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Savelle -> RE: Is 1 Not enouph (5/8/2012 8:59:18 AM)
What can I say here except- people are individuals and what each person is seeking may not be ideal for everyone. My kink isn't yours, nor does it have to be. I look at it in this light; I have different groups of friends because I don't expect any to cover all the same interests as myself and I seek different subs for a different experience with each. One sub/slave's hard limit may be the next's deepest desire. I'm flexible in what I want out of any relationship but in all honesty feel that it'd be easier to have a good relationship with two people than trying to have everything in alignment in just a single sub/slave. In the past I've had a woman who loved pain but didn't like bondage and a woman who loved bondage but not pain. You can't help what someone else likes or dislikes but if all parties are aware and can process that there is nothing wrong with who they are- things just are what they are. I love to have a woman helplessly bound, someone who takes a whipping with pleasure; am I less of a Dom not to expect a sub to go outside of her comfort zone to satisfy me? am I any less of one because I had two women each willing to meet my needs but neither able to give me exactly what I wanted? I never felt anything less than at my best- being able to isolate my interests with each sub was difficult because it never created an exact scenario I was looking for, but I had realistic expectations and was always able to get a consensual experience.

LPslittleclip -> RE: Is 1 Not enouph (5/8/2012 9:37:01 AM)
some one once said it is better to have a stable slave than a stable of slaves. i have seen ads for multi slaves in a relationship. it might be a way to learn some aspects of the poly life but other than that it would be up to the Dom/Domme to decide what they want and if it works with the dynamic in place.

SirLangsdorff -> RE: Is 1 Not enouph (5/8/2012 1:26:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Youngmanbdsm Ok I am just looking around and doms and dommes say they have farms of slaves and I'm just thinking one is enouph to love and care for right? It depends on what they need a slave for. if it's sexual, then I would say as many as it takes to get you off. if it's non bedroom control, then I think one would be enough. I read you're profile and if they're live-ins then one should be enough until you decide you want another, if that's the question you're asking. More than one isn't the norm. It's the norm, I think, for sites like this one. Generally speaking.

ResidentSadist -> RE: Is 1 Not enouph (5/8/2012 4:48:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JanahX Has ANYONE actually SEEN or BEEN to a actual SLAVE FARM?? ANYONE????? and please if you have... please explain... im FUCKING dying to know .... You don't see a lot of slave farming because it is a very complex agricultural procedure. You got to read the whole book before you can even think about getting started. [img]http://residentsadist.com/pics/guide.jpg[/img] Once you know what your are doing, you want make sure you get your starters going early in the season. It's best to start them in a green house or your crop of slaves will turn out immature and underdeveloped. We all know what a pain it is to end up with crop of immature slaves. [img]http://residentsadist.com/pics/starters.jpg[/img] When done right, you'll have a crop pf slaves popping up in no time! [img]http://residentsadist.com/pics/farm.jpg[/img]

Hillwilliam -> RE: Is 1 Not enouph (5/8/2012 5:44:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist quote: ORIGINAL: JanahX Has ANYONE actually SEEN or BEEN to a actual SLAVE FARM?? ANYONE????? and please if you have... please explain... im FUCKING dying to know .... You don't see a lot of slave farming because it is a very complex agricultural procedure. You got to read the whole book before you can even think about getting started. [img]http://residentsadist.com/pics/guide.jpg[/img] Once you know what your are doing, you want make sure you get your starters going early in the season. It's best to start them in a green house or your crop of slaves will turn out immature and underdeveloped. We all know what a pain it is to end up with crop of immature slaves. [img]http://residentsadist.com/pics/starters.jpg[/img] When done right, you'll have a crop pf slaves popping up in no time! [img]http://residentsadist.com/pics/farm.jpg[/img] So, what you're saying is that it isn't like growing horseradish where you can just chop one up into little pieces and plant it and have a whole garden full. I might be in trouble.[:o]

RopePlease -> RE: Is 1 Not enouph (5/8/2012 5:44:54 PM)
lmfao! ResidentSadist, I needed that laugh!

ResidentSadist -> RE: Is 1 Not enouph (5/8/2012 7:47:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam quote: ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist quote: ORIGINAL: JanahX Has ANYONE actually SEEN or BEEN to a actual SLAVE FARM?? ANYONE????? and please if you have... please explain... im FUCKING dying to know .... You don't see a lot of slave farming because it is a very complex agricultural procedure. You got to read the whole book before you can even think about getting started. [img]http://residentsadist.com/pics/guide.jpg[/img] Once you know what your are doing, you want make sure you get your starters going early in the season. It's best to start them in a green house or your crop of slaves will turn out immature and underdeveloped. We all know what a pain it is to end up with crop of immature slaves. [img]http://residentsadist.com/pics/starters.jpg[/img] When done right, you'll have a crop pf slaves popping up in no time! [img]http://residentsadist.com/pics/farm.jpg[/img] So, what you're saying is that it isn't like growing horseradish where you can just chop one up into little pieces and plant it and have a whole garden full. I might be in trouble.[:o] I am pretty sure you can't just plant the eyes (or other parts) like a potato and get a new crop.

xssve -> RE: Is 1 Not enouph (5/9/2012 6:33:39 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: girl91 If you look at it from a logical point of view, how many Dom/Dommes have a stable full of slaves, not many. Mabey it's just something they write to make theirself appeal to slaves. Kind of like look at me, I own 10 slaves, so I can own you, lol, I'm not sure. I have Two myself, one on the end of either arm.

xssve -> RE: Is 1 Not enouph (5/9/2012 6:34:46 AM)
But it's cheating if you count every finger - maybe that's a chick thing.

Hisfungrl -> RE: Is 1 Not enouph (5/11/2012 8:18:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: xssve But it's cheating if you count every finger - maybe that's a chick thing. that would get heavy to carry around one on every finger ;) i agree with most of the posts, poly has it's place with people who are interested/comfortable with it. The bait and switch is disconcerting but it just comes back to knowing what you are comfortable with and communicating.

AngelOfSilence -> RE: Is 1 Not enouph (5/11/2012 12:54:46 PM)
Apparently not.

Tyraen -> RE: Is 1 Not enouph (5/13/2012 5:10:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven Take it with a grain of salt. Anyone using the term "farm" for their subs is most likely a wanker. Many of the couples looking for a third will never find one. One is indeed enough for monogamous people. Not everyone is monogamous. well said.

earthycouple -> RE: Is 1 Not enouph (5/13/2012 10:10:04 PM)
My husband is vanilla and supportive. He is not enough. One other is though, when he's nearly the whole package. I can't live with 33%. I need 97% at least....when I find that, when I have that, my poly nature subdues. One can indeed, be enough.

LadyPact -> RE: Is 1 Not enouph (5/13/2012 11:19:11 PM)
Welcome back, Donna.

coachsbabygirl -> RE: Is 1 Not enouph (11/14/2014 4:21:43 PM)
Since we r talking about more than one slave, I have asked my Master, because I am a new slave, if he has more than one. We live in different cities and he makes me feel most of the time that I am the only one. I asked him today if I was sharing him and he said, "do not a ask me these kind of questions." Why did I get in trouble and why won't he answer me? I'm just trying to learn to be a better slave is all

Moderator3 -> RE: Is 1 Not enouph (11/14/2014 4:34:00 PM)
Please start a new topic for threads older than a year. You can always link back to an older thread if you would like to discuss something on the thread.

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