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NakedHouseboy00 -> RE: Trouble Finding Recipients of oral? (2/26/2012 4:37:47 PM)

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LoreBook -> RE: Trouble Finding Recipients of oral? (2/26/2012 5:16:41 PM)

Gee, aren't you just a ray of sunshine?



lizi -> RE: Trouble Finding Recipients of oral? (2/26/2012 5:28:37 PM)

Actually, maybe I"m weird but I find that stuff to be always enlightening and pertinent. Especially on a thread with an indiscriminate OP seeking out oral sexual contact of any kind with anyone. It also explains why the people he's trying to get with are turning him away...they're wondering about all of that.
I hope.



JanahX -> RE: Trouble Finding Recipients of oral? (2/26/2012 6:05:43 PM)

These people dont CARE -----> all they care about is getting off. They are willing to take any disease in the handbook just so they can jizz. Go onto fet ... there are HORDS of women that will argue you until they are blue in the face that they sleep with anyone and everyone all day long and are clean as a bottle of Clorox bleach. Oh yes and they also squirt every time and cum on vocal command. ALL THE POWER TO THEM.

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ORIGINAL: lizi

Actually, maybe I"m weird but I find that stuff to be always enlightening and pertinent. Especially on a thread with an indiscriminate OP seeking out oral sexual contact of any kind with anyone. It also explains why the people he's trying to get with are turning him away...they're wondering about all of that.
I hope.




xssve -> RE: Trouble Finding Recipients of oral? (2/26/2012 6:23:01 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Killerangel

Take a look at how you're talking here....its all about you. Your wants, your comfort. Its like these recipients aren't even human. Dude, you're talking about other people here, its a pretty trusting thing to have someone at your genitals, seems like people aren't comfortable with your approach. Why might that be? Because you're all about you? Perhaps it seems you haven't even figured out that you're dealing with people here not recipients? Those two things were glaring out at me just reading the few sentences you wrote here on your thread.
'Course if he was a chick his mailbox would be packed full.

So he want's to suck Dick, big deal, try Craigslist.



LadyPact -> RE: Trouble Finding Recipients of oral? (2/27/2012 6:06:26 AM)

Somebody is going to want to nail Me to the wall for this one, but I promise that I'm trying to help you, OP.

If you notice some of the back and forth happening on the thread, that's part one of your problem.  There's a mix of age/experience here on the site and frankly, those of us who have been around a while did all that risky stuff back in the day and some of us are older and wiser now.  Yes, even over a blow job.  Those of us who still engage in such things tend to be a lot more careful.

Remember that het women don't exactly have a difficulty in finding people who will offer up oral without an issue.  From My experience, males who are bi or are exploring their bi-curiosity associated with power play tend to want to be the sucker rather than the suckee.  There's not really a shortage of those, either. 

In any case, it's still a sexual scene and people tend to want two things even over NSA, one time encounters.  One, they want someone sexually attractive and two, they want somebody who is comfortable.  That means be personable.  Get to know people and let them see that conversation works between the two of you.  Stuff like that goes a long way when people want to do something wild.

I would suggest changing your main pic.  It's not the best of the bunch and you want your best foot forward.  I was thinking your third shot would give a better first impression.




kalikshama -> RE: Trouble Finding Recipients of oral? (2/27/2012 6:28:12 AM)

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Go onto fet ... there are HORDES of women that will argue you until they are blue in the face that they sleep with anyone and everyone all day long and are clean as a bottle of Clorox bleach. Oh yes and they also squirt every time and cum on vocal command. ALL THE POWER TO THEM.


Lol, yet another reason I prefer collarchat is that the rational thinkers are in the majority here.



angelikaJ -> RE: Trouble Finding Recipients of oral? (2/27/2012 6:29:34 AM)


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ORIGINAL: lizi

Actually, maybe I"m weird but I find that stuff to be always enlightening and pertinent. Especially on a thread with an indiscriminate OP seeking out oral sexual contact of any kind with anyone. It also explains why the people he's trying to get with are turning him away...they're wondering about all of that.
I hope.


To the OP: it is the indiscriminate bit that is going to likely sink you in the prospects of finding a loving long term relationship.

You may meet someone perfectly lovely and when they learn about your past they will probably take a pass on you.

Is that what you want?

If your sexual desires are so great that you are in danger of endangering yourself by willingly exposing yourself to STIs (take note of the post above and understand it can happen to you) then go check out sex addicts anonymous.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Trouble Finding Recipients of oral? (2/27/2012 6:33:47 AM)

He says he wants his oral fixation fixed. We tend to be too relationship-centric here. Nothing wrong with min dless sex. I have vague recollections of having some.

All the other stuff holds true.



bisexdaddy -> RE: Trouble Finding Recipients of oral? (2/27/2012 6:36:54 AM)

Thank you for that post LadyPact. As a new poster and a person returning to the scene after a Decade or so, I was excited to get busy. The first person that contacted me was not exactly what I wanted but I figured hey, let's get the ball rolling. Then there was a continuous string of red flags. Didn't know what a tawes was, didn't have any B&D stuff, couldn't or wouldn't name a favorite Bondage position, arguing about a $40 hotel room and on and on. I surmised this individual to be a lonely loser that wanted an easy cumdumpster.

I think I will hold out for someone stable with some experiance. Have some conversation over coffee. An older man possibly.

Thanks again.






