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RE: Domming. Mastering without love - 6/14/2012 11:29:30 AM

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I also require cake. Not chocolate cake, either.

Yes, I know that I am demanding.

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RE: Domming. Mastering without love - 6/14/2012 11:37:10 AM

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I also just thought of another thing that helps avoid problems long term.

The occasional, hot bloody ribeye steak is absolutely required.

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RE: Domming. Mastering without love - 6/14/2012 11:45:43 AM

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I also just thought of another thing that helps avoid problems long term.

The occasional, hot bloody ribeye steak is absolutely required.

Ahhh the way to My heart.

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RE: Domming. Mastering without love - 6/14/2012 11:46:17 AM

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I also require cake. Not chocolate cake, either.

Yes, I know that I am demanding.

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RE: Domming. Mastering without love - 6/14/2012 12:03:03 PM

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I brings you carrot cake and you no kills me right?

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RE: Domming. Mastering without love - 6/15/2012 10:34:29 AM

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My coworkers adored my carrot cake and molten lava cakes!

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RE: Domming. Mastering without love - 6/15/2012 10:48:39 AM

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my .02, just trying to be helpful here... "... be careful not to use "upmost" (position) when you mean "utmost" (degree), and if you should decide that "upmost" is the word you actually need, you should probably consider substituting the more commonly used "uppermost."

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RE: Domming. Mastering without love - 6/15/2012 10:53:28 AM

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This:

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Personally..........I don't care what anyone else does. Even my own shit is going to be varied depending on the person/s involved.

I can dominate anyone willing to be dominated. I don't even have to like them or give a damn about them. I can play with someone I don't love, but I have to find them attractive and very likable. I can love a person and not want to dominate, or play with, them. I can have sex with a person and not be in love with them, want to dominate them, or want to play with them. I won't invite a person to my home, into my private space, unless I trust them. If I cannot trust you, I won't play with you or have sex with you, but I can care about you and I might want to dominate you.

Then again, I may think you are a ditzy head case and wouldn't give you the time of day required to acknowledge your existence.

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RE: Domming. Mastering without love - 6/15/2012 10:56:12 AM

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Alright. My uppermost position is I like having my carrot cake and eating it too, lol. AND chocolate comes in at an utmost second.

That was certainly helpful.

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RE: Domming. Mastering without love - 6/15/2012 11:00:35 AM

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Woot! My good deed for the day is done! And look, it's not even noon here yet.

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RE: Domming. Mastering without love - 6/15/2012 11:06:29 AM

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I really dont know if i used it in the right context at all , but it sounded good. hahahahahahaha

THanks for the laugh, im out to work I go.

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RE: Domming. Mastering without love - 6/18/2012 2:32:13 PM

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I did not have any control over whether I loved her or not. I can walk anytime, I know. I certainly did not plan on loving the woman. It does not matter if she is not in love with me. I will still see her. I cannot stop caring and even worrying about her. I am never going to seek to have a romantic relationship with her. But, I might as well face it I'm loving her.

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RE: Domming. Mastering without love - 6/18/2012 3:07:38 PM

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my Owner loves me... personally for ME an M/s or O/p relationship where I am not6 loved is not right..

So yes some dynamics do not involve love, fair play to them

mine does

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RE: Domming. Mastering without love - 6/19/2012 2:11:14 AM

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I once tried Zumba, discovered it fuckin killed my knees. Why would I try it again?

Oh, you should definitely try low-impact Zumba.

(just sayin)

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RE: Domming. Mastering without love - 6/19/2012 2:14:50 AM

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Well, oddly enough, I was looking in the mirror the other day and it occurred to me...."Lookie.....you are looking unbelievably FINE!!!!!" and I asked myself ("self" I said....) "what could it possibly be, causing such a thing?"

It came to me: Experience.

Not : Alcohol ?

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RE: Domming. Mastering without love - 6/19/2012 3:13:32 PM

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Miss chatterbox,

I don't love my Dom nor does he love me. We respect one another, there is mutal care for one another meaning if one of us were hurt, stressed, having some sort of life issues we'd be there for each other BUT the 'l' word has never been spoke between us.

I will have to say I am the biggest one who pushes for the loveless relationship.

Although I see your point, let me also say this---there are plenty of men out there that proclaim their undying love for a slave and yet are still 'using' her under the guise of being a good Dom.

Is it not better to say, there are dumb asses who abuse the title Master and there are those who fall victim to these assholes than to blame it on a loveless relationship?

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