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RE: Help to recover from bdsm.. - 3/20/2012 8:22:54 PM

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Fella, try walking into a Catholic church and asking everyone there if they have a cure for Catholicism.

We're here BECAUSE we like kink. So you;re asking kink-friendly people and kink-friendly therapists to agree with your assessment that this stuff is unhealthy.

Don't go looking for something where you won't find it and then complain it's not there.

I'm not asking anything at all like that, if you had a brain you'd know that.

What I'm asking is why is help not available widely to people who want it?

Obv your happy bein fked u so there's no point bothering with you

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RE: Help to recover from bdsm.. - 3/20/2012 8:23:32 PM

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ROFL... Yes, I have a habit of making people hysterical. However, you make it easy with your posting history. I had a little help with this one.

I was meaning you when I mentioned peop,e getting hysterical

Hey, I may be hysterically laughing... but pointing out your posting history isn't being hysterical. It's just pointing something out that might help those that wish to assist you, in knowing what might be going on here. At most... or at the least... I am either being helpful or I'm bustin your ass, as in telling on you. Still not hysterical.

If I thought for one moment, anything could be said that would help you, so that you don't repeat these train derailments, I would try. I'm not totally heartless. I just don't think anyone here can help you because your mind is set to the point of advising others to find the source of their depression and they won't need bdsm. You cannot project your own issues onto others and call it good science or medicine.

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RE: Help to recover from bdsm.. - 3/20/2012 8:23:33 PM

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So from what I've gathered so far, anyone who has an opinion that goes aganst the norm, that bdsm is fine must be repressed as it's such a taboo subject.

Even the DSM says it's fine. You're trying to convince us it's not.

Again, just because you have issues with it, doesn't mean that everyone has to have those issues too.

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RE: Help to recover from bdsm.. - 3/20/2012 8:26:32 PM

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If you want support for quitting BDSM, go find a right-wing conservative forum....maybe Homosexuals Anonymous or one of those other closeted faux self-help groups. You'll get lots of support if you go find a choir to preach to. And you probably won't find it here.

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RE: Help to recover from bdsm.. - 3/20/2012 8:29:28 PM

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Actually no it won't. At least I hope it won't, because what you just said was a lie. Go back and read the posts. Did everyone tell you that you were wrong? Did no one say that yes you should seek help ? And did you really just say that there should be help for people with problems? Was that all you said? Reread what has been posted. I am sorry to say I believe you are wrong in your intrepretation of what has been said.

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RE: Help to recover from bdsm.. - 3/20/2012 8:31:00 PM

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ROFL... Yes, I have a habit of making people hysterical. However, you make it easy with your posting history. I had a little help with this one.

I was meaning you when I mentioned peop,e getting hysterical

Hey, I may be hysterically laughing... but pointing out your posting history isn't being hysterical. It's just pointing something out that might help those that wish to assist you, in knowing what might be going on here. At most... or at the least... I am either being helpful or I'm bustin your ass, as in telling on you. Still not hysterical.

If I thought for one moment, anything could be said that would help you, so that you don't repeat these train derailments, I would try. I'm not totally heartless. I just don't think anyone here can help you because your mind is set to the point of advising others to find the source of their depression and they won't need bdsm. You cannot project your own issues onto others and call it good science or medicine.

I'm not advising no one on anything, I was asking why is there not help for people who don't like bdsm, is that still such a taboo subject?

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RE: Help to recover from bdsm.. - 3/20/2012 8:32:16 PM

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So from what I've gathered so far, anyone who has an opinion that goes aganst the norm, that bdsm is fine must be repressed as it's such a taboo subject.

Even the DSM says it's fine. You're trying to convince us it's not.

Again, just because you have issues with it, doesn't mean that everyone has to have those issues too.

Again just because you dont have issues with it doesn't mean everyone doesn't, I'm talking about these people on this thread, or are they too taboo to talk about as it goes againt your beliefs.

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RE: Help to recover from bdsm.. - 3/20/2012 8:32:53 PM

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The first link I posted was you advising someone to find out where their depression was from and then they wouldn't need bdsm... that was advice to someone.

It isn't taboo. It just isn't something that anyone is really agreeing with you on. Talk away...

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RE: Help to recover from bdsm.. - 3/20/2012 8:34:02 PM

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, I was asking why is there not help for people who don't like bdsm, is that still such a taboo subject?

there is. But not on this site. Go to a different site where you can find it.
go.
go now.

go far, far away now.

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RE: Help to recover from bdsm.. - 3/20/2012 8:36:05 PM

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The first link I posted was you advising someone to find out where their depression was from and then they wouldn't need bdsm... that was advice to someone.

It isn't taboo. It just isn't something that anyone is really agreeing with you on. Talk away...

The links I posted backed that up.

You have fibromyalgia, or chronic fatigue don't you? did you know they are caused by repressed emotions?

