Karmastic
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Joined: 4/5/2012 From: Los Angeles Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: lizi Hey there OP, I'm going to go off topic here, not that it would be unusual on any of the threads you seem to frequent lately, and just talk about behavior. In at least two other thread besides this one people keep having to stop and talk about behavior and attitudes with you instead of the thread. I assure you, this isn't really the norm around here. At the risk of having you paint me as yet another troll, I'd like to point out that when multiple people seem to be having trouble with same person, you, there might be a correlation there. You know the old saying that if you keep having issues with people, then maybe it might be yourself? It sure seems odd to me that so many people lately have been accused of, or are accusing you of, not listening or misinterpreting. Something to think about... Don't take my word for it, check out some old threads. Sure there are the occasional heated debates, but I have never seen anyone point the finger at others so many time as you do and vice versa. Troll seems to be a word you like using, but perhaps 'that word does not mean what you think it means' (props to anyone who gets the PB reference). Anyway, not to add fuel to the fires around here lately, but it seemed time to mention the fact that they keep cropping up around you. That is meant to be a moment for reflection, not an attack. yes thanks, all taken in good spirit. i think the cause is certainly not a one way street. red magic's post alluding to how i shouldn't have replied to him without being addressed by him helps sum it up. while i respect coming into a community and following their norms, i don't handle internet mob rule well (not that you're one of the mob, you're not). and I'm picky about using words, and don't like being mischaracterized, and will call people on it. but yeah, i get that if 100 sailors say it's so, it's prob so. but again, i'm not worried about mob rule, anymore than the people who come here for some BDSM solidarity worry about what vanillas think. ps edit: you're right, many diff definitions of what a troll is. and someone can behave like a troll but not be one. part of the two way street is that i don't respond well to what i consider trollish behavior. i.e., passive aggressive troll behavior by replying to multiple people who replied to me, just to put down the things i suggested. that's what red did.
< Message edited by Karmastic -- 4/21/2012 4:25:20 PM >
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