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Mother's advice on getting a man--lol - 6/8/2006 4:04:51 AM   
irishbynature


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Status: offline 		My mother always told me....(I find this so interesting....) "Honey, the way to a man's heart is not only  through his stomach....you have to feed them, then you have to please them (behind closed doors), then feed them again...only then, will you win the heart of a man"....LOLOLOL....Mothers! Generational thing, perhaps?
Any thoughts on that one?  I've never found her wisdom to be true!
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RE: Mother's advice on getting a man--lol - 6/8/2006 4:12:00 AM   
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RE: Mother's advice on getting a man--lol - 6/8/2006 4:12:55 AM   
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Status: offline 		I think Mothers have alot of wisdom, it just takes awhile for that wisdom to catch up to us sometimes.  As for feeding a man, yep, I think that works..

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RE: Mother's advice on getting a man--lol - 6/8/2006 4:17:11 AM   
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Status: offline 		[email protected] about them feeding us for a change?...grins

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RE: Mother's advice on getting a man--lol - 6/8/2006 4:17:55 AM   
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Status: offline 		First of all, my Mother would NEVER talk about anything taking place behind closed doors !!!!!! <grin>

My Mother's advice has been - and always will be - find one at church.  (The only unmarried male I've ever seen in church is the priest.)

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RE: Mother's advice on getting a man--lol - 6/8/2006 4:49:51 AM   
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Status: offline 		My grandmothers advice; be a good cook, keep a neat house, never show your ankles in public, when you get behind closed doors forget you are a lady and do what comes natural, let him know you love it and he'll see to it you do.

This must have worked, they had 23 children over a 40 year period. My grandpa was a very happy man.


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RE: Mother's advice on getting a man--lol - 6/8/2006 4:54:49 AM   
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Generational thing, perhaps?


Nope.  Pleasing him with food and sex, it's fun and hopefully it works.  But you need to enjoy what you are doing for him, otherwise it's just empty attempts.




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RE: Mother's advice on getting a man--lol - 6/8/2006 5:04:16 AM   
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ORIGINAL: irishbynature

My mother always told me....(I find this so interesting....) "Honey, the way to a man's heart is not only  through his stomach....you have to feed them, then you have to please them (behind closed doors), then feed them again...only then, will you win the heart of a man"....LOLOLOL....Mothers! Generational thing, perhaps?
Any thoughts on that one?  I've never found her wisdom to be true!
Grins,
Irishbynature
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You mean take-out and a quick blow job isn't enough????
 
No wonder I can't rope in a good one!

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RE: Mother's advice on getting a man--lol - 6/8/2006 5:05:05 AM   
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Make me smile. Make me laugh. Be interested in me, interesting to me, accept me, support me. Make me proud to call you "mine".
 
Do those things, and I won't care overly much if you can cook or not .
 
But the sex.... umm, yes.
 
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RE: Mother's advice on getting a man--lol - 6/8/2006 5:56:06 AM   
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Status: offline 		It's funny my mother never told me feed 'em but the day before i got married she told me that men want a lady outside the bedroom and lots of kink inside the bedroom.  She said you keep your man happy no need to worry whether they stray.  She also told me never tell them no.  hhhhmmm i guess i listened for the most part.

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RE: Mother's advice on getting a man--lol - 6/8/2006 6:11:44 AM   
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Status: offline 		My Mom's advice was  Be pretty at all times, learn to cook, keep a clean house and always let him think he is right. Dad's advice Learn to take care of yourself, get a good job, save your money and don't listen to your Mother. I took Dad's advice and am much happier for it

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RE: Mother's advice on getting a man--lol - 6/8/2006 6:13:06 AM   
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mother always told me....(I find this so interesting....) "Honey, the way to a man's heart is not only through his stomach....you have to feed them, then you have to please them (behind closed doors), then feed them again...only then, will you win the heart of a man"....LOLOLOL....Mothers! Generational thing, perhaps?

If by generational you mean pretty much every generation of women have been raised with that sort of mindset towards security and relationships for quite a long while- yes it is.

It's actually pretty degrading to men as much as it is to women.

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RE: Mother's advice on getting a man--lol - 6/8/2006 6:56:10 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

If by generational you mean pretty much every generation of women have been raised with that sort of mindset towards security and relationships for quite a long while- yes it is.

It's actually pretty degrading to men as much as it is to women.


True LA..I agree with your statement. However, at the time, when the traditional role of 'wife' was wearing the apron and waiting for hubby to return from the office; she, at the front door with a drink in hand, after she's cleaned the house all day in heels and a dress.  (Darn, doing that sounded sexy...I might have a new fetish! LOL)
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RE: Mother's advice on getting a man--lol - 6/8/2006 6:58:08 AM   
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From the male perspective:
 
Make me smile. Make me laugh. Be interested in me, interesting to me, accept me, support me. Make me proud to call you "mine".
 
Do those things, and I won't care overly much if you can cook or not .
 
But the sex.... umm, yes.
 
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WTG Level....!!! I agree!
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RE: Mother's advice on getting a man--lol - 6/8/2006 6:59:36 AM   
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RE: Mother's advice on getting a man--lol - 6/8/2006 7:04:43 AM   
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You mean take-out and a quick blow job isn't enough????
 
No wonder I can't rope in a good one!


What kind of take-out?

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RE: Mother's advice on getting a man--lol - 6/8/2006 8:14:46 AM   
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ORIGINAL: irishbynature

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

If by generational you mean pretty much every generation of women have been raised with that sort of mindset towards security and relationships for quite a long while- yes it is.

It's actually pretty degrading to men as much as it is to women.


True LA..I agree with your statement. However, at the time, when the traditional role of 'wife' was wearing the apron and waiting for hubby to return from the office; she, at the front door with a drink in hand, after she's cleaned the house all day in heels and a dress.  (Darn, doing that sounded sexy...I might have a new fetish! LOL)
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There's certainly a modest appeal in the 50's housewife sort of submissive role, but it would wear thin quickly, without more substance.  It seems to me that a good partner tends to his/her partner's needs, whatever they may be.

The best ones know what to do already.

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RE: Mother's advice on getting a man--lol - 6/8/2006 8:17:57 AM   
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You mean take-out and a quick blow job isn't enough????
 
No wonder I can't rope in a good one!


What kind of take-out?

Ron


lmaooo.  I love an easy man!! 

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RE: Mother's advice on getting a man--lol - 6/8/2006 8:20:20 AM   
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Status: offline 		I thought the quickest way to a man's heart was through the ribcage???  OK, just kidding, relax men...I didn't mean it.  LOL 


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RE: Mother's advice on getting a man--lol - 6/8/2006 8:22:07 AM   
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