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ORIGINAL: Twenty9male

I don't see it as stupid at all.

I would find it immoral for a man to give money to a woman who is with another man, you may see that as abandoning kids but I would see it differently.

I'm sure any man still loved his kids and finds it hard to not have them with him, do you have any idea how it feels for a man to see someone else bring up his children?

If your gonna insist on replying to every post I make, try and be a bit more respectful in future.

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ORIGINAL: Lockit


So basically you are blaming divorce and child custody... however it works on women that divorce and go live with other men? Shall we repeat history where a woman was ruled by her husband and couldn't be free unless she risked everything? Women could rarely find employment. Women lost the children to men when a divorce was allowed. Some men to get rid of their wife would put her in a sanitarium. So now things have changed and while there is still an evolution in all of this... women often cannot make the same pay as a man doing the same job. Many divorced women would love it if daddy was involved and don't have a spouse, raising the kids in haphazardness situations, where laws have had to be created so that men did support their children at a time when men could get shared custody.

As to do I know how a man feels watching his children be raised by another man... I stated that my first cause was fathers rights. I married a man with four children back in the seventies. I cannot say exactly how he felt as I wasn't him, but I can sure tell you I had his back, but the children came first above all else. I know what we went through very well. I also know what I went through... more importantly what my children went through when their father decided to play the women and booze at their risk and then abandon them because I left him to protect us all. I didn't get child support for fourteen years and was mostly alone in raising those kids. I also know custody battles these days... where the one with the children has to ask permission from the state to move for a better position in which to support those children even if the father/mother isn't paying child support or visiting the children.

Could things be better? Of course they could, but to blame women for the ills of all of this... history, divorce, custody and all... shows you are not trying to see in fairness and what is best for children. Work for social change may have a motivator in some anger, but to try to change anything in anger is ineffective as it causes 'sides' and a 'battle'. In this case... real love for the children could create compromise and a working out solutions. Had people done that from the start... we wouldn't need all these lawyers and laws to protect the children from those that claim to love them, fighting for their rights. That is the real shame or atrocity in all of this. What happens to the children.

< Message edited by Lockit -- 5/18/2012 6:57:07 AM >

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I'm sure any man still loved his kids and finds it hard to not have them with him, do you have any idea how it feels for a man to see someone else bring up his children?

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... like multiple orgasms???

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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

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I'm sure any man still loved his kids and finds it hard to not have them with him, do you have any idea how it feels for a man to see someone else bring up his children?

Why didn't this man seek full or joint custody? There's several male posters here who have one or the other.

I have less than no sympathy for a "man" who whines that he does not see his kids enough who does not avail himself of all the measures available to him under the law to get joint or full custody. Don't waste your breath with "She won't let me see them" - what has the court told you? Haven't bothered? Hmph.

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ORIGINAL: Marc2b

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... like multiple orgasms???

Not true. Men can have multiple orgasms. Believe me, I know.

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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

How many are denied custody due to their gender vs don't have custody because they haven't made the effort?

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

Women are taking over the world. They've formed a secret society of the most powerful and influential women of the world and manipulating the World Order, just waiting for the right moment to strike. The society first though has to weaken the male population so they will be subservient and be our slaves.

Watch your back. We're always watching you.

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ORIGINAL: Lucylastic

Im going to go with TJ, I wouldnt be a man for all themoney in the world.
Just for the multiple orgasms n squirting ones too. and the boobage.

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ORIGINAL: MileHighM

Preface: I don't give a fuck about the rest of the discussion just the custody part----

Men do get fucked.
Case 1: Friend 29 with 3yo daughter, been raising her her whole life.. why? stripper momma (who did meth during her pregnancy by the way) has been in and out of jail constantly for the past three years. He filed for full custody, why, cause he loves his daughter. Mom didn't even contest, yet what did he get 80% custody!!!!!!! What shit is that! the court is biased that's why!

Case2: Mom leaves son with grand parents all day, son gets raped by cousin who is also with grand parents. Dad petitions for Full custody until mom can find better daycare arrangements.... then here comes the court...fuck you dad, mom keeps her 50% custody, you owe more child support and oh yeah we aren't even looking into the rape cause mom denies it. 3 months later son is still at grand parents, and in therapy, and so is dad....

I still think moms should have a preference for custody, but come on, a preference, not a right! why? cause a good dad is better than a bad mom

What a fucking country..

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as far as a man's dick goes.. just one word... replaceable..

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ORIGINAL: Karmastic

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ORIGINAL: Lucylastic

Im going to go with TJ, I wouldnt be a man for all themoney in the world.
Just for the multiple orgasms n squirting ones too. and the boobage.

i get how any person (man or woman) wouldn't want to be the other sex because they like being what they are. i agree totally. i feel bad for Ts who are in the wrong body.

re multiple O's - men can have them too. two isn't unusual over a few minutes if i'm really excited with her and like my handiwork.

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ORIGINAL: Karmastic

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as far as a man's dick goes.. just one word... replaceable..

totally agree. i just received my new one over the internet (cheaper in Canada).

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

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ORIGINAL: Karmastic

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as far as a man's dick goes.. just one word... replaceable..

totally agree. i just received my new one over the internet (cheaper in Canada).

I dropped Biology at age fifteen, but from what I remember of it, TJ shouldn't need to replace her man's dick because she shouldn't have one in the first place. Still, things may be different your side of the pond, with that pioneering spirit I hear so much about, and all.

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ORIGINAL: MileHighM

Preface: I don't give a fuck about the rest of the discussion just the custody part----

Men do get fucked.
Case 1: Friend 29 with 3yo daughter, been raising her her whole life.. why? stripper momma (who did meth during her pregnancy by the way) has been in and out of jail constantly for the past three years. He filed for full custody, why, cause he loves his daughter. Mom didn't even contest, yet what did he get 80% custody!!!!!!! What shit is that! the court is biased that's why!

Case2: Mom leaves son with grand parents all day, son gets raped by cousin who is also with grand parents. Dad petitions for Full custody until mom can find better daycare arrangements.... then here comes the court...fuck you dad, mom keeps her 50% custody, you owe more child support and oh yeah we aren't even looking into the rape cause mom denies it. 3 months later son is still at grand parents, and in therapy, and so is dad....

I still think moms should have a preference for custody, but come on, a preference, not a right! why? cause a good dad is better than a bad mom

What a fucking country..

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ORIGINAL: MileHighM

Preface: I don't give a fuck about the rest of the discussion just the custody part----

Men do get fucked.
Case 1: Friend 29 with 3yo daughter, been raising her her whole life.. why? stripper momma (who did meth during her pregnancy by the way) has been in and out of jail constantly for the past three years. He filed for full custody, why, cause he loves his daughter. Mom didn't even contest, yet what did he get 80% custody!!!!!!! What shit is that! the court is biased that's why!

Case2: Mom leaves son with grand parents all day, son gets raped by cousin who is also with grand parents. Dad petitions for Full custody until mom can find better daycare arrangements.... then here comes the court...fuck you dad, mom keeps her 50% custody, you owe more child support and oh yeah we aren't even looking into the rape cause mom denies it. 3 months later son is still at grand parents, and in therapy, and so is dad....

I still think moms should have a preference for custody, but come on, a preference, not a right! why? cause a good dad is better than a bad mom

What a fucking country..

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ORIGINAL: Twenty9male

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