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LadyConstanze -> RE: 24 Hours as a Fake Domme (6/14/2012 1:30:09 PM)

Ah Lockit, I guess you have to ask him "How would you like me to dominate you today, Sir" - I rest my case




Lockit -> RE: 24 Hours as a Fake Domme (6/14/2012 1:30:56 PM)


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ORIGINAL: dink22


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ORIGINAL: Lockit

Hummmmm... dink and I are in the same area. dink and I are the same age. dink and I haven't spoken in the last six months if ever. Hummm... I don't ask for money. I wonder what in the world is wrong with a lifestyle domina, close by, that doesn't ask for money? hehehe

dink? Ya there? I am here. Now's your chance to say what's wrong with me and why if you want the real stuff... what I offer... you don't contact me.

Batter up!


You know damn well what the issue is. I practically offered you my submission on a silver platter at least twice. I even said I would support you through your health issues. No response.

I'm done with that shit.



No response? Did you check my journal for updates on what I was doing, as I do miss a lot of email during times of busyness. I don't remember any contact... but believe me, a serious man, close to me... would get my attention. I'm a hunter like that... not in need or have to have it so I will take anything... but good man meat... with a whole package... yeah, I am there.




dink22 -> RE: 24 Hours as a Fake Domme (6/14/2012 1:32:08 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze


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ORIGINAL: dink22


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ORIGINAL: TNDommeK

Yea cause there is no such thing as greedy submissive males who only want the Domme to do what they want and mask behind the old saying"it's all about you Goddess". Or the males who swear they are submissive until the Domme does something they don't like, then it's all of a sudden "I wanna take my ball and go home" syndrome.


Submissive males don't ask for MONEY.

Submissive males don't ask for MONEY.

Submissive males don't ask for MONEY.

What they're asking for may seem selfish to you, but it's GENUINE. Understand? GENUINE. And you can always say no. And you probably do.

It's not like they'd be willing to ACT submissive. It's not like they're exploiting anyones liability/problem. And I guess they shouldn't tell you what they like? I guess they should make like they like something they don't like? WTF kind of dishonest relationship is that?





So you are asking to have your kinks fulfilled for free, how GENUINE... And not like you would ever top from the bottom and want things for FREE...

You know what, I wouldn't say no, I would say HELL NO because I wouldn't want a dishonest creep pretending to be submissive and being gung ho. What kind of a dishonest person are you? You want somebody to spend their time and effort on you, nothing back apart the "pleasure of being your fetish delivery system", hey, if that is not dishonest, selfish and deluded, I really don't know. Had much luck in your search? I somehow doubt it... Ahhh I guess I am not really dominant, but I just don't feel like saying "And how may I dominate you today?"


Uh, yeah. I want to be dominated for "free." When my mother and father had sex, I really don't think she charged money. You make like it's laughably outrageous for a man to want to have sex with a woman "for free."

Thanks for illustrating my point. And frankly, if that's your attitude, you'd never get the chance to say, "hell no."




PeonForHer -> RE: 24 Hours as a Fake Domme (6/14/2012 1:35:54 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

FR

*Sigh*. If only all of us involved in D/s could have a bit more understanding about just where our self-centredness stops and our other-centredness starts.

It is *OK* to be selfish to some degree.


Darling? You're right, but really, so not what we're talking about here.


Well then, maybe we should be. I mean, jeez, it'd be good to see this old, old contention move on, somehow . . . . [:(]




LadyHibiscus -> RE: 24 Hours as a Fake Domme (6/14/2012 1:37:10 PM)

Just get me a coffe and hush, lovey.[;)]




PeonForHer -> RE: 24 Hours as a Fake Domme (6/14/2012 1:40:50 PM)

Heh. In your dreams. [;)]




OttersSwim -> RE: 24 Hours as a Fake Domme (6/14/2012 1:41:25 PM)

Oh look, another whiny sockpuppet blowing his same old sad tune...must be Thursday... [8|]




MissImmortalPain -> RE: 24 Hours as a Fake Domme (6/14/2012 1:51:37 PM)

fast reply-

Some subs do ask for money. Do they say things like "I'll want your money before you hit me" not often....but...I have bailed more than one sub out of jail. Helped more than one pay rent if it was behind. Made a couple car payments as well as payments for college. I have bought them gifts on things like birthdays but also for no reason other than I can and they will take them. They are also often a lot more emotionaly manipulative about getting what they want then people that pay pros are. I think if I really wanted to hurt someone and couldn't find someone that would just let me I would be happy to deal with one I had to pay rather than one that wants to use love, sex, guilt, etc. against me.Peronal opinion here but anyone that can't figure out that everyone does everything because they want something really should get out of all of this, become a hermit, and just deal with the fact that people (as a whole) suck.

