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Moonlightmaddnes -> RE: -=Do you fuck the crazy ones?=- (6/11/2012 9:07:48 PM)

Well there is a fun kind of crazy then there is the back away slowly they are psycho and will kill you in your sleep type of crazy.



kitkat105 -> RE: -=Do you fuck the crazy ones?=- (6/11/2012 9:10:18 PM)

Definitely. That was ex though and he was vanilla.

We're all a bit crazy here. But definitely the fun crazy. [;)]



Moonlightmaddnes -> RE: -=Do you fuck the crazy ones?=- (6/11/2012 9:16:22 PM)

ya the only times I have ever been scared by ex's is from vanilla relationships. Dear gawd the drama. We went on two freaking dates and you would think I ended a 10 year relationship. I had stalking and everything. WOW.



TNDommeK -> RE: -=Do you fuck the crazy ones?=- (6/11/2012 9:24:48 PM)

~FR~

I would say yes. I need someone who matches My craziness. So for 14yrs (next month) we have been complimenting each others craziness. I think I would get board if he was normal, as would he.



Pyramus -> RE: -=Do you fuck the crazy ones?=- (6/11/2012 10:50:46 PM)

Crazy is great in the boudoir ... but unpredictable in real life.



ResidentSadist -> RE: -=Do you fuck the crazy ones?=- (6/11/2012 10:57:39 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Endivius
I'd take a "crazy" one over a "normal one" any day of the week and twice on sunday. If I wanted to be normal I'd stop wearing cargo pants and boots.

I wear cargo pants and big black boots . . . is that a sign I may be a bit wild and crazy?

quote:

ORIGINAL: kalikshama
....... I think Mickey was a pathological liar who did Munchausen by Proxy.........

I had one with Münchausen syndrome, there was an entire chapter in a psych book about her case. She was awesome though. She was pretty enough to have modeled for a girly mag, was smart enough to be a professional writer and had toured Russia as a speaker. Cute as hell, smart as a whip, but a little bit off center. We were together for several years and had an epic relationship. It was a blast.

Thanks to the lack of sanity in some of my previous partners, I honestly didn’t have many (if any) unfulfilled fantasies when I met her 12 years ago. But she was truly very smart or too crazy to know my life long fantasy of sleeping with the Radio City Rockette’s, individually and collectively, was beyond reach. She worked to make it a viable option because she wanted to fulfill my fantasies like I fulfilled hers. Yes, we both tossed sensibility out the window (morals and perspectives) to satisfy each other. It was our pact of mutual gratification. She discovered that for a donation (24k) she could become an honorary Rockette. So for $24,000 I could have fucked a Rockette. She also vowed to seduce as many of them as she could and bring them into our bed. What a sweetheart eh?

I was wealthy at the time and it was a viable option. I had to choose between spending 24k and sending her to NYC to hunt down and seduce some Rockettes or keeping her and spending my money enjoying our time together. The fantasy became tangible with a price higher than I wanted to pay and she was more awesome than any Rockette or group thereof. I wouldn’t trade my time with her for that, so my desire for the Rockette’s faded with my choice to invest my time and money enjoying life with her instead. She was officially crazy, diagnosed and all, but I really loved her. Perhaps I was bit crazy myself?

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ORIGINAL: LanceHughes
I fucked the crazy ones couple of three times. Problem is, between that hot, hot sex, they exhaust me. Not a result of that sex, just what they do out of bed. The lies, theft, medical and emotional problems.... Longest? I think it was about three months. He wanted me to be more Domly and straighten him out. Yeah, like that'd get him off the drugs - last I heard - 3 felonies for selling and he's in jail for good. A different one exhausted me in about 3 weeks.... literally kicked him to the curb. DAMN! He was some of the best sex I ever had.... There were others.

Again? Probably NOT..... I am looking for the last "one"... the one that I can spend the rest of my life with. If I were younger? Sure. Bring 'em on.... I guess I feel I've learned all the lessons to be learned. . . . . Right! LOL!

ETA: One of the main lessons? You can't fix crazy. Enjoy and get out of the way! Oh, wait. ResidentSadist mentioned a cage... LOL!

It has been 3 years or so since I have had crazy. There was a girl still discovering herself . . . either a lesbian Domme or a bisexual submissive. She was smart as hell and sexy as all get out. We met at a turbulent time in her life or it may have lasted longer. Then there was the stereotypical 18 yo stripper after that.

I feel a ‘turn’ coming in the near future and would not be surprised to find I have the energy for some crazy in my life this summer. Perhaps it's time to dust off that cage and assemble it. It's been in the garage for a year now.

As far as fixing crazy, well, getting crazy under control so that the out of the bedroom behavior is less exhausting, there was and expression in my house, "it's nothing 3 weeks in a cage won't fix".

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus
On a more serious note, the quality of unhingedness has to complement my own.

Nicely put. Reflects my feelings, you describe it well.





Winterapple -> RE: -=Do you fuck the crazy ones?=- (6/11/2012 11:11:32 PM)

My observation is that most men love a crazy bitch.
Unstable must give off an increible sex vibe
and men will put up with a lot if the sex is incredible.

I try to be with people who have fewer problems
and are less crazy than me. This isn't much of a
challenge. But I appreciate a wild streak in a man.

