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ORIGINAL: CougarRick

OK, I don't know if this has been addresed; I did try to search it and found nothing so here goes.

Can a sub initiate gestures of affection or is he required to literally wait even for that to be instructed. For example can a;

1: Sub upon entering the residence just go up and give his dom a kiss, hug...etc?

2: If the dom is stresssed, can he just go up and initiate a shourlder rub before being told to do so?

3: Walking along the street can he grab the doms hand to hold hands?

These sorts of things.

I realize every dom is different to an extent, but I just want to hear some insites so as to get a sense of the boundaries.

Is it OK for a sub to show gestures of affection without first being instructed, or is that a huge faux pas? Should he literally do nothing, even in non play/sex situations until told to act?

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

JJ knows stuff. He's a complete piker (WHERE is my capybara??) But he knows stuff. He's also nice to his mom.

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

No charge for that testimonial, JJ.