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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 6:51:13 PM   
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This site does not work? I'd disagree

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 6:51:35 PM   
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Your "reality" and actual reality are two different things.


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ORIGINAL: Aderious

I'll continue to make these threads every few months or so and the response will be the same every time. In each case, what will go above the heads of the responding posters is that I make these threads not for them, but to inform others such as myself and save them the trouble of having to learn what I did the hard way. These threads are a friendly informational bulletin, that's all. Arguing with you cretins is completely hopeless and futile, as I first discovered months ago.

You have no grasp on reality and contradict yourselves constantly. Most of you are extremely rude and unpleasant to be around, a few of you are not. But nearly all of you are either hopelessly naive or self deluded.

P.S. If any young male Doms know better alternatives than this site, feel free to PM me and we can exchange ideas.




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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 6:52:43 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aderious

quote:

ORIGINAL: SpiritedRadiance

However the site does work...


I never said "the site doesn't work". I said it didn't work for young, straight male doms who were looking for young, attractive female subs. I explicitly stated that the site DOES work for certain other populations, namely those who are over 40 and overweight. To refute my point you would have to provide an example of the site working for young, straight male doms who were looking for young, attractive female subs. You have not, and shall not, do so, because it's impossible by my reckoning.

Reading comprehension is clearly not your strong suit.

It's obvious that I have a higher intellect than yours. Woops, there I go being "arrogant" again, this time about my brain instead of my cock or my physique. Too bad. It comes with being a dominant alpha male. You challenged me intellectually and now you've been told.




It worked for my Dom whos young straight and attractive who was looking for someone young and attractive

Hmmm.... Yeah... didnt work for him at all .. I must be imaginary.. ill be sure to tell him that...

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 6:54:57 PM   
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dom·i·nant   [dom-uh-nuhnt] Show IPA
adjective
1.
ruling, governing, or controlling; having or exerting authority or influence: dominant in the chain of command.
2.
occupying or being in a commanding or elevated position.
3.
predominant; main; major; chief: Corn is the dominant crop of Iowa.

alpha male
Part of Speech: n
Definition:
a domineering man; the dominant member in a group of males, esp. animals

hmm....nope. not you.


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ORIGINAL: Aderious

quote:

ORIGINAL: SpiritedRadiance

However the site does work...


I never said "the site doesn't work". I said it didn't work for young, straight male doms who were looking for young, attractive female subs. I explicitly stated that the site DOES work for certain other populations, namely those who are over 40 and overweight. To refute my point you would have to provide an example of the site working for young, straight male doms who were looking for young, attractive female subs. You have not, and shall not, do so, because it's impossible by my reckoning.

Reading comprehension is clearly not your strong suit.

It's obvious that I have a higher intellect than yours. Woops, there I go being "arrogant" again, this time about my brain instead of my cock or my physique. Too bad. It comes with being a dominant alpha male. You challenged me intellectually and now you've been told.



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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 6:56:00 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aderious

I'll continue to make these threads every few months or so and the response will be the same every time. In each case, what will go above the heads of the responding posters is that I make these threads not for them, but to inform others such as myself and save them the trouble of having to learn what I did the hard way. These threads are a friendly informational bulletin, that's all. Arguing with you cretins is completely hopeless and futile, as I first discovered months ago.

You have no grasp on reality and contradict yourselves constantly. Most of you are extremely rude and unpleasant to be around, a few of you are not. But nearly all of you are either hopelessly naive or self deluded.

P.S. If any young male Doms know better alternatives than this site, feel free to PM me and we can exchange ideas.


Don't let the door hit ya where the good Lord split ya!

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 6:58:25 PM   
fetisheden


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right. this

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kaliko

If you've been here for nine months and sent over 1,000 messages, that's...what...ten messages a day? Did you truly find ten submissives a day that interested you enough to want a relationship with them? That's kind of amazing.

Did you write to each of these women in a personal way? That must have taken an awful lot of time.

My guess is (and this is just a guess - perhaps not true at all) that many of the women you wrote to can pick up on the fact that you are mass emailing women just to get a response from someone, rather than waiting to email the women you are truly interested in. Insincerity is fairly easy to pick up on.

Personally, your pictures would be a turnoff for me as well, but that may not be true of all women. Your forum posting, though? The one you started this thread with? Likely that will be a turnoff to just about everyone who reads it.







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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 6:58:38 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: winspiritsbaby
Don't let the door hit ya where the good Lord split ya!


How wickedly clever of you. Don't tell me you came up with that brilliant rebuke all by your lonesome?

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 6:59:12 PM   
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It's just no fun when the opposition is so clearly at a disadvantage. You would be fun to banter with a bit, I bet. (Mmm. Alliteration.) But your petulance is ruining it for me.

I look forward to your future public service announcements.

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 6:59:25 PM   
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Women eh? Can't live with them, can't send them unsolicited salacious messages and get them to acquiesce to the most reasonable demand that they become our personal pin-cushion and willy warmer.

I think that some of the women would be far more likely to respond (even to give you a "no but thank you for your interest") if they were not simply innundated by repeated copy/paste messages. I've heard all about it. Within literally minutes of joining the site any female will get 12 to 15 pages of messages. If some of the men were a little more discerning and only contacted females that actually matched their interests a lot of this spam wouldn't be sent, and consequently the ladies would have more time to give those they dismiss due process.

