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RE: sub got upset cutting clothes off - 6/4/2006 5:52:09 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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What are clothes but material objects?  Personally I would be more happy that Master even wanted to use me in such a way to entertain himself than upset that I am out a piece of nice clothing.

As a fashionista myself, I have to say that's a zen way of putting it, and if it came down to natural disaster time, yes I'd leave my clothes behind- but my clothes are more than just material objects to me.

Like a persons bible, or wedding ring, or collar, or baby book...clothes have a LOT of sentimental value to me.  Where I've worn them, who gave them to me, what I did in them.  I really can tell you the history of each of my pieces of clothing.

Now, these are my values.  I know not everyone loves clothes and fashion to the point that I do. 

And ultimately I agree- if I'm owned by someone and they have let me know "I could cut any piece of clothing you wear at anytime" I accept that risk and what it entails.

But just like I wouldn't expect a master to tell me to burn my nephews baby pictures just so he could get a sadistic thrill from it, I wouldn't expect him to destroy a deeply sentimental piece of clothing.

Not to mention- was it cold and did he consider having another covering for her when they went home?

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RE: sub got upset cutting clothes off - 6/4/2006 5:57:19 PM   
artglfr


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No LA, I made her walk home nekkid in the rain and snow...just kidding ok. You are right and I would Never cut off any piece of clothing I know means something to her.

she had to go topless from the living room to her room which entails going through the hall and office.

It was fun, I loved it and she now knows to expect such drastic action.

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RE: sub got upset cutting clothes off - 6/4/2006 6:01:52 PM   
gooddogbenji


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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

But just like I wouldn't expect a master to tell me to burn my nephews baby pictures just so he could get a sadistic thrill from it, I wouldn't expect him to destroy a deeply sentimental piece of clothing.



I think this crystalizes the argument into its pure form - the Master should know whether clothing has a bigger meaning to the slave, and if so, which pieces could be ripped/cut and which ones not.

I have a lot of nice, new, expensive (kinda) shirts, which if they were destroyed during play, I would only care to the extent of "How the hell am I gonna get home????"

I have a few shirts, invariably old and ratty (how else would they gain meaning?), that I LOVE!  If someone decided to cut them off without considering their value to me, I would be upset.

Yours,


benji

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RE: sub got upset cutting clothes off - 6/4/2006 6:30:14 PM   
CollaredProperty


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Loki,

sounds wonderfull and you look hot in Your Leather.

slave susan


Thank ya luv, but if you come to Lokiwood you should have your mail forwarded. I would most likely keep you.


Loki,

Are You sure You could handle me? I just love EDGE play and "flying by flesh hooks"

slave susan

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RE: sub got upset cutting clothes off - 6/4/2006 6:31:50 PM   
CollaredProperty


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ORIGINAL: Sinergy

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ORIGINAL: CollaredProperty

I think a Gentleman would do such things.

slave susan


Thank you very much, susan.

It is somewhat in keeping with my ideal about being a Dominant.  I am a firm believer in the code of chivalry.

Just me, etc.

Sinergy


Sinergy,

nice to see that chivalry isn't dead. smiles.......

slave susan

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RE: sub got upset cutting clothes off - 6/4/2006 6:34:06 PM   
CollaredProperty


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ORIGINAL: zumala

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ORIGINAL: Wulfchyld

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ORIGINAL: CollaredProperty

Loki,

sounds wonderfull and you look hot in Your Leather.

slave susan


Thank ya luv, but if you come to Lokiwood you should have your mail forwarded. I would most likely keep you.


*chuckles*  One of these days I'll probably ask more about Lokiwood, but given that I'm not up for grabs, I doubt I'd be invited.  I don't have CP's looks, either. 
 
zuma


zuma,

thanks hun, but i have to work at it only eat 1000 calories a day, walk 5 miles, do step aerobics to stay a size 2-4, if not the chips and cokes will catch up with me on the weekends when i alow myself one of each.

sub susan

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RE: sub got upset cutting clothes off - 6/4/2006 6:34:19 PM   
Wulfchyld


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ORIGINAL: CollaredProperty

Loki,

Are You sure You could handle me? I just love EDGE play and "flying by flesh hooks"

slave susan


The real question is, can you handle me?

