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subbyinlosangele -> RE: Is 1 Not enouph (5/5/2012 11:51:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Alecta Depends! Not every Dom/me looks for slaves to "love and are for". Not every slave looks for a Dom/me to BE loved and cared for. A stable is a Dom/me's personal group of slaves. A farm is where a Dom/me (or several) train slaves then send them off in the world to serve other Dom/mes. Some subs/slaves enjoy having to compete with other slaves/subs for their Dom/me's attentions. Some Dom/mes have needs that require more than one slave/sub to complete (such as having a house too big for 1 person to maintain, or being a cuckqueen). Some Dom/mes compartmentalise their expectations and feelings of each slave to specialised functions or roles. And some people are polyamorous. A number of Prodom/mes advertise having multiple slaves as part of their marketing because their clients respond well to it. It is a fetish way of saying they have regular returning clients, but also gives the suggestion that it is possible for the client to aspire to a more "personal" connection with the ProDom/me as part of his/her collection, which, as I understand, is an attractive fantasy. Yup, you can slice this any which way. I've never gotten the slave thing. If I am with a domme with wants multiple subs, I see that as a casual relationship where I am free to seek other dommes as well. It's the vanilla equivalent of just dating around. personally, I would never be monogoamous to a domme who was seeing other men.

Whenready -> RE: Is 1 Not enouph (5/6/2012 12:26:36 AM)
Agrees with both oside girl and rumpus....

poise -> RE: Is 1 Not enouph (5/6/2012 5:55:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Youngmanbdsm I'm just thinking one is enough to love and care for right? quote: ORIGINAL: SpiritedRadiance Sorry poise I dont equate who my family is (multiple people) and who i have sexual relationships with, at all equal or on the same level. Don't be sorry, please! I may live in Louisiana, but trust me, I don't equate family in the same context sexually either. I was giving the OP an example of how people in authority can love more than one person.

thishereboi -> RE: Is 1 Not enouph (5/6/2012 6:28:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Youngmanbdsm Ok I am just looking around and doms and dommes say they have farms of slaves and I'm just thinking one is enouph to love and care for right? One is enough for me. That said, didn't anyone ever tell you not to believe everything you read online?

NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: Is 1 Not enouph (5/6/2012 3:36:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Youngmanbdsm Ok I am just looking around and doms and dommes say they have farms of slaves and I'm just thinking one is enouph to love and care for right? I can be happy either monogamous or poly, so either one or two is enough for me. Any more than two would be too many...for ME. I know of other Dom/mes who have three to five. If I had that many, I'd feel like I couldn't give each one sufficient attention, but again, that's just me. The ones who have more don't seem to have a problem with it. NBMG

Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: Is 1 Not enouph (5/6/2012 7:07:23 PM)
It's challenging to find one GOOD sub/slave let alone a whole farm of them. LOL Mind you, I have standards. Seriously? Really? Whole Farm of 'em? hahahahaha

TNDommeK -> RE: Is 1 Not enouph (5/6/2012 9:15:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: thishereboi quote: ORIGINAL: Youngmanbdsm Ok I am just looking around and doms and dommes say they have farms of slaves and I'm just thinking one is enouph to love and care for right? One is enough for me. That said, didn't anyone ever tell you not to believe everything you read online? He is wasting his gum. LOL

MasterPandy -> RE: Is 1 Not enouph (5/7/2012 10:47:54 AM)
Each to their own. A slave "farm" can certainly work in some cases I am sure, but it would take a very experienced person (with a lot of space and money) to run it and keep all the slaves in check. I have had my slave live with me for 2½ years and I am looking for a second, but I don't think it would be realistic to have more than 1 more at this time - not on a live-in basis anyway. I could foresee perhaps having one more who lived as a pet maybe.

Hillwilliam -> RE: Is 1 Not enouph (5/7/2012 10:52:04 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterPandy Each to their own. A slave "farm" can certainly work in some cases I am sure, but it would take a very experienced person (with a lot of space and money) to run it and keep all the slaves in check. I have had my slave live with me for 2½ years and I am looking for a second, but I don't think it would be realistic to have more than 1 more at this time - not on a live-in basis anyway. I could foresee perhaps having one more who lived as a pet maybe. I thought a 'slave farm' was a place where you plant slave seeds or cuttings and they.............. <worried look at all that freshly dug soil in the back yard> OOPS here I was worried about a late frost. Errrrrr, anyone wanna buy a house CHEAP?

