, overly small testies from steroid use.. and tiny baby chicken arms...


< Message edited by SpiritedRadiance -- 2/21/2012 6:27:05 PM >

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 6:25:28 PM   
MissAsylum


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I know 3 couples that are headed by young, straight male doms- who have all met here.

You make your experiences here, nobody else.
quote:

ORIGINAL: Aderious

It's no one's "fault" - this isn't about finding anyone to blame. That's not how I operate.

A statement of fact is a statement of fact whether that fact represents a positive, negative, or neutral situation.

The statement of fact in this case is that this site does not work for young, straight male doms.

The odds are so enormously stacked against us that it might as well be impossible. For ME, this obviously represents a negative situation. For someone else, it could be a positive (say, an older dom who is looking for older subs).

I'm just stating facts, that's all. I'm not looking for anyone to blame. Bitches do that. I am no bitch. I accept full responsibility for everything that happens to me in my life. And all I'm saying is that by virtue of being 1) male and 2) hetero and 3) young, I and anyone else who fits that criteria will NOT have any success with finding subs on this site.




< Message edited by MissAsylum -- 2/21/2012 6:26:16 PM >

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 6:27:13 PM   
searching4mysir


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ORIGINAL: Aderious

quote:

ORIGINAL: jennileigh8182

You come off as far too arrogant. Dominant doesn't equal asshole.


Really? You might want to consider sharing that bit of knowledge with 99% of the female "dommes" who post here. They don't seem to have gotten the memo.





They have a different target market than you do. It is part of the persona, particularly for pros and fins.

Additionally, in the text of your profile you say "no men" yet your actively seeking submissive men and maledom couples. What's the matter? Can't make up your mind?

You claim "maturity" but I don't think that word means what you seem to think it means. I don't see a whole lot of maturity in your profile, post here, or in your other forum posts.

You *might* be eye candy for some, but your attitude poisons the well. No response is a response. It says "I am not interested". It could be your initial email or it could be that she doesn't give a shit about your toy collection because she doesn't give a shit about you. It could be that you are messaging women who are looking for relationships and you come across as an easy lay (thus wanting different things).

Me, personally? I don't give a shit about a guy's body until I care about who he is as a person. I never did. The vast majority of the men I've been involved with were not conventionally handsome or had muscular builds. Their builds were functional (could we hike together? Swim? Canoe? etc.) I was always far more interested in their mind and their interests, even in high school.

Is Taylor Lautner hot? Yeah, in a pretty boy way. He's nice to look at, but I wouldn't want a relationship with him.

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 6:29:02 PM   
Kaliko


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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

the one where hes wearing pants?  or is there another?



Oh, he's a big enough star that his fabulous light shines right through his pants.

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 6:31:41 PM   
Aderious


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ORIGINAL: MissAsylum

OK, i'll bite.


*deep breath*

I'm under 25, at a weight that was recommended to me by a doctor, female, to what people tend to unanimously attest to as being attractive.

Not submissive, but I look at it from that point of view.

1. You're naked. Am I supposed to be naked too? Are all we are going to do is fuck? Is that all you think about

Not sure much else needs to be said, but I'll continue.

2. You're intelligent (as you claim), financially stable, mature *tries to hold in giggle*, a personal trainer, like to shove things up my ass, treat me as an object, put me on a leash while I do housework with my sister submissives while you take photos of us in our stockings.

This is what I got from your profile. You don't really explain who YOU are.

3. You are looking for live-in without any details of my living arrangement.

4. You say no men, but you are seeking submissive men, male-dom couples...plus, you're naked. Are we crying foul here?

You aren't interesting. And I mean as a person, not a dominant. And fyi, women in my age group aren't as into physical attributes as much as men your age are.

All i am seeing is that you are interested in fucking more than looking for a mate. If you want a live-in(s), you'll have to present yourself as wanting that.

I'm more than a little bit amused that you are so peeved about not getting any attention that you seem to deserve. As another poster pointed out, men outnumber women by a looooooooong shot.

So fuck a submissive running backwards with a crowbar if she doesn't want to respond to you, when she has a choice.

Seriously, get it out of your head that you are entitled to a response or a submissive girl should be clamoring to be at your black bar.


"1. You're naked. Am I supposed to be naked too? Are all we are going to do is fuck? Is that all you think about"

I am NOT naked in all of my profile photos. How did that fact elude you? When I was NOT naked in my main profile, guess how many replies I got from female subs? ZERO! Is being naked the reason why I'm not getting replies? Logical error detected!

"2. You're intelligent (as you claim), financially stable, mature *tries to hold in giggle*, a personal trainer, like to shove things up my ass, treat me as an object, put me on a leash while I do housework with my sister submissives while you take photos of us in our stockings.

This is what I got from your profile. You don't really explain who YOU are."

So? Ask me (privately) and I'll tell you. There are plenty of people on this site who maintain blank profiles. I used to have a longer profile, but guess how much good that did me? ZERO! Now I give a basic overview, and if anyone wants to know more I can tell them via PM. What's so hard to understand about that? Yes, I am more mature than the 50 year old overweight doms and dommes on this site. Reason? One of many: I take care of my body, which shows that I have discipline. Nowhere in my profile does it say I want to treat you as an object or put you on a leash. But if you object to those things, maybe you shouldn't be on a BDSM site, genius. Try Match.com or eHarmony.

"3. You are looking for live-in without any details of my living arrangement."

PM me for details.

Wimmin of ALL age groups are not as interested in physical attributes as men are. I know this. Listen if I take down every single physique photo I have today and fill up my profile with all sorts of intellectual crap, which I could easily do since I'm a prolific writer, my response rate will be ZERO! ZIP! NADA! ZILCH! Believe me, I've tried it.

I've tried everything. There is NOTHING - absolutely NOTHING - that I have not tried. When I said I had tried every strategy in the book, I was not joking.

< Message edited by Aderious -- 2/21/2012 6:39:54 PM >

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