Karmastic -> RE: Warning about virus links in profiles!!! (5/4/2012 9:48:01 PM)
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i'm just going to be really blunt here. this is not the first thread that i've started, with sincere intentions to help others, and/or perhaps even offer suggestions for improvement on the board, or just contribute. frankly, i'm becoming a bit disillusioned and even angry that every time i do this, rather than just saying thanks, or even better, offering up things that can constructively add to the thread, so many jump in just to un-constructively tear down the thread, or the advice or info i'm humbly offering. Or, try to belittle me for the most ridiculous things that don't mean anything. it's fine if you disagree with me - I actually like when that's done constructively, because we all learn from it (esp me). after being on boards like this for about 10 years, including being Jewish on a board dominated by Arabs and Muslims, i don't think i have a thin skin. in fact, the Arabs who openly admitted they wanted to blow me up responded better to me, or to anyone offering advice or help, even unsolicited (like this thread). disclaimer - i'm not saying Arabs are any better or worse as a people. Nor am I dissing the fine people who post regularly on the board site of CM. this is not directed to the entire group, nor any particular person. I'm just giving you my newb impression after spending a rather considerable amount of time posting here over a very short period of a few weeks. I'm fine with myself as a human and a person for those who may react to this by trying to tear me a new one because of this or that pop psychology internet diagnosis they apply to me. And for those who will say I'm the one who's stirring or creating drama, please look in the mirror. You know damned well what you're doing when you jump in to disparage. Peace out PS - Reikm and a few others - thank you very much for taking this thread in the spirit it was offered, and even sharing your own foibles. and thank you LadyPact - i really enjoy your posts and admire your intelligence and helpfulness - you're a fine person. but let's just say i'm disappointed, and think you're way off on your approach this time. edited for clarity.
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