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RE: As you get older - 3/12/2012 5:43:30 PM   
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Status: offline 		For Me being in a D/s or M/s relationship is much more than sex. Even if I or My girl were not capable of having sex because of age, the M/s relationship would still be there. So I don't think that part will ever go away even if the sex does, when I am 98..

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RE: As you get older - 3/12/2012 6:42:29 PM   
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Do you think you will maintain a D/s relationship into old age (like past retirement, til death etc)?
At some point sex is presumably over for most couples, but I suppose there are other ways to maintain dominance over someone. Do you think you wil continue this type of relationship indefinately or do you think at some point you'll just be too old?




Are you kidding me?????

Miss and i are already scouting out retirement homes. We're gonna be the dirty old couple rolling up to the nurse's station in our wheel chairs asking if they're going to be using the medical restraints tonight.

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RE: As you get older - 3/12/2012 7:08:18 PM   
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RE: As you get older - 3/12/2012 7:49:42 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MrsT301

Do you think you will maintain a D/s relationship into old age (like past retirement, til death etc)?
At some point sex is presumably over for most couples, but I suppose there are other ways to maintain dominance over someone. Do you think you wil continue this type of relationship indefinately or do you think at some point you'll just be too old?


I am going to stop being a kinkster at 40 and then join the priesthood...

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RE: As you get older - 3/12/2012 7:53:35 PM   
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I am going to stop being a kinkster at 40 and then join the priesthood...

BadOne




Forgive me, Father, for I have sinned. Bring on the penance.

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RE: As you get older - 3/16/2012 8:48:35 PM   
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I am going to stop being a kinkster at 40 and then join the priesthood...

BadOne

Being a priest is incompatible with being a kinkster how exactly?  I thought being a priest HELPS being a kinkster, especially for us gay men..... Oh, right! BadOne a gay man....... LOL!

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RE: As you get older - 3/17/2012 3:19:39 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MrsT301

Do you think you will maintain a D/s relationship into old age (like past retirement, til death etc)?
At some point sex is presumably over for most couples, but I suppose there are other ways to maintain dominance over someone. Do you think you wil continue this type of relationship indefinately or do you think at some point you'll just be too old?

Oh Goddess, I hope not! I don't really think that will EVER happen!

Being 33, you probably think someone my age - 54 - IS older. lol The thing is we plan on having our D/D relationship with each other and also D/s relationships with our submissives well into old age.

We don't consider D/s all sex. Our sex lives are our sex lives & our power exchange dynamics are power exchange dynamics and they will both still be there, no matter how old we get. I'm not trying to compartmentalize my life, because all of this is wrapped up together. But sex itself is more than just penis in vagina. There are a whole lot of other types of sexual expression and also, besides that, there's still cuddling too.

There are more ways to maintain one's Dominance or submission than through sexual activity. Also, if sexual expression stops for you when you get older, I feel sorry for you.

NBMG

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RE: As you get older - 3/17/2012 6:59:29 AM   
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RE: As you get older - 3/17/2012 9:35:44 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LanceHughes

quote:

ORIGINAL: SailingBum
I am going to stop being a kinkster at 40 and then join the priesthood...

BadOne

Being a priest is incompatible with being a kinkster how exactly?  I thought being a priest HELPS being a kinkster, especially for us gay men..... Oh, right! BadOne a gay man....... LOL!


LoL Im glad to see the "irony" was NOT lost on everyone. Rock ON Lance for figuring it out!

BadOne


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RE: As you get older - 3/17/2012 6:34:48 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: SailingBum
quote:

ORIGINAL: LanceHughes
quote:

ORIGINAL: SailingBum
I am going to stop being a kinkster at 40 and then join the priesthood...

BadOne

Being a priest is incompatible with being a kinkster how exactly?  I thought being a priest HELPS being a kinkster, especially for us gay men..... Oh, right! BadOne a gay man....... LOL!

LoL Im glad to see the "irony" was NOT lost on everyone. Rock ON Lance for figuring it out!

BadOne

"Irony" is NOT what you were using.  Maybe you meant "sarcasm"?

The line above is brought to you by the grammar Nazis.... er, I mean the grammar police, yep the grammar POLICE.

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RE: As you get older - 3/18/2012 1:20:02 AM   
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RE: As you get older - 3/18/2012 3:08:27 AM   
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RE: As you get older - 3/18/2012 7:46:21 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LanceHughes

quote:

ORIGINAL: SailingBum
quote:

ORIGINAL: LanceHughes
quote:

ORIGINAL: SailingBum
I am going to stop being a kinkster at 40 and then join the priesthood...

BadOne

Being a priest is incompatible with being a kinkster how exactly?  I thought being a priest HELPS being a kinkster, especially for us gay men..... Oh, right! BadOne a gay man....... LOL!

LoL Im glad to see the "irony" was NOT lost on everyone. Rock ON Lance for figuring it out!

BadOne

"Irony" is NOT what you were using.  Maybe you meant "sarcasm"?

The line above is brought to you by the grammar Nazis.... er, I mean the grammar police, yep the grammar POLICE.


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Enjoi BadOne

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RE: As you get older - 3/18/2012 8:28:39 PM   
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RE: As you get older - 3/18/2012 11:59:26 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MrsT301

Do you think you will maintain a D/s relationship into old age (like past retirement, til death etc)?
At some point sex is presumably over for most couples, but I suppose there are other ways to maintain dominance over someone. Do you think you wil continue this type of relationship indefinately or do you think at some point you'll just be too old?

Yes, you can and NO sex is not over. i am 57 and can have a good time 5 times a day. He will be 70 in May and He is the other half of the 5 times a day. i know of an M/s couple on FL who are in their 90's AND active. Multiple orgasms and dramatic (i look like i am having grande mal seizures) and HE can have sex again immediately following ejaculation. The only thing slowing you down is you or your health. Diabetes can give both males ED and females an equivalent. They can still get horny but not get to orgasm- so take good care of your blood sugar

That old age and sex thing has been passe since the 1980's.

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RE: As you get older - 3/19/2012 1:10:41 AM   
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Status: offline 		In My opinion, that is the problem with most people. They feel BDSM is all about sex. Its so much more of a mental thing, the sex is just a perk.

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RE: As you get older - 3/19/2012 11:55:21 AM   
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For me, it's physical and mental. It's the "dance", it's the look, the touch or an erotic whisper in a crowded place.
Tons of ways to have D/s, anywhere, anytime and to me, that's all encompassing.
If it were just physical, I would be bored....

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RE: As you get older - 3/19/2012 2:12:03 PM   
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RE: As you get older - 3/21/2012 1:09:59 PM   
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At some point sex is presumably over for most couples,...


Is someone "projecting"?

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RE: As you get older - 3/21/2012 2:50:50 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well, at 50 I am just getting the hang of this and really enjoying my groove. Sex will never end for me as sex is a brain game, so eben after my body gives out my mind will still want to play, see, touch; it's not all about orgasm, so for me I hope to be playing even after I'm dead.

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