Or we could just all keep holding hands and singing about how bitchs want bucks and boys just want to get their dicks wet. ~la, la, la, la, (is there a singing emoticon) la, la, la~




PeonForHer -> RE: 24 Hours as a Fake Domme (6/14/2012 2:02:08 PM)


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ORIGINAL: MissImmortalPain
Or we could just all keep holding hands and singing about how bitchs want bucks and boys just want to get their dicks wet. ~la, la, la, la, (is there a singing emoticon) la, la, la~


I'm toying with asking you if I can borrow that and use it as a sig line. [;)]




MissImmortalPain -> RE: 24 Hours as a Fake Domme (6/14/2012 2:10:06 PM)

Take it if you want it, peon. Don't worry ...you are to far away for me to ask you to "pay" for it. So, at least for the moment, you are safe.




PeonForHer -> RE: 24 Hours as a Fake Domme (6/14/2012 3:21:25 PM)


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ORIGINAL: MissImmortalPain

Take it if you want it, peon. Don't worry ...you are to far away for me to ask you to "pay" for it. So, at least for the moment, you are safe.


Good. You should be offering it to me out of love alone.[;)]

You know, seriously - not addressing you personally, MIP - I do think people should do the philosophising they need to do, if they're going to enter into D/s in any form. Nothing we've inherited was designed for the idea of giving away power willingly, nor taking it from someone who's offering it. Maybe that's just a long-winded way of saying: you don't get to do D/s and carry on being lazy in the brain.




MissKittyDeVine -> RE: 24 Hours as a Fake Domme (6/14/2012 3:27:43 PM)

I´ve suddenly remembered the Hide function. In ya go dick, oops I mean dink. Phew. Now I don´t accidentally have to read any of his tedious, prejudiced, ignorant, whiny rants.

Please ...

NOBODY QUOTE HIM!!!




TNDommeK -> RE: 24 Hours as a Fake Domme (6/14/2012 3:34:33 PM)

I think My signature quote fits best here.

He truly is a tool who obviously doesn't understand the PEOPLE ARE DIFFERENT. And even when you try to explain that, he basically covers his ears with the La La La song and dance.

As I said, he is making so many friends. Look at this thread where he is just having lovely convo with everyone: http://www.collarchat.com/m_4137964/mpage_3/key_/tm.htm#4143749




MissImmortalPain -> RE: 24 Hours as a Fake Domme (6/14/2012 4:19:48 PM)

Love? What is this love you speak of? I have never had your dick in me or my "dick" in you. I have never had you hand feed me chocolates while I talk to some other guy about how wonderful he is. Heck, I haven't even got to throw snowballs at your naked butt while you shovel snow, in Kansas, in December. Love...pfft...let me know when I'll get to do those things to you and we might talk about love. [:D]

These threads always kill me because I have said it before and I will just keep saying it until some people get it.....NO ONE DOES ANYTHING FOR FREE.




PeonForHer -> RE: 24 Hours as a Fake Domme (6/14/2012 4:37:05 PM)


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ORIGINAL: MissImmortalPain

These threads always kill me because I have said it before and I will just keep saying it until some people get it.....NO ONE DOES ANYTHING FOR FREE.


Quite right. I've just read your post: that'll be 2p, please.




MissImmortalPain -> RE: 24 Hours as a Fake Domme (6/14/2012 4:44:24 PM)

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

that'll be 2p, please.



Oh lord, you want me to pay you in "foreign" money now. I've paid some pretty people to do some not so pretty things over the years but you just found my [sm=hardlimit.gif]




PeonForHer -> RE: 24 Hours as a Fake Domme (6/14/2012 5:13:42 PM)

Awww, MIP,

You know, your avatar makes me want to kiss you on the forehead?




MissImmortalPain -> RE: 24 Hours as a Fake Domme (6/14/2012 5:53:09 PM)

Of course you do. That is the point of that picture. You wouldn't after all want to kiss someone on the forehead if they had a picture that made them look like the sort that might pop you in the nuts if you did....would you.

I have found over the years that men may say they want to play with a lady who looks cold hearted, mean, evil, but they are less likely to see whats coming from someone that looks like a doll.

Did I ever tell you I'm into mental torture?




LadyHibiscus -> RE: 24 Hours as a Fake Domme (6/14/2012 7:58:02 PM)

Oh dear heaven I hate being kissed on the forehead!

And I keep the sugary sweetness on the outside for a reason.




SadisticMs2 -> RE: 24 Hours as a Fake Domme (6/15/2012 5:41:35 AM)


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ORIGINAL: dink22


Uh, yeah. I want to be dominated for "free." When my mother and father had sex, I really don't think she charged money. You make like it's laughably outrageous for a man to want to have sex with a woman "for free."




That depends. Were your mother and father in a relationship where they mutually invested in each other and their future together as a couple, were there for each other, supported each other........ or was your father some random guy who called your mom up when he wanted a booty call then disappeared afterwards?

Most "sub men" want the booty call and to run back to their "real lives" - so yes. They want the sex and benefits for free, without the personal investment.

Very few will actually take the time and effort to establish that mutual supporting relationship.





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