LadyConstanze
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Stella, your situation is unique, and I can tell you if you would have applied while we were running the company, I wouldn't have had the slightest problem, I didn't have the slightest problem with the welfare moms, I was actually trying to help them as I thought they don't want to be welfare moms. As for the hairdresser (and the joiner), they are willing to pay somebody for doing a job, it might not be a great career choice, manual labour and all that, but it's WORK, same as the coffee shops, same as the cleaning, same as dog walking. The hairdresser said she spent weeks training somebody, and training somebody takes away from the time she can work in the beginning, she needs help desperately, she's willing to pay wayyyy above minimum wage for answering the phone and sweeping up, if a person shows they are reliable and serious, she will consider training, but to get to the training she wants a bit of commitment first, and she doesn't want it for free. Seriously, reading how hard you tried to find a job, I would actually expect you to be a bit pissed off with people who just don't want to do jobs and ruin it for everybody else. When it comes to prejudices, trust me, I had my fair share of them in the UK, I dare say my English is as fluent as that of any English native speaker, yet since I don't have a British passport, trust me, I heard it all... My CV is pretty impressive, guess what, I'm not working for an English company, I'm technically German as I hold a German passport, mind you the majority of my time I didn't live in Germany, my parents are Swedish and Italian, German blood - maybe a blood transfusion somewhere down the line? Yet I spent a lot of my own money going to interviews where they didn't really want me, but just wanted to see a German as they heard they are all brusque. Think that pissed me off? Betcha... Out of 3 continents and roughly 10 different countries, the UK is the most racist place I've encountered, before I moved to the North, I lived in London - hardly ever encountered racism there, you leave London and it hits you in the face, and yes, mostly by people who wear trackies. I don't have a particular accent, for most Northerners I sound "posh", when I mention that I'm a foreigner, hell breaks lose, I can take my pick of stealing their jobs (they're welcome to the job, they only need to several advanced degrees, international work experience, a few languages and they can have it - would actually help if they would have worked before) or I am a "benefit scrounger" - oddly enough never a Penny, but hey, I'm not British, must have come over for benefits. Actually the only reason why I came over was that I can work from about anywhere with internet access, my other half is British, chances of him working on the continent were quite slim with only English and Welsh as languages. After living in big cities like Melbourne, NYC, Munich, Cologne, Vienna, Milan, Paris, Zurich, London, etc. I really wasn't too keen to live in a rather small place in Cheshire, mainly populated by footballers. My company transferred me, I made the mistake of sinking my savings into a house here, after the company closed down, I freelanced for a while, built up the web based company which I sold after a while (might have sold a lot later and for more money if it wouldn't have been for the staff problems - yup, creating work, just a shame that nobody wanted to work apart from the students), the money I earn doesn't come from UK companies, yet I am paying tax in this country, quite a chunk, yet I am more often than not being treated like a 3rd class citizen, I'm pretty sure you're familiar with it, though I doubt it's quite that bad in London, as you said, far more metropolitan than the rest of the country. I can't tell you how much I want to puke if I hear a bunch of drunk chavs going on about the Polish taking their work and benefits, are they talking about the people who are actually willing to show up for work and do a day of work? Which is more than those people are willing to do. Yes, the person who does hire makes the call, but if I want a job and earn money, it might be an idea to not show up in the most unsuitable attire. If I had no other choice, yes I would do a cleaning job, and I would figure out that fake nails with bling aren't what somebody expects to see when it comes to a house cleaner. It's not rocket science that if you go to an interview, you don't look like you're dressed up for a night of clubbing. I'm a huge fan of leggings and leisure clothes, I don't show up for meetings in them. I understand the cards were stacked against you, but I doubt you showed up tangoed to a more fluorescent shade of tangerine with enough makeup to keep KISS in business for years, nails at a length and curve which makes it impossible to actually do any work and flashing too much bare skin... As I said, I'm perfectly aware that there aren't enough jobs around, but as long as the jobs that are around aren't even filled because they don't offer "brilliant careers", I'm a bit baffled, I guess we should offer CEO positions to people without any credentials just because they want brilliant career chances and big earnings just to get out of bed.... The reason why I might not be all that sympathetic is simply because I had to work my way through university, and that included quite a few jobs that weren't great (late night shift at MaccyD just one of the examples), they weren't fulfilling or great fun, but they paid the bills. Now if somebody wants kids, cool, down with that, but why should I pay for their upkeep and the upkeep of their offspring, just so that single mom can whelp every 2 years to avoid having to work?
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