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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 9:14:40 PM

Aderious

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ORIGINAL: lizi

Aderious, why are you still here then if life here treats you so badly? If searching in your perimeters for someone is that hard and unfulfilling, then I don't understand why you would keep up with it. You are forever on the message boards complaining about your lack of success, which is in itself a self-fulfilling prophecy - anyone who catches your performance on this side of the site would be certain to avoid you like the plague as your personality is extremely unattractive when you're on about your usual complaints. In a site that literally seethes with men whining, you are at the top- a dubious prize at best.

I'm proud of my posts here and stand behind everything I've written. I only check this site about once a month nowadays.

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 9:15:37 PM

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Yes Jeff, my dear Im in a yes for both columns as well as for yours and several other males on these here forums...

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 9:16:48 PM

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YUP .... THIS !!!! this thread just REEEEEEEKS OF HIGH SHIT.
Im smelling CRAPOLA here .... notice the acute writing style and the argumentativeness that we all got to know so well. People wake up. Its so obvious. It got a bit stale around the boards and all of a sudden all these socks just "appear" out of nowhere to liven things up with just a load of CRAP? Who volunteers to fall for it a second round?

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At this point I'm personally betting your a sock puppet of Awareness but hey, you might be actually serious too. If you are... oh man... I just don't know what to say. You REALLY believe that chiselled abs is what gets you a woman? Really? I mean seriously, it's hardly a deficit but I've met a LOT of women in my life and I can't recall a single one of them selecting on that as a first criteria.

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 9:17:19 PM

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Line forms to the right.

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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 9:18:21 PM

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You gonna mail me a plane ticket? :P

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 9:25:11 PM

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ORIGINAL: Aderious

I'm proud of my posts here and stand behind everything I've written. I only check this site about once a month nowadays.

Yes, thank you for making my point for me again. You're proud of and stand behind every whining, negative thing you write, and although you keep coming back only once a month, you're so well known for negativity it follows you like a black cloud even with a sporadic posting rate. I can only say well done then as it must be your intent to cultivate the mass shunning you have described by the women in your targeted group.

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 9:28:00 PM

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ORIGINAL: Aderious

I'm extremely parsimonious in praising females so this statement carries all the more weight coming from me.

P.S. My arms look puffed out because I'm flaring my lats. It's not really an intentional gesture on my part. The upper arms rests on the lat when the latter is well developed, as it is on my frame. Lats happen to be my most well developed muscle group.

Oy, again with 'my lats', 'my upper arms', 'my most well developed muscle group'. Dude, have you not yet figured out...NOBODY GIVES A FLYING FANDANGO BUT YOU!!

As for 'parsimonious' praising of 'females'...<sniff sniff>...yup, eau de Awareness...in other words, 'toilet water'. The misogyny is unmistakable.

And if you are getting lots of sex (just yesterday, in fact, so sayeth you!) why bother with CM at all? Since it is an absolute wasteland of fakes, fat people, and ahem...elders...why not just flounce and be done with it?

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 9:35:08 PM

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If I were smart enough to know what parsimonious meant I'm pretty sure I'd be that too. I exercise rigid discipline and keep my compliments to Carol down below 100 daily... well... on most days. Given the woman in question though I think the occasional lapse into non-stop babbling is forgiveable. Happily, it still seems to carry some weight with her.

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 9:40:38 PM

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~fast reply~

Wait wait! On what plane of reality is Ron getting blowjobs and DarkSteven getting fucked by hot 20 somethings "off topic"??? I cry moderation foul! Man the pitchforks!

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 9:49:16 PM

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:( half the posts are being pulled two Jeff, this was on page ten

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 10:45:57 PM

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ORIGINAL: JeffBC
~fast reply~
I think we need to get some focus back on this thread. So do any of you hot young subs want to fuck DarkSteven and/or blow Ron? Honestly I think both of those scenarios are way more likely.

The line forms behind me!!!!! No pushing, now...there's plenty to go around! I'm not a hot young sub, but trust me, I'll make you smile!

And for the record, to the OP....personally, I haven't checked your profile, have no desire to, and the avatar pic you have just gives me the heebie jeebies.....all I can think of when looking at it is "toad". But since I'm an old broad who is slightly chubby, I wouldn't have to worry about not responding to you. The fact that you seem oblivious to the fact that your "demographic" has more depth themselves speaks volumes. It's not about the body, it's about the person. Dork. Women of all ages aren't shallow enough to be won over by a body. Give us substance, not the crap you spout.

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/22/2012 12:38:39 AM

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Hmmmm, I see that GHOSTMAN338 has surfaced again. Gotta love it!

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/22/2012 2:02:31 AM

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I'm not in your demographics of what you're searching for.
I'm too old

, but I do have a somewhat smokin body and I'm not overweight.
When I was looking and had an active profile I got a ton of messages from all age ranges.
Most I deleted right off the bat. My filter for doing that was the tone of the message.
It had to not sound like a cut and paste. It had to a big sense of his personality in it.
I actually preferred profiles that didn't have pics on them, but liked it when the guy attached a vanilla pic of him in the initial email.
If that pic had been your nude body shot I wouldn't have responded. Shorey sent me a pic of him on a motorcycle.
That caught my attention and was icing on the top of his personality.
It told me more about him than a bodybuilding pic and still gave me a sense of what he physically looked like.

