What does "slut" shown a profile mean to you?

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MzWhipplash -> What does "slut" shown a profile mean to you? (6/20/2012 6:17:02 PM)
Whether the person be male or female D type or s-type- if they described themselves as slut, what does that mean to you ? Your honest opinion would be useful.

Karmastic -> RE: What does "slut" shown a profile mean to you? (6/20/2012 6:50:55 PM)
we all know the basic definition of slut - likes to have a lot of sex with many partners. in the BDSM context, to me, it means the first, but not necessarily the second. from what i've personally seen, it usually does NOT mean the second thing frowns. i.e., i have no negative connotations when someone self-describes as a slut. i think, thank fucking g*d, a woman who's owning it and is past all the bullshit. also, i think of myself as a slut, and i suppose, i am. i think deep down, most men are wired for that (shotgun, not sniper). but perhaps not as much as i wish i was, and perhaps i should watch what i wish for.

Endivius -> RE: What does "slut" shown a profile mean to you? (6/20/2012 7:23:18 PM)
To me it just means they are trying to advertise a supposed high sex drive or lower sexual inhibitions. I don't really pay attention to it.

Kaliko -> RE: What does "slut" shown a profile mean to you? (6/20/2012 8:02:55 PM)
I think I do have negative associations with the word "slut." I've used it, of course...mostly to describe my feeling a certain way while with a partner. Slut for him kind of thing. Then, of course, there are the women who joke about being a slut. I've done that. It's not always serious and...well...slutty. Sometimes it's just a fun descriptor that adults can understand. But I don't think I could use that word to describe myself on my profile. It's quite the opposite, in fact, of who I am. It would very false advertising. I guess when I see/hear the word slut, I take it as its straight definition, and while I don't have any moral objection to it (I wish I was more easygoing about it! Believe me!) it personally is just a turnoff to me, so therefore, the negative feelings. I suppose.

Hillwilliam -> RE: What does "slut" shown a profile mean to you? (6/20/2012 8:10:00 PM)
A slut can be monogamous. A woman who has totally ditched society's 'expectations' about what a good girl should do and has discovered the pleasure that her body can cause and feel is on her way. When she decided to completely disassociate herself from what 'other people' think and go her own way. Then, she can become a slut. The monogamous slut just spends all that energy one one lucky person. Some day, I hope to have that again.

slaveluci -> RE: What does "slut" shown a profile mean to you? (6/20/2012 8:21:39 PM)
My honest opinion is: The word "slut" only bothers me or seems negative/hurtful when it is slung AT someone because you disapprove of his/her sexual behavior. No one has the right to make that judgment and condemn another just because they are perhaps more promiscuous than you are. When someone refers to him/her self as a "slut," I figure they know themselves better than anyone. To me, it means that they enjoy sex and have lots of it, perhaps of the typically-seen-as sleazy, down and dirty variety. I would say I've been a slut since I was a teen. I don't see it as a negative description or one meaning I have low self esteem at all. I take pride in the slutty fun I've had and don't plan on changing it anytime soon.......luci

Kaliko -> RE: What does "slut" shown a profile mean to you? (6/20/2012 8:23:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam A woman who has totally ditched society's 'expectations' about what a good girl should do and has discovered the pleasure that her body can cause and feel is on her way. When she decided to completely disassociate herself from what 'other people' think and go her own way. Then, she can become a slut. Oh, I completely disagree. That's someone who is discovering her sexuality. If that's a slut...well...then I guess I should go change my profile. :)

littlewonder -> RE: What does "slut" shown a profile mean to you? (6/20/2012 8:46:33 PM)
It means they're looking for a fantasy in their heads and/or they are very new to the scene. They think that bdsm is all about sex so they are more into kinky sex than bdsm imo.

Whenready -> RE: What does "slut" shown a profile mean to you? (6/20/2012 11:20:17 PM)
Likes sex. Likes (or doesn't care about) multiple partners. Can't remember the TOS so will use an asterisk - likes to fck or be fcked.