NinaAura -> RE: Trouble Finding Recipients of oral? (2/27/2012 7:02:16 AM)

I'll agree to all the above. It's the way you approach that is a complete turnoff it seems. Just the fact that you're more willing to do them rather than know them is the big key here. There's people out there who are like that but of course there's channels and waves you have to go through. I'm surprised you haven't tried talking to your friends and seeing if any of them would be your fuck buddy... I've been there, done that. Wasn't hard at all, a few drinks and a little making out and my bestfriend of 7 years became my go to for sexual frustration. It's not that hard, even going to a gloryhole is better than moping around on the internet about it. :3



Casteele -> RE: Trouble Finding Recipients of oral? (2/27/2012 7:14:26 PM)

DA

After a bit of thought, you know, I'm not so sure the OP's approach really is the/a problem. Bear with me here.. We see this kind of thing all the time, right? We see people who are so frustrated that they want to just throw away all standards, all caution, and just get off. They don't want to put forth much effort to get it, they don't care about being tactful or charming, they just want to get nude n crude. Right?

So, aren't all these people a perfect match for each other? They want the same things, the same way, right? So why aren't they finding each other and making each other blissfully happy? This isn't rhetoric, I'm truly curious here, trying to think and see from another perspective.



risktaker9 -> RE: Trouble Finding Recipients of oral? (2/28/2012 5:45:14 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Casteele

DA

After a bit of thought, you know, I'm not so sure the OP's approach really is the/a problem. Bear with me here.. We see this kind of thing all the time, right? We see people who are so frustrated that they want to just throw away all standards, all caution, and just get off. They don't want to put forth much effort to get it, they don't care about being tactful or charming, they just want to get nude n crude. Right?

So, aren't all these people a perfect match for each other? They want the same things, the same way, right? So why aren't they finding each other and making each other blissfully happy? This isn't rhetoric, I'm truly curious here, trying to think and see from another perspective.


I'm following you on this train of thought and it's an interesting tangent. I think sometimes they do find each other, sometimes I think even others who profess the same desires are turned off by the same things that are mentioned by the group at large. Desperation, whining, selfishness, is never attractive to another, even if it's something you are showing yourself. Big difference if you were to present yourself attractively and offer to take anyone than to do the things that turn people away.



xssve -> RE: Trouble Finding Recipients of oral? (2/28/2012 6:10:06 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Casteele

DA

After a bit of thought, you know, I'm not so sure the OP's approach really is the/a problem. Bear with me here.. We see this kind of thing all the time, right? We see people who are so frustrated that they want to just throw away all standards, all caution, and just get off. They don't want to put forth much effort to get it, they don't care about being tactful or charming, they just want to get nude n crude. Right?

So, aren't all these people a perfect match for each other? They want the same things, the same way, right? So why aren't they finding each other and making each other blissfully happy? This isn't rhetoric, I'm truly curious here, trying to think and see from another perspective.

Proximity in time and space mostly, being horny and in the same place at the same time - and being aware of it.

It's why public bathrooms and rest stops are so popular.

But seriously, a gay bar maybe? I dunno, seems to me there is always some kind of gathering place when it comes to gay men, though prudence dictates a more social setting where some awareness of the risks is acknowledged.

i.e., find out where the scene is and start talking to people before you dive in.

If you're into humiliation, you could go to a lesbian bar and offer free BJ's out by the dumpster to test a theory of mine: i.e., how many would actually go for it, and report back - although I'm guessing not many, hence the humiliation.

Produce bags make cheap, handy dental dams.

Still, your risks might be lower for contracting STD's that way, hard to say. I'd try it myself if there were a lesbian bar here, It's been a couple years since I even smelled pussy. [&o]



kalikshama -> RE: Trouble Finding Recipients of oral? (2/28/2012 6:26:16 AM)

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Proximity in time and space mostly, being horny and in the same place at the same time - and being aware of it.


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xssve -> RE: Trouble Finding Recipients of oral? (2/28/2012 6:58:33 AM)

How come sluts don't have something like that?



kalikshama -> RE: Trouble Finding Recipients of oral? (2/28/2012 7:00:51 AM)

Because generally women are about more than the quick shag.



JanahX -> RE: Trouble Finding Recipients of oral? (2/28/2012 7:09:38 AM)

Plus if women are .. they normally charge money and are called HOOKERS.

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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

Because generally women are about more than the quick shag.




LookieNoNookie -> RE: Trouble Finding Recipients of oral? (2/28/2012 8:38:45 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Andoshollack89

So all things aside im finding it hard to even find any actual or sane people in michigan who would like to recieve only oral. I know right? Im on the hunt for my scene but i still have cravings and sometimes i wish i knew someone that wanted me to go to town on em for them. Im realy shocked that im haveing as much trouble as i have in finding someone ( or ones) to give some Bj's Too so i can Get all this Sucking Craveing outa my system. Anyone else haveing these problems? i still want to find something real, but im just a mortal and i do have my craveings too.




Well, you're not actually my type but....I'd move to Michigan for oral.

(I'd actually fly to Michigan).

Okay....fine....I'd thumb.....



Servile99 -> RE: Trouble Finding Recipients of oral? (2/28/2012 8:41:50 PM)

It would be one heck of a drivevfor you to SC, but I am friends with a Dom who has an entire house set up with gear and each month has "parties". There is no pressure. You can stand around sip on a drink and just talk to people. And maybe just observe everything that goes on. So you can be the audience, or you can be the guy tied up on the spanking bench getting your but beat. Or the guy walking around like a dog by his mistess, ocassionally playing fetch or doing other tricks. You could tell the Master of the house what you wanted and I am sure there would be a few willing partipaters both male and female wanting to teach you how to orally service their penis or twat.



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