I was once involved with someone who was wild
and unstable. He was amazing. Incredible.
The most exciting man I've ever met.
But because of the way it played and how
it ended up, I'll never get on that roller
coaster again.



NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: -=Do you fuck the crazy ones?=- (6/11/2012 11:11:40 PM)

I used to fuck the crazy ones. lol But not anymore, I'm getting too old for that shit. Kinky yeah, crazy no.

NBMG



kitkat105 -> RE: -=Do you fuck the crazy ones?=- (6/11/2012 11:23:06 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Muttling

Damn Kitka!!!!! I'm a little crazy and you're OMG cute. Too bad we're a planet apart and both taken.



I'm a little crazy too! Maybe in another life. [;)]



LadyPact -> RE: -=Do you fuck the crazy ones?=- (6/11/2012 11:26:22 PM)

Evidently, I do, though that wasn't exactly My intention.



Katayotta -> RE: -=Do you fuck the crazy ones?=- (6/12/2012 12:54:47 AM)

Of course. They're the most fun. However, you NEVER, NEVER NEVER NEVER EVER bring them to your own house, Give them your real name or give them your real cell number (that's what burners are for)

Have your fun then toss them aside and hope they were clean if you neglected to use a rubber.



everhope -> RE: -=Do you fuck the crazy ones?=- (6/12/2012 6:03:57 AM)

a fuck is a fuck....
of course, most of us have fucked a crazy one.

now for making a long lasting living situation probably not going to happen....

gotta love a crazy, creative genuis, however it sure is exhausting.






may we all find our bliss



LadyHibiscus -> RE: -=Do you fuck the crazy ones?=- (6/12/2012 7:12:21 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Evidently, I do, though that wasn't exactly My intention.


Who plans to have a pet monster? Well, some people... [:(]



chatterbox24 -> RE: -=Do you fuck the crazy ones?=- (6/12/2012 7:16:56 AM)

Inventive, Unqiue, spur of the moment, intense, creative, simmering, mysterious, interesting, smouldering, confident, successful, passionate, calm, intelligent bordering almost insane, roll that in a ball thats as crazy as I want.

The crazy not wanted is, brushes with the law, cant keep a job, drug use, firecracker temper, anxiety ridden, doesnt pay bills.

Oh that just makes every day life unbearable.



Iamsemisweet -> RE: -=Do you fuck the crazy ones?=- (6/12/2012 7:23:34 AM)

I had a schizophrenic boyfriend for about six months shortly after I graduated from college. I realized that being involved in screaming fights where the neighbors called the cops was not how I wanted to live my life. No thanks on crazy.



kalikshama -> RE: -=Do you fuck the crazy ones?=- (6/12/2012 7:45:00 AM)

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Problem is, between that hot, hot sex, they exhaust me. Not a result of that sex, just what they do out of bed.  The lies, theft, medical and emotional problems.


Oh yes. Fortunately, I never lived with any of them for more than a few weeks.



Kana -> RE: -=Do you fuck the crazy ones?=- (6/12/2012 7:56:27 AM)

I got a buddy, his dating philosophy is, and I shit thee not here, "If she's creepy, she's gonna be freaky."


Now me, ahhhhhhhhhh-as a kid, if that attraction, that electric energy was there I would charge right in, light brigade style, and suffer the consequences later.
I've had lots of relationships where the only thing we did better than fight was have make up sex. And I've dated some real fruit loops in my day-I'm talking strung out, medicine cabinet full of antipsychotics, on the lam from the law sorta folks.
But here's the thing.
Crazy and tumultuous as those things are, they just take waaaaaaaaaaay too much out of me. I have a lot less time and a lot less temperament to deal with other peoples crap (Which is strange because I've developed a level of patience that I would never have guessed possible in my life), and frankly, I'm just too damn old to ut up with the constant emotional upheaval and drama.
So, to answer your question in a long winded roundabout way, I used to, but I steer clear of loonies nowadays...to the point where I look for red flags from the minute I meet her and have zero compunctions about backing out iof I see too many of em.
But the sick attraction...grins...that's kinda still there...I mean, I'd love to hatefuck Lindsey Lohan.
That says it all right there.

And purely BTW, isn't this question kinda redundant?
I mean, ain't all women batshit crazy and deranged, by definition?

(And if she ain't now, she can go zero to psycho in .0001 seconds if ya hit the right button?)



And then, Kana flees for his life before the hordes of angry demented women scalp his overly honest ass :-P



littlewonder -> RE: -=Do you fuck the crazy ones?=- (6/12/2012 8:00:50 AM)

Hey now!! [:-]



Kana -> RE: -=Do you fuck the crazy ones?=- (6/12/2012 8:06:05 AM)

Points and cackles as the very first one proves my theory true!










And then runs waaaaaaaay faster



sexyred1 -> RE: -=Do you fuck the crazy ones?=- (6/12/2012 8:10:23 AM)

I have fucked the crazy ones and they fucked me, and may have thought I was crazy too.

The difference is, I am crazy in the bedroom (good), and they were crazy in the bedroom AND the rest of the time (bad).

It is fine to fuck crazy, but never fall in love with someone crazy; it usually ends badly and can scar you in ways you never imagined.

I hate to say this, but the best sex of my life has been with the bad boys. In the end, that does not matter; now I am seeking nice, with a controlled side of crazy sex.



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