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RE: What is up with all these cowards claiming they r &... - 6/18/2012 5:53:16 PM

Karmastic

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: Karmastic

i was going more in the direction of, if a guy can choose between cyber sex, and the real thing, 99% of the time, they'll choose the real thing.

1) You're assuming they're capable of having the real thing. For a variety of reasons, many people online aren't

2) You're underestimating how lazy people can be. Men far out number women in WIITWD. That means that guys have to present themselves as something special. A lot of guys can't be bothered to put forth that effort.

#1, yes, i am.

#2 - i agree with bolded portion. okay, I'll take your word for it on the rest.

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RE: What is up with all these cowards claiming they r &... - 6/18/2012 7:32:36 PM

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Loved the juxtaposition of the corn flake!

I'm just waiting on the van to come....

Actually I can't claim it. It's a lyric from the Beatles, I Am The Walrus

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RE: What is up with all these cowards claiming they r &... - 6/18/2012 8:12:30 PM

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I wank off to your pic all the time babe. It's the polyester in the background that really does it for me.

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RE: What is up with all these cowards claiming they r &... - 6/20/2012 10:00:55 AM

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It's the text speak op. It makes them all assume you're underage and as they don't want to go to jail, they won't meet you.

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RE: What is up with all these cowards claiming they r &... - 6/20/2012 10:31:48 AM

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People flake out for all sorts of reasons.
It's a mistake to invest to much in something
before it actually is something.

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RE: What is up with all these cowards claiming they r &... - 6/21/2012 10:36:45 PM

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It sucks to be a male sub. Most are neither valued or respected. It isn't always cowardice that keeps us away, but rather, not every Domme is worth our time/effort. It isn't easy to get and keep a Domme's attention. The demographics are not in our favor, and at some point a guy has to cash his chips in and walk away. Now that is different than having a meeting arranged and no call/ no show but from many of our point of view, the situation is getting less and less viable and at some point we have to consider if this is worth our time.

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RE: What is up with all these cowards claiming they r &... - 6/22/2012 11:22:43 AM

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Most of the domina's that I respect, value and respect submissive men... they are rare. I can find a bottom every day... within minutes of one another, but a man submissive in most his ways, that enjoys kink, but wants more to submit... they are harder to find. I suggest that if you wish to be valued and respected, read a profile well, if you are seeking online. If you can't see within the profile and her opportunity to show a bit of who she is and that she might respect and value a submissive, forget her and move on. You stand a better chance of finding a good match when you are selective in the first place and not seeking when overly hungry. Just like shopping when you are hungry... you sometimes select foods you wouldn't have, had you been a little less hungry.

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