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juliaoceania -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/3/2006 7:56:16 AM)

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ORIGINAL: marieToo

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ORIGINAL: Calandra

I've already made the community where she lives aware of her activities.



Um....Ok....I dont agree with what she did.  I think it's wrong...However...Your above statement indicates that you did exactly what you are condemning her for.  She feels that married men or whatever men who email her is wrong for whatever reason in her view, so she exposes them  You argue that what she does is  wrong then you do the exact same thing to her. 

You've "made the community where she lives aware of her activites"  as she has made the (vanilla) community, where these men live, aware of *their* activities. 
 
Its either ethical to do this, or unethical.  Its not ok for some people but wrong for others.


It is more than married men. If "daddy" is a part of their nic she attacks them like they are pedophiles. She rails against polyamorists... 




Calandra -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/3/2006 7:58:21 AM)

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ORIGINAL: TallDarkAndWitty

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ORIGINAL: Calandra

Ya don't just pick up the phone book and start calling strangers do ya?


I'll have you know that you can make a lot of friends that way...just ask my pals Aaron Abromaowitz and Adam Abernathy.

*wink*

Taggard



I swear, I never know what to expect from you... ~laffs~
Lemme know if you ever get to meet zoey zabronski 




Calandra -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/3/2006 8:01:52 AM)

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania
It is more than married men. If "daddy" is a part of their nic she attacks them like they are pedophiles. She rails against polyamorists... 


She freaks out about people using the word rape in a scene setting. Goes nutzoid about humiliation play. I posted her yesterday discreetly about using the word gaul instead of gall... went freakazoid at me... I expect to be the next one on her website after her post to me last night... ~boo-de-fricking-hoo~




gooddogbenji -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/3/2006 8:03:14 AM)

Okay, someone e-mail me who we are talking about.  The longer I listen, the more I suspect it's me, and you all assume I'm female.

Yours,


benji




bignipples2share -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/3/2006 8:12:24 AM)

< is so lost > LOL

~Big

___________________
ahhhh I see sounds




Calandra -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/3/2006 8:12:57 AM)

okay, now you know who we're talking about... unless....... you're impostering that poor innocent woman!
 
guilty conscience will give you away every time... LOL




Calandra -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/3/2006 8:15:11 AM)

~handing bignipples a map~
 
Pssssst, remember we've established earlier in the thread that one inch equals 100 miles....




gooddogbenji -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/3/2006 8:15:15 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Calandra

okay, now you know who we're talking about... unless....... you're impostering that poor innocent woman!
 
guilty conscience will give you away every time... LOL



Me?  I know nothing.  Hear no evil, see no evil, speak no evil.

Speaking of evil, you know what angel did the other day?  Kicked a hamster!  I would have joined in, but I was busy.  I heard it and saw it from across the street though.

Yours,


benji




gooddogbenji -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/3/2006 8:16:17 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Calandra

~handing bignipples a map~
 
Pssssst, remember we've established earlier in the thread that one inch equals 100 miles....



Sweet!  My cock is 1200 miles long!

Yours,


benji




Calandra -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/3/2006 8:20:57 AM)

I just saw a r/t friend in the "users viewing this topic" list
 
~waving frantically~
Heyyyyy BadPaliden..... give your girl a huge hug for me please?




tade -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/3/2006 8:20:59 AM)

The word for the day kiddies is discretion

Main Entry: dis·cre·tion [image]http://www.meriamwebster.com/images/audio.gif[/image]
Pronunciation: dis-'kre-sh&n
Function: noun
1 : the quality of being discreet : CIRCUMSPECTION; especially : cautious reserve in speech
2 : ability to make responsible decisions
3 a : individual choice or judgment <left the decision to his discretion> b : power of free decision or latitude of choice within certain legal bounds <reached the age of discretion>
4 : the result of separating or distinguishing




gooddogbenji -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/3/2006 8:23:25 AM)

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ORIGINAL: tade

The word for the day kiddies is discretion

Main Entry: dis·cre·tion [image]http://www.meriamwebster.com/images/audio.gif[/image]
Pronunciation: dis-'kre-sh&n
Function: noun
1 : the quality of being discreet : CIRCUMSPECTION; especially : cautious reserve in speech
2 : ability to make responsible decisions
3 a : individual choice or judgment <left the decision to his discretion> b : power of free decision or latitude of choice within certain legal bounds <reached the age of discretion>
4 : the result of separating or distinguishing


As much as I hate the man, I think Donald Trump said "Discretion is the better half of indulgence"

Doubt he was refering to CM at the time, but you never know.

Yours,


benji




angelface183 -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/3/2006 8:24:02 AM)

You sicko!  I would never kick a hamster!  I used to own a hamster; she was bald and incredibly sweet.  Everyone made fun of her at the pet store that I used to manage so after a year of such abuse I took her home, on Mother's Day no less.  She was really ugly though; she looked like a testicle with feet and a head.  I named her Harriet.  It was actually Harry before we realized that she was a girl.




MisPandora -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/3/2006 8:24:33 AM)

Can I just ask you a simple question Calandra?

Why do you care about this person, and why are you wasting so much of your time and energy on it?




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/3/2006 8:25:12 AM)

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ORIGINAL: TallDarkAndWitty
Why?

Why should people live their lives ashamed of who they are and what they do?

There is a lot of anger in the gay community that so many homosexuals are in the closet.  They feel that if everyone was "out" life would be much easier on them.  I am not so sure they are wrong.

Taggard

Because it's not ethical for them to force others to live as they believe they should live.







Calandra -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/3/2006 8:27:47 AM)

A testicle with feet and a head.... OMG bad image, bad, bad image.... LOL
 




Calandra -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/3/2006 8:30:08 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MisPandora
Can I just ask you a simple question Calandra?
Why do you care about this person, and why are you wasting so much of your time and energy on it?


Actually I see this as an opportunity to discuss the ethics of something that needs discussing... No more, no less...
 
and I dunno if you've noticed, but we're barely talking about the topic for about the last 50 posts or so...
 
I also should mention that I don't see any intelligent discussion as a "waste of time or energy".




angelface183 -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/3/2006 8:31:13 AM)

I know I know but she was so very sweet and cute....anyway that is why I am in such a tizzy about the scancalous rumor (wrong thread doggie) being spread here today!  I don't know if I will let the little mutt come live with us now!




TallDarkAndWitty -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/3/2006 8:32:08 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross
Because it's not ethical for them to force others to live as they believe they should live.


Ethics are subjective...it is not ethical to kill a person in cold blood, yet if that person holds the switch to a bomb that will kill millions, it becomes much less clear.

Ethics are personal...what you feel is wrong may not feel wrong to someone else.

People who take a stand for their community and out others believe they are doing something ethical and right, and we can only disagree with them.  There is no standard morality or ethical code.

Taggard




TallDarkAndWitty -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/3/2006 8:33:52 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Calandra

I also should mention that I don't see any intelligent discussion as a "waste of time or energy".


BTW, it has been a downright pleasure "hanging out" with you this morning...  I am glad to meet you. *wink*

Taggard




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