JanahX -> RE: Is 1 Not enouph (5/7/2012 10:54:56 AM)
Has ANYONE actually SEEN or BEEN to a actual SLAVE FARM?? ANYONE????? and please if you have... please explain... im FUCKING dying to know ....

DrkOne -> RE: Is 1 Not enouph (5/7/2012 11:18:35 AM)
Go to the middle east. you'll find harems all over the place. Go to other parts of the world where servants and slaves are quite common. I'm sure there's such things as slave farms. However, considering the illegality of them I seriously doubt if you're going to find anyone jumping up and down saying "Hey! Look at me!"

TessDurbeyfield -> RE: Is 1 Not enouph (5/7/2012 12:13:51 PM)
To me a "Slave farm" conjures up images of a "religious cult" where the "slaves" have been brainwashed....can't think of any reason why somebody sane would want to be part of a Slave Farm!

JanahX -> RE: Is 1 Not enouph (5/7/2012 12:22:03 PM)
Im talking about slave farms in the sense of a western world type fantasy - Id post a link to a porn vid - but its a bit much .. lol, if you want the link - pm me. No doubt about the middle east - but almost all the women there are slaves and are treated like shit. Thats their culture. quote: ORIGINAL: DrkOne Go to the middle east. you'll find harems all over the place. Go to other parts of the world where servants and slaves are quite common. I'm sure there's such things as slave farms. However, considering the illegality of them I seriously doubt if you're going to find anyone jumping up and down saying "Hey! Look at me!"

Delilya -> RE: Is 1 Not enouph (5/7/2012 12:23:12 PM)
I have 2 subs, none of us live with each other. One is important to me as he is my mentor, and is/has been teaching me much. The other is my collared sub. They serve different purposes and we all get along just fine.

Alecta -> RE: Is 1 Not enouph (5/7/2012 5:14:12 PM)
I thought slave farms were where "free" subs go to get themselves trained, or work, depending on how you look at it, to "live the slave life" without being actually bound to a Master, with the Owners of the farm being more like bosses or 3rd party trainers than their personal Masters/Mistresses.

kalikshama -> RE: Is 1 Not enouph (5/7/2012 6:42:29 PM)
Like in the fictional Marketplace?

Alecta -> RE: Is 1 Not enouph (5/7/2012 6:54:08 PM)
lol

LadyPact -> RE: Is 1 Not enouph (5/8/2012 4:43:36 AM)
I'm another that is highly doubtful of the slave farm thing. I've never met anybody in real life who used the term. It might come up in erotica or as an enticement for certain advertisements. It depends on the individual if one is enough or not. Having more than one relieves the pressure that one person has to meet all of the other person's wants. If I happen to love activity X and the sub has activity X as a hard limit, having an additional sub without that limit keeps everyone happy. If one is more interested in a service based relationship, having a sub who is more interested in an emotional attachment allows Me to have both kinds of dynamics. I have to disagree with the poster who said that poly was a new fad. The term polyamorous was introduced to the language fairly recently, but the concept of multiple relationships has been out there for quite a long time.

nequam -> RE: Is 1 Not enouph (5/8/2012 4:56:55 AM)
It goes the other way as well you know, some subs have more than one Dominant. i'm a collared slave and Master has given me permission to seek a Mistress to serve on a casual, ongoing basis.

ReMakeYou -> RE: Is 1 Not enouph (5/8/2012 8:32:42 AM)
The big beef with poly nowadays is the bait n' switch element to it. You see a lot of "love is infinite, there's no point in limiting it" used as a sales pitch, that as soon as the third moves in turns into "you must love only us. Equally". Caveat emptor. Otherwise, while I don't doubt that people with willing harems exist, simple logistics make me think these are dreams far more often than realities. The closest you'll see in reality is lots of people with professional and/or online relationships.

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