OP...us wimmins are mental creatures more so than visual. That's how we differ from you guys.
Catch our minds and work from there.
Even if you're just looking for nsa, casual hookups and are looking for someone searching for the same, we (women) still kinda want someone that we can talk to, laugh with and enjoy our time with.

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/22/2012 2:43:34 AM

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They wore underpants, or teaingly unbuttoned and unbuckled blue jeans, and the junk wasn't out front on the camera, obviously it's been awhile for you too.

Now wouldn't all you women agree that would be better, and somewhat of a compromise?

The hint of erotica is so much more tempting than the in your face.

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/22/2012 3:32:23 AM

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Not all of them wouldn't be interested, but when I was between 18 and 25, your body type would not have appealed to me, and it wouldn't , not to be mean appeal to me now at 29. To be honest.

and if that's all you say in an email and you had, emailed me when I was in your age and weight range, , I'd probably ignore it too, because you say nothing to grab my attention, and you have nothing in your profile to grab my attention, and there for do not stand out. Emails that were very very generic, and did not stand out did not get replied to. I had to have some beginning common ground other than both on a kink site, to reply.

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ORIGINAL: Aderious

Are you seriously implying that my target demographic of 18-25yo females has ZERO interest in fit male physiques?

If so, you must be out of your mind. Have you ever seen the posters hanging up on a teenage girl's bedroom wall? Have you ever seen the TV shows that teenage girls watch, or the music they listen to?

Where's the arrogance in attaching a fully-clothed face photo and saying, "Hello, I'm a mature dom, etc...Do you want to talk?

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/22/2012 3:45:47 AM

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No. On the right person and me in the right mood, I fully love full on nudity, nothing left to the imagination pics of even strangers yes, unless they're really gross like prolapsed anus's or something.

I look the picture up and down like a hungry wolf and lick my lips and think mmmmm now that's a body I could just bite! or what ever other dirty thoughts the pic inspires.

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Now wouldn't all you women agree that would be better, and somewhat of a compromise?

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/22/2012 3:49:52 AM

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I dont really remember being 18-25, I prefer being older though as my tastebuds dont work aswell....anyway, I'm with everyone else - maybe a picture change? I had to double check your profile as I thought that you might be trying to attract men.

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/22/2012 5:16:34 AM

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I´ll throw your toys back in your pram. Just this once, ok? After that, you´re on your own.

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ORIGINAL: Aderious

I'll continue to make these threads every few months or so and the response will be the same every time. In each case, what will go above the heads of the responding posters is that I make these threads not for them, but to inform others such as myself and save them the trouble of having to learn what I did the hard way. These threads are a friendly informational bulletin, that's all. Arguing with you cretins is completely hopeless and futile, as I first discovered months ago.

You have no grasp on reality and contradict yourselves constantly. Most of you are extremely rude and unpleasant to be around, a few of you are not. But nearly all of you are either hopelessly naive or self deluded.

P.S. If any young male Doms know better alternatives than this site, feel free to PM me and we can exchange ideas.

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/22/2012 6:16:51 AM

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i am sensing your heightened state, based on your words and delivery.

i and many O/others understand that the lack of sex and testosterone can agitate people.

The season can also affect a persons mood. During the winter W/we become deprived of vitamin D.

i am even open to the belief that some of the ridicule may have been inappropriate. Ignore those comments.

Understand fighting with people who want to help you, is neither logical nor productive.

When you are done with this rant, where will that leave you? Will you learn from the lesson. Or will you will still be in the same place from where you started this journey.

Many people have been where you are. Not old enough, too young, too big, too small, not the right color of hair, etc. etc. etc. As an example; i have just turned 40 and i am still struggling to find acceptance in some areas in my life.

Let’s hypothetically say you are correct. And let’s hypothetically say, we have accepted your warning. Does this now bring closure for you? Will consider ceasing your rants?

Seriously. Try not to be so intense. Embrace the fact this is a time place to develop more skills. After all you are quite young.

Most subs seek a calm and level Dominant. Unpredictable behavior scares the crap out of me and other subs.

Recognize you have a community you can turn to. Conversely, recognize there are so many others who think they are completely alone with these DEVIANT thoughts in their head.

Have a cup of tea and meditate. Accept this moment.

Namaste.

dee

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/22/2012 6:19:59 AM

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I'm going to pretend this is a serious discussion and reply as such.

There is a bar that I go to on occasion where a lot of people with all sorts of bikes go to on Friday nights. There are guys that come in there slightly dirty bike, park where they can, go in and talk to their friends and head to the bar for a drink. Then there are the guys in their supper expensive, custom, overly polished bike that take up two car space in front where they stand next to it and wait for the girls to come and drool all over it. Guess which guys get the real people (that's guys and girls/ hot and not) talking to them? Guess which end up with actual relationships in their life?

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