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RE: As you get older - 3/21/2012 6:30:23 PM

VanessaChaland

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I think that my submissive (if physically able) would still cater to my needs even beyond the sexual as we age. Its just his nature.

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RE: As you get older - 3/21/2012 8:08:28 PM

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Sex is not a part of our M/s relationship.. it's just part of our sexual relationship which old age and illness has forced us to modify. The M/s is a constant and I don't foresee it changing.

I turned 52 on Wednesday and Himself is 60 and I certainly don't feel to old to be happy and M/s brings me the very best chances for maximizing my happy. :) I can't imagine that will change just because we'll, one day, start drawing social security and be on Medicare especially given how close we are to it!

My plan is not to get old. Its not working too well, so I'm using plan B, DON'T THINK ABOUT GETTING OLDER.

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RE: As you get older - 3/21/2012 8:18:54 PM

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ORIGINAL: MrsT301

Do you think you will maintain a D/s relationship into old age (like past retirement, til death etc)?
At some point sex is presumably over for most couples, but I suppose there are other ways to maintain dominance over someone. Do you think you wil(l) continue this type of relationship indefin(i)tely or do you think at some point you'll just be too old?

Eventually YES. Still finding "my One".

Sex is NEVER OVER, just different. It would also be different if you had a physical disability.

Indefinitely thanks.

OLD is a state of mind. Your body ages, but if the MIND GETS OLD before the body really ages, then you're old not matter what your chronological age. I know 80 year olds that are very young. I also know some 30 year olds that are ancient.

I don't think about it much. I just live my life and let that take care of itself.

Adapt or die.....just like the dinosaurs.

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RE: As you get older - 3/22/2012 4:22:37 AM

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Sunny Quote of the Day
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AngelSighs
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Adapt or die.....just like the dinosaurs.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_4056503/mpage_4/tm.htm

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RE: As you get older - 3/22/2012 9:02:21 AM

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If bald old farts can play like this, there's no telling what they can do!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9QV7Tq4Nl9c&feature=relmfu

I'm 70, and the fire still burns.

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RE: As you get older - 3/22/2012 9:13:14 AM

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I am in my mid-forties and I wouldn't have believed that I would have gotten this old when I was in my twenties. I manage people, some in their twenties at work... and every now and then I get asked how old I am, a couple just look at me confused when they find out that my children are close to their age or that I have a grandchild.

In many ways, I have come full circle to where I was twenty years ago, starting over, having nothing, moving back to the city I think of as home... and I look at things and sometimes I think that I am too old for this shit. Other times I shrug and realize that I am my self... and the body has some but not all to do with that. I am still very sexual, though that hasn't been part of the relationship I am leaving for a long time... and I do not see that ending. Sexual is more than the physical, way more... and when the body has issues with intercourse, I still expect the intimacy, the sensual, the intensity to be part of who I am.

I may not have had the most responsible path taken but the journey doesn't stop because of some damned number assigned to me.

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