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Andoshollack89 -> Trouble Finding Recipients of oral? (2/25/2012 7:35:18 PM)
So all things aside im finding it hard to even find any actual or sane people in michigan who would like to recieve only oral. I know right? Im on the hunt for my scene but i still have cravings and sometimes i wish i knew someone that wanted me to go to town on em for them. Im realy shocked that im haveing as much trouble as i have in finding someone ( or ones) to give some Bj's Too so i can Get all this Sucking Craveing outa my system. Anyone else haveing these problems? i still want to find something real, but im just a mortal and i do have my craveings too.

Baroana -> RE: Trouble Finding Recipients of oral? (2/25/2012 7:40:36 PM)
If you're talking about men . . . not my department. If you're talking about women, then you have much to learn about women.

Andoshollack89 -> RE: Trouble Finding Recipients of oral? (2/25/2012 7:58:25 PM)
Well it is indeed addressed too both, but i am realy just frustrated from talking to others i felt would of turned into a Good healthy D/s Relationship that didnt pan out and not even haveing a friend that i can go blow off some steam and please them. Its very frustrateing trying to sift through flakes on the web. Im hopeing that this might spark a thread or something, im curious to hear others tails/advice or just 2 cents.

Killerangel -> RE: Trouble Finding Recipients of oral? (2/25/2012 8:08:10 PM)
Take a look at how you're talking here....its all about you. Your wants, your comfort. Its like these recipients aren't even human. Dude, you're talking about other people here, its a pretty trusting thing to have someone at your genitals, seems like people aren't comfortable with your approach. Why might that be? Because you're all about you? Perhaps it seems you haven't even figured out that you're dealing with people here not recipients? Those two things were glaring out at me just reading the few sentences you wrote here on your thread.

poise -> RE: Trouble Finding Recipients of oral? (2/25/2012 8:23:31 PM)
So, when all else fails in your search for a meaningful relationship, as long as you can find some random stranger to offer oral to, everything will be peachy keen in your world? Is that really the gist of your frustration? You come across as some horny dog, drooling at the mouth, ready to piss on the first fire hydrant that stands still for a minute or two. How on earth can that be found attractive by either gender?

lizi -> RE: Trouble Finding Recipients of oral? (2/25/2012 8:33:17 PM)
I'm going to be completely honest, reading your posts here put me off completely. I can't think of the last time I"ve seen something this unattractive come through here. If I don't know you why would I care about your frustration and cravings? There isn't anything there to make me WANT to know more about you. If everyone is turning you down what is the common denominator here? I'm obviously not the only one who wants you to keep your mouth to yourself.

TheBootyMan -> RE: Trouble Finding Recipients of oral? (2/25/2012 8:42:52 PM)
You need to find some adult book stores with glory holes and get your groove on.

LookieNoNookie -> RE: Trouble Finding Recipients of oral? (2/25/2012 9:39:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Andoshollack89 So all things aside im finding it hard to even find any actual or sane people in michigan who would like to recieve only oral. I know right? Im on the hunt for my scene but i still have cravings and sometimes i wish i knew someone that wanted me to go to town on em for them. Im realy shocked that im haveing as much trouble as i have in finding someone ( or ones) to give some Bj's Too so i can Get all this Sucking Craveing outa my system. Anyone else haveing these problems? i still want to find something real, but im just a mortal and i do have my craveings too. Well, Michigan is kind of the last outpost. (You're kind of fucked).

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Trouble Finding Recipients of oral? (2/25/2012 10:06:21 PM)
Remember those links we gave you? Please don't mention my name if you use them.

