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LaTigresse -> RE: new slave (3/2/2012 3:37:57 AM)
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse
The topic keeps coming up, you keep pissing and moaning and guess what...... guys still get off on giving women money. Women still keep getting off on dominating men financially. Regardless of your pissing and whining.
If that's a win, I'd hate to see what you consider losing a debate.
Oh grow up, La T, please.
Firstly, I don't "piss and moan about findoms", or financial dommes, or whatever else they call themselves, because I don't care about them or their clients (or whatever said clients want to call themselves). I've come to the conclusion that this subject is for other women and other men. It isn't my world. Following from that, on this thread I've had no point to make about findoms one way or the other. Check my previous posts. I don't care about the matter.
Secondly, please try to see people as they are. You've put yourself in a position where you simply can't see me, La T. You have wilfully made yourself stupid. I can't think of any other way of putting it. By logical necessity, I simply can't respect a person who doesn't respect me, now can I?
Thirdly, you are a woman whose views of men I cannot respect because you, yourself, have announced repeatedly that you're prejudiced against men. I recall, fondly, the day that you said, in one thread 'I love men!' while in another you said, 'I rarely respect men'. Here, you've just dumped some tiresome biases about men on me here, that's all. It's silly and childish.
Please talk to *me*, not to some stereotype of men in general, as you see them, or don't speak to me at all.
Christ, I left this kind of conversation behind as an undergrad, decades ago. I can't be doing with it now.
ACTually Peon, you've consistently shown otherwise. On nearly every point you've attempted to make here.
As for your vision of me, well, you are welcome to it and it doesn't matter to me personally one way or another. But I do believe it is largely your own issues clouding the reality. I am reminded of another male that no longer posts here but consistently found much to be angry about in my words.
I don't care if you do not respect me simply because there are a large swath of men I don't respect. In case you've missed it because of your own personal filters, there are just as many women I do not respect. In my world respect is a quality that is earned, not owned simply by means of existance. I don't know you well enough to feel either way about you. I only find your words written here, often petty and churlish. My only vision of you is of a person that emotionally wants something they mentally cannot resign themself to. There is actually a lot of anger bubbling through in your words, especially when it comes to monetary issues. Whether you see it is neither here nor there to me.
Why you seem bent on making this discussion personal is beyond me. I've no interest in creating a relationship with another male, regardless of whether he's submissive or not. This discussion isn't personal TO ME. I simply enjoy the discussion especially when I can debate against narrow minded twits that seem hell bent on bringing their own personal shit that should be only their own personal relationship confines, and making it a measure of other people's relationships and existance.
Quit making my views about men in general, about you. I don't do it and neither should you. Hell, the men that are actually IN MY LIFE on a daily, or nearly daily, basis....don't get offended when we have these discussions I don't know why you, a nearly complete stranger whom I could pass on the street without having a clule, does. If my broad generalizations of a greater population does not apply to you, then it simply does not apply. Easy Peasy. Quit tossing such a childish hissy fit about it. Fucking live it instead of trying to argue it when the method in which you argue it makes you appear what you are arguing you are not. A frustrated angry little man that wants what his ego will not allow him to have. A more passive aggressive version of unaware.
You can ridicule and condescend toward women that don't fit the nice tidy little box you wish you could keep them in, allllllllll you want, but it's not going to change one god damned thing about us. It only reflects upon you.
Now, can we PLEASE keep this discussion on topic instead of about me (not a fin dom) or you (not a fin slave.) ???? If you wish to argue with me about you and me, email me. Or create a thread in Random Stupidity where it belongs.
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