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MadameM4U -> Is this for real? (5/3/2012 1:21:01 AM)

I started on this site almost a week ago and have received some emails I just don't think are "real" but I wanted to share one and get some feedback from all of you since I am new here.

I received this message twice today:

"ill pay you to tie me up pull my pants down and put a cig out on me"

I specifically state on my profile that I am not a professional domme and can't be hired for anything so I figured this was from someone who obviously did not read my profile or if it is from a "real" person they just didn't believe that I am not for hire.

Is this sort of message a common occurrence here?




DonGiovani -> RE: Is this for real? (5/3/2012 1:39:18 AM)

From what I've read on this side, that sounds pretty average.


Welcome to the party!




Alecta -> RE: Is this for real? (5/3/2012 1:43:11 AM)

They're like the sub version of the fake findommes. Pretty common.
Don't worry, they usually happy just sending the email and chatting to you about whatever it is they want you to do, then don't show up for the transaction.




PrincessDonna11 -> RE: Is this for real? (5/3/2012 1:45:40 AM)

Yeah they are quick to think you have time to chat with them




LadyPact -> RE: Is this for real? (5/3/2012 2:11:57 AM)

That kind of stuff is a lot more prominent during your first sixty days on the site when you are a "new user".  You'll still get some occasionally after that, but it won't be nearly in the same volume.  A number of people send out those kinds of messages when you are "new" because they have a better chance of you not knowing how to report them, etc.




kalikshama -> RE: Is this for real? (5/3/2012 4:29:06 AM)

I'm a sub and I get those kind of messages, which I report as spam.




DarkSteven -> RE: Is this for real? (5/3/2012 5:35:52 AM)

I belong to a group on the other site. The group's purpose is to report preposterous messages. Your "playmate" is one of two cigarette guys they track regularly.




LittleMsMary -> RE: Is this for real? (5/3/2012 5:49:40 AM)

As a pretty recent "new" user, yes, it's fairly common. Some are just funny because they're preposterous...some are just sad...and some just creepy.




MadameM4U -> RE: Is this for real? (5/3/2012 5:53:54 AM)

Thanks for the feedback everyone. I didn't think this was "real" but being new here I wanted to hear from more experienced users to validate my instinct.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Is this for real? (5/3/2012 6:42:08 AM)

If you are bored and have time, the opportunities for lulz are tremendous!




LadyPact -> RE: Is this for real? (5/3/2012 11:28:18 AM)

Just for clarity, I wanted to say there is such a thing as a smoking fetish.  Than can include everything from the erotic response to a certain 1920's kind of look (long opera gloves, red lipstick, etc) associated to smoking.  That can go up through the fetish to be used as a human ashtray which includes ashing either in the hands or the mouth of the submissive, and can go even as far as extinguishing cigarettes on the submissive's skin. 

How serious the person who contacted you is about following through on that particular fetish is completely determined by that individual.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Is this for real? (5/3/2012 11:29:43 AM)

I never conflated the being burned with the smoking fetish. The human ashtray thing is pretty common, as such things go.





lthrpup -> RE: Is this for real? (5/3/2012 11:44:12 AM)

After you hide or block a few hundred profiles, Collame is like a different website.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Is this for real? (5/3/2012 11:52:55 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: lthrpup

After you hide or block a few hundred profiles, Collame is like a different website.


VERY true! I'm not going to go out on a limb and say it makes it all that much better, but yes, the HIDE function is my friend. Married? CLICK. Cuck? CLICK. CD? CLICK... etc. [:)]




AAkasha -> RE: Is this for real? (5/3/2012 1:21:00 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: MadameM4U

I started on this site almost a week ago and have received some emails I just don't think are "real" but I wanted to share one and get some feedback from all of you since I am new here.

I received this message twice today:

"ill pay you to tie me up pull my pants down and put a cig out on me"

I specifically state on my profile that I am not a professional domme and can't be hired for anything so I figured this was from someone who obviously did not read my profile or if it is from a "real" person they just didn't believe that I am not for hire.

Is this sort of message a common occurrence here?



So this is what happens. The guy probably got hard and maybe even ejaculated when he hit the send button, for one. So he "used" you once already (scammer!).

Then if you wrote back and said, "Really, how much would you pay me?" he came when he read that, just thinking, oh my god, she read my email and thought about it! So he pulled down his pants and started tugging again furiously at his weiner and slowly composed another email saying yes he would pay you as much as you wanted, just let him know, if you (then he described in great details his fantasy while tugging) and "just asked" what kind of cigarettes you smoked before getting on to "how he could pay you". Then he shot another load when he hit send. Then maybe for good measure, rubbed one out later that night when re-reading the email stream.

Then when you wrote back and said, "I smoke Virginia slims" he had to pull it out again and start tugging like a mad man and could barely contain himself as he read the email, and got to the part when you said how much and how he could send the gift certificate or whatever, and by then, he came 4 times, and had the glorious email stream to re-read anyway, so who needs you anyway? He could just email the next new user. So he stops writing.

And that, dear femdom friends, is how "male subs" SCAM "femdoms" by using financial "submission", But we don't make a million threads about it, because there's no victim so to speak, just our wasted time, which we waste so much anyway no one seems to even count anymore. If we honestly knew how many times guys ejaculated to leading questions they asked us in emails, we could fill up an Olympic pool with cum.

I'm not complaining, I think it's funny. I bet if cig guy reads this post he may actually get a boner.

Akasha




peppermint -> RE: Is this for real? (5/3/2012 4:36:32 PM)

Oh wow!!!  He hit up on you too.  You are the 4th I have heard of to get the identical cmail.  He's a tricky one.  He doesn' send out to many that the spam filter kicks in.  He's not picky as he sends to both Dommes and subs. 

By the way, he has another account here. 




LookieNoNookie -> RE: Is this for real? (5/3/2012 7:27:37 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: MadameM4U

I started on this site almost a week ago and have received some emails I just don't think are "real" but I wanted to share one and get some feedback from all of you since I am new here.

I received this message twice today:

"ill pay you to tie me up pull my pants down and put a cig out on me"

I specifically state on my profile that I am not a professional domme and can't be hired for anything so I figured this was from someone who obviously did not read my profile or if it is from a "real" person they just didn't believe that I am not for hire.

Is this sort of message a common occurrence here?


Welcome to the circus.




LookieNoNookie -> RE: Is this for real? (5/3/2012 7:29:49 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus


quote:

ORIGINAL: lthrpup

After you hide or block a few hundred profiles, Collame is like a different website.


VERY true! I'm not going to go out on a limb and say it makes it all that much better, but yes, the HIDE function is my friend. Married? CLICK. Cuck? CLICK. CD? CLICK... etc. [:)]


HEY now!!!!!!




LadyConstanze -> RE: Is this for real? (5/3/2012 11:32:30 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: AAkasha




I'm not complaining, I think it's funny. I bet if cig guy reads this post he may actually get a boner.




Yes, but I am always tempted to ruin his boner with "Send $100 to...." and give him the PayPal address of a charity, but then he'd possibly report me, so I just use the delete as spam button.




MadameM4U -> RE: Is this for real? (5/4/2012 12:22:26 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: peppermint

Oh wow!!!  He hit up on you too.  You are the 4th I have heard of to get the identical cmail.  He's a tricky one.  He doesn' send out to many that the spam filter kicks in.  He's not picky as he sends to both Dommes and subs. 

By the way, he has another account here. 


Yes, I received a similar message from the alternate account earlier in the week.




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