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RE: How do you make 'snap judgements' online - 5/25/2012 4:27:11 PM

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From the sounds of it she values modesty...

I try and avoid 'snap judgements' where I can, but then it's rare I'm approached lol

Even in person it's rare you can judge people accurately straight off - some are shy, others try to hard before relaxing... Just my experience

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RE: How do you make 'snap judgements' online - 5/25/2012 6:32:29 PM

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How do you make 'snap judgements' online

When I ignore the voices that tell me what snap judgements to make, they get very angry and it never, ever, ends well.

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RE: How do you make 'snap judgements' online - 5/26/2012 10:53:32 AM

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When I ignore the voices that tell me what snap judgements to make, they get very angry and it never, ever, ends well.

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RE: How do you make 'snap judgements' online - 5/26/2012 10:57:12 AM

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Hey, OP, here's how you do this.

Ask any of the people on this thread if I'm Dommely enough for them.

When you can do that, you've crossed the bar.

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RE: How do you make 'snap judgements' online - 5/28/2012 6:12:33 PM

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Face to face.

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RE: How do you make 'snap judgements' online - 5/29/2012 11:33:38 AM

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Just tell her you have a train set transformer, if she turns you down, she wasn't worth it anyway. Just sayin..

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RE: How do you make 'snap judgements' online - 5/29/2012 12:02:59 PM

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Or - now i'm just throwing this out here - tie yourself up and ask her if she'd like to UNTIE you, or - not? while she has you at her mercy, is there anything she'd like to do?

Just make sure you have a sharp knife to hand for when she steals your wallet, sprays you with deoderent, slashes your 'hot chicks of WWE poster' and walks out, leaving you stuck there.

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RE: How do you make 'snap judgements' online - 5/29/2012 5:33:34 PM

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If that poster has Kelly Kelly on it from wrestling, and she rips it up, you need to Stone Cold Stun her.

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