Kana
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ORIGINAL: chatterbox24 quote:
ORIGINAL: Kana quote:
REALLY YAH REALLY! lol. Oh come on there are those doms like that. People write about it, talk about it. Of course there are...but there are also lots of terrific ones (You know, just like there are lunatic slaves and keepers). If a person consistently keeps ending up with the former rather than the latter, I'd suggest that they look at the common denominator in all the relationships (Hint-it's themselves) and wonder of their picker was broken. Get in one abusive relationship-shame on the abuser. Get in two, might be a coincidence or real bad luck. Get in three, its time to look in the mirror and ask some hard questions of oneself. I hear about the good ones too, and Im sincerely happy for the fortunate. ANd I do agree, you ask for it you get it, even if its subconsciously and one is unaware of what they were attracting. But that's not what I said. This is playing the victim card and abstaining from the personal responsibility inherent in selecting a partner. It's not about who she is attracting. It's about who she is picking out of the pile and that, the act of choosing, is absolutely on her. Ya now, same as it's on me to choose a slave who is compatible with me, my wants/needs/desires/values/morals/tastes
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