SoulAlloy -> RE: What does "slut" shown a profile mean to you? (6/21/2012 2:26:50 AM)
Hmmm... I love being called a slut lol If I saw it on a profile here I'd just take it to mean either "sexually adventurous" or "this activity makes me damn horny" depending on the context. I used to have on my profile "I'm a slut for fetishwear"

crazyml -> RE: What does "slut" shown a profile mean to you? (6/21/2012 3:59:17 AM)
meh. Context is everything. For some it implies liking lots of sex with lots of people (the "trad" definition of slut). For others it implies that the person is expressing that they've taken charge of their own sexuality. And every possible permutation between the two.

experiment2 -> RE: What does "slut" shown a profile mean to you? (6/21/2012 5:59:19 AM)
one Domme liked to call me her slut and i used it while serving Her. it did cause me some concern and was degrading to me. i sippose that was her intent. it summed up what She thought my status was as a submissive and left no doubt Whom was in charge. For others it probably means someone who will do most anything they are told to and might portray themself as completely submissive.

JstAnotherSub -> RE: What does "slut" shown a profile mean to you? (6/21/2012 6:44:31 AM)
On this site, slut wouldn't even catch my eye. Sidenote, I was not aware folks actually lived on Fetlife! ;o)

OsideGirl -> RE: What does "slut" shown a profile mean to you? (6/21/2012 7:09:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Endivius To me it just means they are trying to advertise a supposed high sex drive or lower sexual inhibitions. I don't really pay attention to it. ^^^^This. Most of the time it's just a BDSM D/s affectation.

RemoteUser -> RE: What does "slut" shown a profile mean to you? (6/21/2012 7:11:45 AM)
I've always associated 'slut' with sexual adventure and courage. Having multiple partners might be a manifestation of that, but I don't put it there; society can do that for me, I'm sure. The courage is especially apt, as it expresses a confidence and ownership of your own sexual desires. Letting someone control you, or serve you, is still a choice, after all. (Have to tip the hat to both sides of the kneel, there.) By that definition I could be referred to as a slut, and wouldn't take offense. Some mistakenly think of me as one just because I have dangly bits. Society does remind me of a funhouse, the hall of mirrors in particular.

Kana -> RE: What does "slut" shown a profile mean to you? (6/21/2012 7:44:09 AM)
It means I ain't going in there without wearing 3 condoms :-)

OsideGirl -> RE: What does "slut" shown a profile mean to you? (6/21/2012 8:07:11 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kana It means I ain't going in there without wearing 3 condoms :-) How about a full body condom?

Lucifyre -> RE: What does "slut" shown a profile mean to you? (6/21/2012 10:34:36 AM)
I'm a slut and damn proud of it! I'm a slut for Mr. and anything he chooses to do with/ to me. I'm a slut for bondage and rope. Tie me up and do dirty things to me. I'm a pain slut. Beat me until I cry, leave marks while you're there, I dare you to try LOL (I don't mark well) I'm a slut for women who like to get into my head and tell me things that make me feel dirty in that warm squishy fuck me RIGHT NOW kind of way. I'm a slut for pretty sexy outfits that makes everyone's heads turn. I'm a slut for messy dirty raunchy sex that leaves you breathless in a puddle unable to get up for a few minutes and the sheets needing a good wash. The term slut to me means I don't give a damn what other people/ society thinks of what I enjoy doing. Raise your brow, look down your nose at me, scoff at the things I like to do with my chosen partners sexual or otherwise and I'll just tell you build a bridge and get the fuck over it because your opinions don't count in my world unless I allow them to...and then only if I've asked for them. It means I don't have to let my head get in my way of doing things that feel good to me and the people around me. I look at my sluttiness as kind of my religion....I don't push it on other people unless they want me to but I enjoy it to the fullest with those that do. Lucifyre p.s. I am also a slut for chocolate ;)

hlen5 -> RE: What does "slut" shown a profile mean to you? (6/21/2012 11:28:15 AM)
Another thread discussing this. http://www.collarchat.com/m_4133036/mpage_1/tm.htm I use "slut's vote" in my avatar only as a political statement.

needlesandpins -> RE: What does "slut" shown a profile mean to you? (6/21/2012 12:03:40 PM)
i'm a slut for him, acting in a wanton depraved way for him, and giving myself over to his wants. he is a slut for me in exactly the same way. we are selfish, and giving in our sluttiness. even so, i don't think i'd put it in my profile, but i've no idea how i'd see it being in a guy's profile. needles

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