Casteele -> RE: Trouble Finding Recipients of oral? (2/25/2012 11:05:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie Well, Michigan is kind of the last outpost. (You're kind of fucked). Hey now, I lived for 8 years near Detroit, there was plenty going on, as long as you weren't in the UP. Not much else to do on the cold nights but get a group together for a party, get drunk, and see how many people you could screw before you passed out. Thing is, though, there was protocol.. People who act the way the OP is quickly got marked and pointedly shunned. Natural selection at work.

jennileigh8182 -> RE: Trouble Finding Recipients of oral? (2/26/2012 5:34:03 AM)
Michigan does suck, lived here my whole life, but it's not -that- bad. If you have little or no standards, it shouldn't be bad at all!

lizi -> RE: Trouble Finding Recipients of oral? (2/26/2012 5:46:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: jennileigh8182 Michigan does suck, lived here my whole life, but it's not -that- bad. If you have little or no standards, it shouldn't be bad at all! Well, the OP is saying that pretty much exactly his problem though. He has little to no standards and can't even find anyone within those parameters that is desperate enough to take his offer.

jennileigh8182 -> RE: Trouble Finding Recipients of oral? (2/26/2012 5:48:05 AM)
Yeah, I'm just not buying that. I know plenty of women...and men...that have indescriminate sex with anything that moves...especially if it requires no work on their part.

kalikshama -> RE: Trouble Finding Recipients of oral? (2/26/2012 6:53:05 AM)
OP - What exactly are you doing to try to find these people? What websites are you using and what events are you attending?

mummyman321 -> RE: Trouble Finding Recipients of oral? (2/26/2012 7:06:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: jennileigh8182 Michigan does suck, lived here my whole life, but it's not -that- bad. If you have little or no standards, it shouldn't be bad at all! You think Michigan is bad, try coming down to Cincinnati.

graceadieu -> RE: Trouble Finding Recipients of oral? (2/26/2012 10:07:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Andoshollack89 So all things aside im finding it hard to even find any actual or sane people in michigan who would like to recieve only oral. I know right? Im on the hunt for my scene but i still have cravings and sometimes i wish i knew someone that wanted me to go to town on em for them. Im realy shocked that im haveing as much trouble as i have in finding someone ( or ones) to give some Bj's Too so i can Get all this Sucking Craveing outa my system. Anyone else haveing these problems? i still want to find something real, but im just a mortal and i do have my craveings too. You might have more luck with the ladies if you approached even a casual sex buddy as "something real". I can't speak for others, but even with casual sex sort of arrangement I still like to be friends and do things outside the bedroom. But if you can't even find a guy in a gay bar that'll let you suck him off, well, I'm pretty surprised.

SailingBum -> RE: Trouble Finding Recipients of oral? (2/26/2012 2:56:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Andoshollack89 So all things aside im finding it hard to even find any actual or sane people in michigan who would like to recieve only oral. I know right? Im on the hunt for my scene but i still have cravings and sometimes i wish i knew someone that wanted me to go to town on em for them. Im realy shocked that im haveing as much trouble as i have in finding someone ( or ones) to give some Bj's Too so i can Get all this Sucking Craveing outa my system. Anyone else haveing these problems? i still want to find something real, but im just a mortal and i do have my craveings too. Actually quite a few ppl in michigan 7 or 8 million at last count, surely you could find one to two sane ppl. If I had to guess the problem is you. BadOne

NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: Trouble Finding Recipients of oral? (2/26/2012 3:59:01 PM)
OP, are you meeting & talking to these prospective "recipients" as people first, or just as cocks & pussies to be sucked & licked? Most people like to be considered as real people, not just a set of genitals for your use. I know if some stranger came up to me and asked to lick my pussy, I'd say "Hell NO. Get away from me!" Maybe the problem is in your approach. NBMG

VideoAdminGamma -> RE: Trouble Finding Recipients of oral? (2/26/2012 4:09:47 PM)
Fast reply I have pulled several posts that were off topic and hijacking of the OP. Please stay on topic or reasonable thread drift. Thank you for your contribution to the forums, VideoAdminGamma

LoreBook -> RE: Trouble Finding Recipients of oral? (2/26/2012 4:30:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Baroana If you're talking about men . . . not my department. If you're talking about women, then you have much to learn about women. This is pretty much the final answer to your question. [/thread]

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