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RE: Sex - 4/28/2012 12:55:01 AM

LadyPact

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No, I didn't end up agreeing with you in the end. What I told you was that, quite often, female submissives get no choice in whether or not they are going to perform sexually. In other words, the frequency is still up to <drumroll> The Dominant.

I also said that it was My belief that there are more F/m dynamics that do not include sex, rather than M/f ones. This is not to say that Dominant women are not interested in sex. It has more to do with particular kinks that are more popular with F/m. I believe this is why chastity and cuckolding were mentioned earlier in the thread. Certain types of humiliation enter this category as well that I just don't see female subs having an interest.

As for whether this site is a good option for the single male, I've said on a number of occasions that it's not. The numbers are ridiculously lopsided because 1) any internet site always has far more male than females and 2) kink tends to have higher number of males to begin with. If I were male, the last place I would be looking for a partner would be the internet.

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RE: Sex - 4/28/2012 7:54:35 AM

FriendlyMuppet

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

As for whether this site is a good option for the single male, I've said on a number of occasions that it's not. The numbers are ridiculously lopsided because 1) any internet site always has far more male than females and 2) kink tends to have higher number of males to begin with. If I were male, the last place I would be looking for a partner would be the internet.

To be honest, I've not had the same experience, as a single male. I've found that the number of wannabe, insincere males who are looking for a quick thrill far outnumber the dedicated, interested-in-serving submissive males that exist by a long shot so that my experiences have actually been quite positive in this regard because once people start to realize you're not a leg-humper who is trying to score with anything that moves, you tend to get a lot more attention that can end up being very positive. Again, we're not talking about immediate results, but again, that's the problem with the other kinds of males who frequent these types of places (they want it right now and fast...okay, maybe not so fast, but they want it right now).

If a single male is interested in exploring the scene, learning from others, and passing on what he learns to others, a place like this is an excellent spot to interact with others. But if it's seen as a "pick-up" place, of course it's going to be an awful experience. That's why the financial dominants and the profiles with 19 years old girls sticking their middle fingers up seem to get the attention they do. They're occupying the immediacy seekers, and that's fine.

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RE: Sex - 4/28/2012 10:10:38 AM

LadyConstanze

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I only do this for sex. What other reason could I possibly want to put the energy, effort and time into it for, other than pleasure?

It would have nothing to do with trying to sell e-books?

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RE: Sex - 4/28/2012 10:13:17 AM

LadyConstanze

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C maybe your friend and you are welcome to defend her. She lowered herself to insulting me mentioning inflatables and other things before that. So she can't take irony or sarcasm from me after she insults me and is whining about me and yes I am being nasty to her now. Since she likes intelligence she should appreciate the lesson in sarcasm if she understands it.

Give it a break, you are whining that women don't want sex as much as you want it, I told you repeatedly that women do like sex as much as you like it, they just don't like it with YOU and they aren't that desperate for it, and desperation reeks like a really cheap scent.

As for intelligence, if you managed to acquire any, come back and have a discussion, for a guy in his 50's you sound like the typical frustrated teenager who can't get laid for love or money!

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RE: Sex - 4/28/2012 10:42:38 AM

LadyHibiscus

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He's in his 50s? I really have to start checking out profiles.

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RE: Sex - 4/28/2012 3:42:01 PM

VanessaChaland

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I own a website (fetish furniture, plus pay site and have had 5 others) and I sell e-books. And? You should buy some as you could certainly learn something. The larger point is that I belong to dozens of forums and sites and have for a decade plus, have "friends", locally, have and do attend munches, local play parties and again your point is? I also own serious amounts of land, plus other businesses and still your point is? Am I not allowed, according to your "logic" to buy vegetables that are not grown from my own farms? Am I not allowed to speak/write about anything DD Waiver related due to the fact that I own a S-Corp that runs a case management company that is for those clients?
You see a conflict of interest, or a deviouf plot everywhere you go?

Do you ever get tired of your petty jealousy? You seem stressed and maybe a good orgasm will calm you down so why not go look at some of my photos and drool over my incredibly hot and tight body and you'll feel better after your fingerbang session ok sweety?

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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze

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ORIGINAL: VanessaChaland

I only do this for sex. What other reason could I possibly want to put the energy, effort and time into it for, other than pleasure?

It would have nothing to do with trying to sell e-books?