BeautyDebased
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From: My Masters Feet
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The display of ownership and being owned is where a lot of passion lies for me. Not displaying in public, although I am human and guilty of ego. My trophy on leash is a nice ego boost. But that isn’t the root of the display to me. It is the display, the proof, the sacrifice you show each other.
Well it's obvious you get it, what it means, the bond, the love, sacrifice and that it goes both ways, I was lucky enough to find a Master who feels similar to you do, of course we vary but we understand it's not all about beatings and that it is certainly a two way road, were getting married in October this year, I am his slave but I am many things too, partner, closest friend, fiance, he has and always will put me before all others as I will always for him.
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My family loves me unconditionally. They don't have to agree or approve of my morals or values. But they will help me do anything that doesn't violate the law of self survival if I asked. In an extreme example that involves violating the law; If my brother called and needed help to bury the body, my answer would not depend on whether it was self defense, whether I morally approved of his killing them or whether burying bodies was in my comfort zone. It would depend on his plan and whether I thought helping would jeopardize my survival and freedom. I don’t have the right to question why he asked, to judge whether he should have asked someone else. My brother is asking me what I will give him, what I will sacrifice for him. My answer should be founded on the same, no other factors count. I won’t think he doesn’t respect my limits by asking. I will think he trusts me to share this, expose himself and make himself vulnerable to me like that.
This example is a far stretch from the trust required to have a menege a tois with your partner when that is out of your comfort zone. But the logic behind it, the choices to go out of your comfort zone for family, for someone you love is the same. When confessing a dark desire or need, you become vulnerable, subject to judgment by someone you care about and respect . . . even if it doesn't require an illegal act or shovel to fulfill their request.
Difficult one, thankfully our morals are basically on par, we have certain things neither of us would do, the biggest one is anything to do with children, neither of us would have an issue burying a pedophile ;). I can't say how I'd react for certain if some other kind of situation arose, I do know that my loyalty is 100% with him, he is everything to me and no-one comes before him, that will never change, so while I doubt a situation would come up where I had to make such a call such as burying bodies, I really don't know, he's not the kind of person to go out killing people anyway so that helps, if someone broke into our house then things may get very ugly but again, unlikely to happen...or I hope so.
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For me, ownership parallels many family value dynamics. My girl (slave, partner, property) is my family. She needs to be able to put up the same type of unconditional family love. For me, negotiating, imposing your morals, your level of comfort by limiting what you will do with your partner just doesn't scream "I love you unconditionally and will prove it".
I especially love this, its a refreshing and beautiful change to see a Master who can proudly say his slave is also his partner and also loved unconditionally as part of his family, it is the same for me, I'm very much a part of my Masters family, I go to all the special occasions, am very good friends with his sisters who are helping with the wedding, plus much more. This post actually shocked me after having read so many poor excuses for masters and their profiles, ie, I won't ever love my slave or see it as a girlfriend, it will be locked away when not in use, that's a psychopaths fantasy however in the real world a Master and slave are still a couple, still partners unless of course it is just casual play. Yes I am very well aware I am his slave but I am also very aware we both sacrifice for one another, we both love and care for each other and we never put someone else first.
Which is why I despise those posts where people ask how they should punish their slave, that's a private relationship and if they can't sort it out like two adults without involving strangers something is seriously wrong, however I find relationships like that don't last long anyway, the other example is the slave who has all these photo's of other men fucking her in her profile and a post saying "this slave was bad and any Masters or Mistresses may contact it's owner to discuss how it should be punished" it.....if someone called me an it and in a disrespectful way, slave or not the response would not be nice, thankfully my Master and I are very similar in how we think in almost every way, we took a while to have me collared but we also feel it's for life or nothing so we had to be 100% sure and I have to say, it truly is only getting better all the time.
mittens.
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-Give not that which is holy unto the dogs, neither cast ye your pearls before swine, lest they trample them under their feet, and turn again and rend you-
MAT 7:6.
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