T want to be cured of bdsm is the only taboo subject on here.

Your very closed minded

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RE: Help to recover from bdsm.. - 3/20/2012 8:37:48 PM

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, I was asking why is there not help for people who don't like bdsm, is that still such a taboo subject?

there is. But not on this site. Go to a different site where you can find it.
go.
go now.

go far, far away now.

Why is it something that must never be spoken about on here? Is it better to keep people without knowledge?

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RE: Help to recover from bdsm.. - 3/20/2012 8:38:04 PM

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The links I posted backed that up.

You have fibromyalgia, or chronic fatigue don't you? did you know they are caused by repressed emotions?

T want to be cured of bdsm is the only taboo subject on here.

Your very closed minded

Delusion....or stupidity? anyone have any thoughts on THAT?

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RE: Help to recover from bdsm.. - 3/20/2012 8:40:06 PM

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The links I posted backed that up.

You have fibromyalgia, or chronic fatigue don't you? did you know they are caused by repressed emotions?

T want to be cured of bdsm is the only taboo subject on here.

Your very closed minded

Delusion....or stupidity? anyone have any thoughts on THAT?

You think the links I posted up are stupid? Is that just because you have a different opinion, this community thrives on suppression, this information needs to be put out there, there's a lot of sexually confused youngsters out there.

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RE: Help to recover from bdsm.. - 3/20/2012 8:41:17 PM

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The first link I posted was you advising someone to find out where their depression was from and then they wouldn't need bdsm... that was advice to someone.

It isn't taboo. It just isn't something that anyone is really agreeing with you on. Talk away...

The links I posted backed that up.

You have fibromyalgia, or chronic fatigue don't you? did you know they are caused by repressed emotions?

T want to be cured of bdsm is the only taboo subject on here.

Your very closed minded

Darlin, I repress nothing. If you don't believe me... ask someone that knows me.

Well, wait a minute... I must repress some of what I would really like to say because of powerful mods that could take my ass out... but other than that... no... I pretty much am okay with everything.

As for your diagnosing me or any illness... dude... I go to those in the know and started with Dr. Cho... a few of his patients and colleagues and many very high ranking professionals and scientist that don't always agree with one another or on what is what... but at least have the medical back ground and training to actually say something of worth or diagnose someone. You cannot put yourself in the same category.

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RE: Help to recover from bdsm.. - 3/20/2012 8:43:17 PM

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You think the links I posted up are stupid? Is that just because you have a different opinion, this community thrives on suppression, this information needs to be put out there, there's a lot of sexually confused youngsters out there.

I wasn't referring to the links.

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RE: Help to recover from bdsm.. - 3/20/2012 8:44:50 PM

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You think the links I posted up are stupid? Is that just because you have a different opinion, this community thrives on suppression, this information needs to be put out there, there's a lot of sexually confused youngsters out there.

I wasn't referring to the links.

You'd be the best man to answer that.

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RE: Help to recover from bdsm.. - 3/20/2012 8:48:06 PM

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The first link I posted was you advising someone to find out where their depression was from and then they wouldn't need bdsm... that was advice to someone.

It isn't taboo. It just isn't something that anyone is really agreeing with you on. Talk away...

The links I posted backed that up.

You have fibromyalgia, or chronic fatigue don't you? did you know they are caused by repressed emotions?

T want to be cured of bdsm is the only taboo subject on here.

Your very closed minded

Darlin, I repress nothing. If you don't believe me... ask someone that knows me. Well, wait a minute... I must repress some of what I would really like to say because of powerful mods that could take my ass out... but other than that... no... I pretty much am okay with everything.

As for your diagnosing me or any illness... dude... I go to those in the know and started with Dr. Cho... a few of his patients and colleagues and many very high ranking professionals and scientist that don't always agree with one another or on what is what... but at least have the medical back ground and training to actually say something of worth or diagnose someone. You cannot put yourself in the same category.

Is it true that you have CDs or fibromyalgia?

Dr cho has cured zero people of the condition, these doctors have cured 1000s, dr cho can not go in the same category as these.

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RE: Help to recover from bdsm.. - 3/20/2012 8:49:09 PM

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Just a note so things stay clear

Fibromyalgia is caused by hormonal disturbances, chemical imbalances, stress, illness, and trauma. As well as a combination of many physical and emotional stressors. A person can have one, many, or none of these and still have fibrmyalgia.

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RE: Help to recover from bdsm.. - 3/20/2012 8:49:15 PM

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http://www.mickeltherapy.com/aboutus/testimonials/

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RE: Help to recover from bdsm.. - 3/20/2012 8:51:02 PM

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Just a note so things stay clear

Fibromyalgia is caused by hormonal disturbances, chemical imbalances, stress, illness, and trauma. As well as a combination of many physical and emotional stressors. A person can have one, many, or none of these and still have fibrmyalgia.

Emotional stressors thats pretty much what I said

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