There are other sites you can go to in order to find the same thing, but they are populated by the same species. The idea that you will need to put less effort in to get positive results at other websites isn't very logical.

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 7:00:51 PM   
Aderious


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quote:

ORIGINAL: provfivetine
So what? Who cares what my profile says? I like what I like, and it works for me!

Also, I'm not the one making child-like posts whining about my misfortunes. I have a feeling that subs don't like "men" who whine. But, hey... that's just a hunch I have.


You're bull-shitting about your claimed "success" from this site.

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 7:02:22 PM   
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his profile while it doesnt write something id enjoy... his photo offers something of his personality... Amazing ink...

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 7:03:19 PM   
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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 7:04:38 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Staleek
I think that some of the women would be far more likely to respond (even to give you a "no but thank you for your interest") if they were not simply innundated by repeated copy/paste messages. I've heard all about it. Within literally minutes of joining the site any female will get 12 to 15 pages of messages. If some of the men were a little more discerning and only contacted females that actually matched their interests a lot of this spam wouldn't be sent, and consequently the ladies would have more time to give those they dismiss due process.

There are other sites you can go to in order to find the same thing, but they are populated by the same species. The idea that you will need to put less effort in to get positive results at other websites isn't very logical.


I've heard that too. I'm aware of that problem. The main thing is that this site is really a porn site, not a dating site. So many fake profiles, so many people living out pure fantasies. 18 year old cheerleaders moving across country to live with fat, balding, disgusting men 3 times their age? Give me a fucking break. How come you NEVER see any real photos of this crap? Only stories and porn photos stolen off the internet.

But listen, female subs can browse profiles for themselves. They don't have to wait for guys to PM them. They should be pro-active in messaging Doms whose profiles they find attractive. Remember when I said that hardly any female subs ever view my profile? That's a big tip-off that there really are hardly any young female subs on this site. They're all fake, man. 95% of them. And the 5% who aren't fake are playing games.

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 7:06:56 PM   
Aderious


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quote:

ORIGINAL: graceadieu
And that attitude is almost certainly the #1 reason you're not getting dates.

For what it's worth, while CM may have an awful lot of fakes and posers just looking for some sexy chat - there are also plenty of real (and decent-looking) women looking for real partners. They just don't want to talk to you. Learn to be kinder and less self-absorbed, and I promise you you'll have better luck.


Kindness isn't going to help me find a sub from my target demographic, because they don't exist on this site.

At best, kindness would help me score with some really overweight or old broad, which I am NOT interested in. Listen, I've been emailed by older wimmin on other sites who told me how appealing they found my photos (including my dick shots, which I don't post here) and offering to "get together" for NSA sex.

Know how I responded? Politely declined. I am not interested.

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 7:08:17 PM   
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The willingness and ability to listen to someone other than yourself are skills that you cannot be without if you want to have a relationship that works. If you think you can get around that by "enslaving" a submissive woman, then you have no idea what d/s is all about.

And yeah, I'm no psychologist but I too think I am getting a whiff of repressed homosexual here.

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 7:08:23 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aderious

I'll continue to make these threads every few months or so and the response will be the same every time. In each case, what will go above the heads of the responding posters is that I make these threads not for them, but to inform others such as myself and save them the trouble of having to learn what I did the hard way. These threads are a friendly informational bulletin, that's all. Arguing with you cretins is completely hopeless and futile, as I first discovered months ago.

You have no grasp on reality and contradict yourselves constantly. Most of you are extremely rude and unpleasant to be around, a few of you are not. But nearly all of you are either hopelessly naive or self deluded.

P.S. If any young male Doms know better alternatives than this site, feel free to PM me and we can exchange ideas.



Mister Lightswitch,
My query is what purpose is it to start threads like this?

The only thing it will do is give prospective submissive women another reason to bypass you when they read your forum posts (You do know there is a link to them in your profile, right?).
Any woman who might be remotely interested can look at these ventings of yours and... oh wait, never mind.

edit: typo

< Message edited by angelikaJ -- 2/21/2012 7:09:11 PM >


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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 7:09:58 PM   
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You keep claiming some special level of intelligence that is rarely seen, but I haven't noticed anything special. For the most part, the people I pay attention to on this site (and in my daily life) are smart, funny and well-rounded. You just come across as Narcissus, and you're looking for your lake surface.

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 7:10:05 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aderious

You're bull-shitting about your claimed "success" from this site.



Nope. I specifically posted in this thread to inform you that it's just flat-out wrong to suggest that a young Dom cannot have any luck on this site.

HINT: you're doing something wrong.

HINT #2: people in this thread are telling you what you're doing wrong.


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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 7:12:29 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aderious

At best, kindness would help me score with some really overweight or old broad, which I am NOT interested in. Listen, I've been emailed by older wimmin on other sites who told me how appealing they found my photos (including my dick shots, which I don't post here) and offering to "get together" for NSA sex.

Know how I responded? Politely declined. I am not interested.



You're shortsighted, Aderious. Instead of thinking yourself too good for women who are older or overweight, you should try taking some of them up on their offers for NSA sex. You might learn something.

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 7:14:20 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Aderious

BlahblahblahblahblahblahblahblahblahITSSTILLNOTWORKINGblahblahblahblahblahblahblah
blahblahITSSTILLNOTWORKINGblahblahblahblahblahblahITSSTILLNOTWORKING


My last bit of advice, before I give my attentions to more deserving young hetero males.

Take the cartridge out and blow in it.

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