Karmastic
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ORIGINAL: Lockit
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ORIGINAL: Only4MyKisses
Ok I got to know, why is it that there are soooooooo many subs on this site that claim they want RT D/s relationships and I spend time, getting to know them, chatting with them and when it comes down to meeting them they are all full of crap, they are cowards! u guys seek Me out, I Never search for u, I am a Very honest person, I have online subs as well that I only chat with online, and I am fine with that, as W/we established that is what it was going to be from the begining, then there are the 1s that claim that RT is what they are seeking but when it comes down to it u guys r cowards and fakes??? if all u want is some1 to chat with just say so, be real about it,
Do you really wish to know or are you just venting? If you hear something of worth, will you consider it?
Your profile and what you say there is your presentation of yourself and what you may be like. If you are honest... then lets start being honest with self. Read your profile as a male would. If you wish to capture the male beast, you need to know the male beast... in general. Using your profile as a representation of who you are... it needs to be about you and what you may want if you wish to be taken seriously by those that will take a domina seriously. Most may be wankers, but you can limit their numbers by not playing their game.
From moment one I saw that you are feeding into the wankers by asking twice in a short profile, for them to tell you what they want. For the most part, the online male wants to talk about sex and kink and wants nothing further. If you want a submissive male and not just a kinkster getting his online game on... don't feed them. Tell men about who you are and what you want, as completely as you are comfortable with. Let them know what you expect, with strength rather than anger.
If you start out with them sending you what they are interested in, YOU are setting yourself up for the types of men that will lie, will cheat, will play and only focus on play to get their kink on and you really have no one to blame but yourself. People will lie and cheat... you need to narrow the odds.
If you wish to be a prime and choice domina and treated as such... then you need to act like choice, prime domina... you need to become choice domina, rather than a woman trying to play a part or get needs met in a needy manner, which is what I see you doing. Know yourself and men in general. You have to respect yourself before anyone else will or it is a game. The men will play and play you... but you are setting the stage for it and giving them an assist.
good post generally, except what i bolded red. how on earth do you know these things?
speaking for myself, i will tell you that's not true.
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Very well said, Ms Lockit. 
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