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RE: As you get older - 3/11/2012 12:41:53 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		I would even venture to say that I will likely become more sadist and more bossy, as I get older. Sex has nothing at all to do with it.

God help Generic Dude......

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RE: As you get older - 3/11/2012 1:02:32 PM   
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Status: offline 		Speaking as a Middle Aged Person who lusts after another Middle Aged Person, I certainly hope that there is no expiry date on having an interesting relationship!

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RE: As you get older - 3/11/2012 1:04:14 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I would even venture to say that I will likely become more sadist and more bossy, as I get older. Sex has nothing at all to do with it.

God help Generic Dude......


MORE bossy? IS THAT EVEN POSSIBLE??



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RE: As you get older - 3/11/2012 1:04:32 PM   
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RE: As you get older - 3/11/2012 1:07:33 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Speaking as a Middle Aged Person who lusts after another Middle Aged Person, I certainly hope that there is no expiry date on having an interesting relationship!


I'll second that, LadyH!

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RE: As you get older - 3/11/2012 1:08:39 PM   
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I AM older, dammit!!!!


Me too, double dammit!

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RE: As you get older - 3/11/2012 4:42:10 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I would even venture to say that I will likely become more sadist and more bossy, as I get older. Sex has nothing at all to do with it.

God help Generic Dude......


MORE bossy? IS THAT EVEN POSSIBLE??




Probably

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RE: As you get older - 3/11/2012 4:49:25 PM   
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RE: As you get older - 3/11/2012 5:50:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		Just curious when this "gotten over sex" thing is supposed to happen. I have worked on clients in retirement homes and they seem to be going strong. Some of those places are like soap operas with the way they move from one body to the next.

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At some point sex is presumably over for most couples,



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RE: As you get older - 3/11/2012 6:06:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		When I was younger I often wondered what would happen if I ever got to experience my "Ultimate fantasy". Well what I have found out as that as I have gotten older, I have gotten a hell of a lot kinker. The 1 fantasy has turned into hundreds. Each time I knock one of the list, 10 more pop up. I have no worries getting older :)

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RE: As you get older - 3/11/2012 7:39:06 PM   
LadyXandreia


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RE: As you get older - 3/11/2012 8:23:41 PM   
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RE: As you get older - 3/11/2012 9:05:41 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MrsT301

Do you think you will maintain a D/s relationship into old age (like past retirement, til death etc)?



I'm curious now.  Why would a 33 year old be worried about what old folks are doing when she has many years before getting to this mythical point of no sex and no D/s dynamic?  If you find out there is no D/s after 45, will you decide to skip experimenting as you will only have 12 years before you are too old to fuck? 

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RE: As you get older - 3/11/2012 9:20:54 PM   
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Status: offline 		This reminds me of an anecdote shared by a local employee at a home depot. My (ex) wife and I were shopping for paint, and asked for some of those wooden paint stirrers (seriously--they were for the PAINT!) We had several of the large size buckets of primer, and asked the clerk if they had a bigger stirrer. He did...and then told us this story (NOT knowing anything about our dynamic)

He told us that the week before, an elderly couple came in with the same request. He gave them the larger stirrer (it looks like a small, thin wooden paddle) The wife took the stick--smacked it a few times across the palm of her hand--and remarked: we'll need an extra one of these for later. And apparently, the husband blushed bright red.

so apparently there are folks in their 80's still having a good time thank goodness!

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RE: As you get older - 3/11/2012 10:03:18 PM   
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Do you think you will maintain a D/s relationship into old age (like past retirement, til death etc)?
At some point sex is presumably over for most couples, but I suppose there are other ways to maintain dominance over someone. Do you think you wil continue this type of relationship indefinately or do you think at some point you'll just be too old?

I can't imagine old age inhibiting my need to obey him.

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RE: As you get older - 3/11/2012 10:34:25 PM   
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ORIGINAL: NuevaVida
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ORIGINAL: MrsT301
Do you think you will maintain a D/s relationship into old age (like past retirement, til death etc)?
At some point sex is presumably over for most couples, but I suppose there are other ways to maintain dominance over someone. Do you think you wil continue this type of relationship indefinately or do you think at some point you'll just be too old?

I can't imagine old age inhibiting my need to obey him.

I can't imagine old age inhibiting my need to be obeyed.

Mr. Official "old Fart" - 62 on Sat., March 17th, 2012 which is my main street cred for this post - was asked yesterday (by an 18 year old gay man<?>) "I wonder what's it's like to be a horny teenager - like you - in a 61 year old body."  LOL!

Viagra? Meh. Seems to help, but not all that much.  Don't really need it.
Wish I had not gone so far in making my nipples a fetish.
"If I knew I was going to live so long, I would've taken better care of myself." and (conversly) "Lance, get thee to the gymnamsium, NOW!"

I first type "Guynamsium." There seems to be a bit of hot blood in the old man yet, y'know. 

Mom lived till 90, her father until 93.  At 63, I'm only 2/3 there - at LEAST another 20 years, I imagine.  That is, unless I'm hit by a truck as I cross the street going to the tubs.  At least let me have a good time at the tubs and I'm hit while returning TO my car. LOL!

"What have you got in your wallet?"  Condoms!

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RE: As you get older - 3/11/2012 11:13:46 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'd certainly hope not. I agree with the point that as long as you still desire to be with someone (whether its vanilla or BDSM), sex and intimacy should be ongoing.

And anyway, it's far too fun to stop?!

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RE: As you get older - 3/12/2012 12:19:24 AM   
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Perhaps the idea of whips and chains might lessen, but I don't see what power exchange has to do with age. It worked for my female supremacist grandmother and my grandfather for their 50-plus year marriage.
That's a good point. It worked for my grandparents as well, for almost 51 years.

And for my dommy-mom and subby-dad, 60+ years until she died.
He lived a few more years, but I'm sure she came to him in a dream and said, "Get your ass up here, dear. That's an order."

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RE: As you get older - 3/12/2012 7:35:27 AM   
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Status: offline 		I have known people that were in D/s relationships into their 80's.

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RE: As you get older - 3/12/2012 2:35:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		As someone wrote: No expiration date! I'm 70 (although my Dr. says physically I'm more like 55), and my appreciation, my passion to serve and to honor only grows stronger. It is a waking dream, songs flow from it.

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