< Message edited by Wulfchyld -- 6/4/2006 6:39:07 PM >


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RE: sub got upset cutting clothes off - 6/4/2006 6:39:40 PM   
CollaredProperty


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ORIGINAL: Wulfchyld

quote:

ORIGINAL: CollaredProperty

quote:

ORIGINAL: Wulfchyld

quote:

ORIGINAL: CollaredProperty

Loki,

Are You sure You could handle me? I just love EDGE play and "flying by flesh hooks"

slave susan


The real question is, can you handle me?



Loki,

send me a message and convince me why i could not handle You?
i dare You, i double dare You!

slave susan

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RE: sub got upset cutting clothes off - 6/4/2006 6:43:23 PM   
Wulfchyld


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You got mail!

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RE: sub got upset cutting clothes off - 6/4/2006 6:48:15 PM   
CollaredProperty


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ORIGINAL: Wulfchyld

You got mail!


hmmm off to read the mail to see if He has what it takes to get me going (thought i was going to say get me off huh?_ no)

slave susan

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RE: sub got upset cutting clothes off - 6/4/2006 6:52:08 PM   
CollaredProperty


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ORIGINAL: Wulfchyld

You got mail!


Loki,

You wicked wicked wicked Master, You have mail!

slave susan

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RE: sub got upset cutting clothes off - 6/4/2006 6:55:14 PM   
Wulfchyld


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It didn't come through.

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RE: sub got upset cutting clothes off - 6/4/2006 7:00:07 PM   
CollaredProperty


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ORIGINAL: Wulfchyld

It didn't come through.


I sent it, looked twice, then resent it. did You get it?

slave susan?

darn collarme.com email system sucks.

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RE: sub got upset cutting clothes off - 6/4/2006 7:02:42 PM   
gooddogbenji


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ORIGINAL: CollaredProperty

darn collarme.com email system sucks.



There a thread called "all complaints go here." Use it.

You think we want to read this stuff without intending to????

Yours,


benji

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RE: sub got upset cutting clothes off - 6/4/2006 7:04:21 PM   
Wulfchyld


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Nope. Sometime CM is like that. I will talk to you here http://klashaan.org:8181/cgi-bin/yabb/yabb.pl/YaBB.pl

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RE: sub got upset cutting clothes off - 6/4/2006 7:05:25 PM   
CollaredProperty


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ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

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ORIGINAL: CollaredProperty

darn collarme.com email system sucks.



There a thread called "all complaints go here." Use it.

You think we want to read this stuff without intending to????

Yours,


benji


bite me benji....ruff ruff ruff nice doggie.

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"BDSM SLAVE ONLY, ALPHA TYPE, PASSION FOR EXTREME EDGE PLAY, IT IS NOT ABOUT SEX FOR ME, IT'S ABOUT TPE"

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RE: sub got upset cutting clothes off - 6/4/2006 7:07:39 PM   
Wulfchyld


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*smacks benji with a newspaper*

Aside from the sadistic newspaper I still luv ya benji.

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Where there is a whip, there is a way!
Dom/mes of a feather, beat the f*ck out of slaves together


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RE: sub got upset cutting clothes off - 6/4/2006 7:08:13 PM   
gooddogbenji


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bite me benji....ruff ruff ruff nice doggie.



Careful what you wish for, collared.  I lost my bone this morning, and would love to replace it.

Nice arm, by the way....  lol

Yours,


benji

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RE: sub got upset cutting clothes off - 6/4/2006 7:09:21 PM   
gooddogbenji


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ORIGINAL: Wulfchyld

*smacks benji with a newspaper*

Aside from the sadistic newspaper I still luv ya benji.



hey, I like the newspaper, just a bit harder.

Yours,


benji

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RE: sub got upset cutting clothes off - 6/4/2006 7:10:53 PM   
TheHouseOfHussey


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ORIGINAL: Wulfchyld

*smacks benji with a newspaper*

Aside from the sadistic newspaper I still luv ya benji.



Loki save that smacking for something more usefull than a dog. Hee Hee I would love to smak slave susan she is hot!

< Message edited by TheHouseOfHussey -- 6/4/2006 7:12:12 PM >

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